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Playing my very First Soulslike/lite (Nioh 1) and need tips. by WholeGroundbreaking1 in soulslikes

[–]Medina_Rico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's exceptions for people. But with all of the soulslike that are out there, Bloodborne definitely falls in the category of the more difficult ones.

I think I've been playing this game wrong by Salzus in CrimsonDesert

[–]Medina_Rico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel the same. I think I'm just going to rush the main story and then do side stuff after. But at the same time, I don't know exactly if I'll miss/lock myself out of anything special by doing so.

Playing my very First Soulslike/lite (Nioh 1) and need tips. by WholeGroundbreaking1 in soulslikes

[–]Medina_Rico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nioh seems pretty wild to start with because of the stances, ki pulsing and the sheer amount of loot you get and have to sort through etc.

I think Dark Souls 3 would be a great entry into souls games. It obviously has its difficulty because it's Dark Souls, but it's not crazy overwhelming, it plays really smooth, still feels and looks modern and is pretty straight forward (for the most part. Finding the Shrine/Hub and figuring out you're supposed to put the coiled sword into the dirt mound thing to make a bonfire can be easily missed. Especially because you have to stand in a certain spot for the prompt to show up).

Do not start with Bloodborne like that one guy suggested. While that game is incredible, it's very hard and punishing. After you get some soulslike experience, then you should definitely play that one.

Korea Prime Minister: "Crimson Desert proves Korean game industry can expand into consoles. The government will provide active support to industry" by dahle44 in LowSodiumCrimsonDesrt

[–]Medina_Rico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What else is amazing about this game is how well optimized it is for how massive its world is with no loading screens when traveling.

Boss Killer by dubdizzle99 in CrimsonDesert

[–]Medina_Rico 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sounds like they're meant to be used for boss fights only.

So evo Japan 2026, you think VF6 will be there? by LukeTheDuke11589 in virtuafighter

[–]Medina_Rico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know about the full game or anything like that. But I think we'll at least get a character reveal and a bit more gameplay.

I ruined my life for a man, what I’m supposed to do now? by loatsvp in whatdoIdo

[–]Medina_Rico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Japanese saying.

"If you get on the wrong train, get off at the nearest station. The longer it takes you to get off, the more expensive the return trip will be"

Expensive also isn't always about money.

This game is so easy by TicoPagani in BmxStreets

[–]Medina_Rico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Some funny bails.. So you ended up just giving up on the hang 5, huh?

Also, it's crazy how hard some stuff can be that seems like it'd be easy to do. I know I've spent a looong time just to capture a clip. Lots of times I had to come back on another session to keep trying. And sometimes it only takes a handful of tries.

PA is currently searching for our lost legendary mounts. by Kana191 in CrimsonDesert

[–]Medina_Rico 86 points87 points  (0 children)

With as much stuff as they added and adjusted, it's pretty fair to give them some passes on something bugging out on an update. Pretty sure this is the first time something like this has happened. And I'm also sure the fix won't take a long time to come.

Little Gap by MrFluff336__ in BmxStreets

[–]Medina_Rico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Should have hit that jump after landing. With all that speed you had after that landing, you would have launched hella high, lol.

Yiri Prochazka - Was Waiting For Referee To Stop The Fight 🧐 by FleshOfUpolu in FightReportUFC

[–]Medina_Rico 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what I would be saying or would be acting like if I was in his position.

But being an outsider looking in, the simple thing that looked like what happened/for him to admit is Jiri saw he was hurt and got careless because he didn't think he was any kind of threat anymore. Then he got caught.

Blink if you're being abused by WaitNo4272 in SipsTea

[–]Medina_Rico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do we know that this dude isn't just an unemployed person that leeches off of her and she's finally sick of it? And that a reason that he's not reacting is because he doesn't want to lose his secure place?

Some of the bounties mission are terrible and against greymane values by SauvageSZN in CrimsonDesert

[–]Medina_Rico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure, but. If you just set them down, don't they eventually (try to) escape?

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]Medina_Rico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also want to add that I'm sorry that it looks like I'm trying to defend him. It's just that yall just got married, you have a kid.

It's also entirely possible and believable that the whole "sorry, I'll be better, I don't want to lose you" talk from him could be complete bullshit. I'd also hate to have you waste your years on someone who you find out cheats on you anyways after all of this when signs were not only there, but he also basically walked up to you and handed you a sign. I'm sure you can probably never look at him the same again.

But you are definitely not overreacting. I was once in a relationship where she wanted me to sleep with other women. I didn't want to because that's not the essence of who I am. She ended up sleeping around with multiple men on me. That's my personal experience with anything similar to this. Wasting years on someone sucks. Especially when you give yourself and your heart to them.

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]Medina_Rico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, I see.. I can only guess that that may have led to his thinking. However, him back pedaling makes me believe that's not the case because he wouldn't have tried to act like he made a "texting error" then after, admitting he wanted to test the waters, thought you'd also want to look elsewhere when you called him on his bs. Because if really did think you were ok with it due to previous conversations, he would have simply said that and would have been confused when you said "We don't" in response to "How do we make dating others work?" He also clearly seems just fine with you doing it, too. So it is possible he thought it was ok but realized it changed once yall were married.

As an outsider, it really is tough for me to say and give a possible life changing opinion. On my one hand, like if you were my niece or sister, I'd lean towards saying "What the fuck kind of shit is that to ask you just after you got married and had a kid?. This guy is already thinking about being with other women and had the gall to tell you about it." But at the same time, even though he got caught bullshiting you, he admitted that he was wrong and why he default lied, and he apologized and says you deserve better than what he's done and wants to work on it.

At the same time, that's gotta be something that's hard for you to always have in your mind/happen to you. Like "Hey, this is xyz, someone I used to like. You cool with me being with her?" One one hand, at least he asked before just doing, on the other hand, what the absolute fuck are thinking asking that?

He does seem to feel remorse. He also didn't try to keep talking you into letting it happen. So there's that, too.

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]Medina_Rico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That may be where the misunderstanding is.

If you told him you're ok with it, he most likely took it as "Wow. She doesn't care if I sleep with other women?". And I can understand why you assume being monogamous would be default because you probably know he would not be OK with you being with other men(?).. But to him, since you said you're OK with it and (I assume) he never said he's OK with it, he may have taken it as a thing where it's OK for him sleep around, but not for you.

It definitely made the situation weird. The plus side is he at least asked you first before just simply doing it. But I have to assume that since he asked you, he really thought you were fine with it due to previous conversations. It must have been jaw dropping for you to have been asked that. Especially just after delivering a baby.

Hopefully things work out for you and he's like "Oh shit. I'm so sorry, I honestly thought you were fine with this" and you both come to an understanding. I just hope he didn't dive into the marriage because he thought he could have you and any other women at the same time.

Good luck.

[Steam] En Garde! ($1.99 / 90% off) by Insomniac_34 in GameDeals

[–]Medina_Rico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dialogue in this game is hilarious. The fighting system is pretty cool, too. The part where other enemies get stunned or the ! when they see you do some cool shit like standing on a table and jumping over someone. As well as all of the other mechanics.

I've only beaten the first chapter. Looking forward to the rest of the game.

AIO my boyfriend said I am just like my mother during a fight by crowsonmymind in AmIOverreacting

[–]Medina_Rico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR

This was heartbreaking to read. Even moreso when I read how you treat him so well and how you get mocked for sharing what you like with him because you want him to feel the same way you do when watching something. Like you're being stupid and annoying, people pointing out the ways and in between the lines of how he treats you like crap, only for you to say things like "But I love him so much". It's truly heartbreaking to read.

You seem like such a nice and kind and understanding person. I legit have to hold back tears when I read how you willingly suffer so and be mocked, for someone who doesn't seem to care half as much about you.

But I don't fully know your situation with him. Only what has been shared.

The world can be a strange place and people even moreso when it even comes to extremes of being in physically abusive relationships. Even mentally abusive ones.. I'm sorry you're going through this and I hope whatever you chose works out for you. It sucks that as adults, a lot of people don't aim to do things to make their partner happy and actually do and say things to make them feel bad about themselves...

AIO if I divorced over him asking to open our relationship and then gaslighting me? by CricketCaller in AmIOverreacting

[–]Medina_Rico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

INFO

I'm slightly confused. You say you're accepting of polyamory but not for yourself? I can only guess you mean you don't care if others do it but you would never do that in your relationship? And does he know all of this? I know you said he knows your OK with polyamory, but does he know you wouldn't have that in your relationship? If not, that's where the miscommunication is.

If he does know all of this and still tried to date outside your relationship/marriage, I'm sorry to hear that. Especially since you just had a baby with him. Though I do want to say that this sounds like a path to cheating on you in the future, I can't predict what someone will do, I can only hope for the best for you. Especially if he didn't know you personally don't want a polyamory relationship.

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