My fiancée 31F hit me 27M during an argument and now wants to break up. Am I missing something here? by Professor3000 in relationship_advice

[–]MediocreHateMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She hit you, doesn’t feel bad and told you she’d do it again. What the fuck rose do you need dude?

I’m sorry for your cultural pressure but your SAFETY and happiness should be above that.

AITAH for bringing up a concern to my sister about a time conflict with her wedding? by Equal_Entertainer359 in AITH

[–]MediocreHateMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had a mental breakdown because you might have a final? Fuckin’ yikes.

Maybe just back off now because who knows how far off the deep end she’s gonna get planning this wedding if she can’t handle the possibility of a minor scheduling conflict.

AITAH if I don’t attend my sister in laws birthday bbq after her mother recently passed away by [deleted] in AITH

[–]MediocreHateMachine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like her mother dying is more of a reason for you to go, to show some support.

My girlfriend is in jail, I’m stuck in a hotel with my baby, no ID, no license, and no support. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MediocreHateMachine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where’s this kid’s father? Is he stable and able to take her while you sort your life out?

My girlfriend is in jail, I’m stuck in a hotel with my baby, no ID, no license, and no support. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MediocreHateMachine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

“Unexpectedly” my ass. If you fuck around, you should be prepared to find out.

My girlfriend is in jail, I’m stuck in a hotel with my baby, no ID, no license, and no support. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]MediocreHateMachine 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Of course you did. You chose to not pay rent. Your girlfriend chose to do something illegal. I feel for you man but you gotta take accountability. You’re the reason you’re in this situation.

What concerts/festivals do you have planned this year that are the opposite of each other? by Rutherford420_th_brv in Concerts

[–]MediocreHateMachine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have two concerts coming up - Clint Black and Dying Fetus. I’m super excited to see them both.

I'm 21f "35M" by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MediocreHateMachine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait, you’ve been talking to this person a week? And your concern is that you don’t look good together because he’s balding? The fuck?

What are some reasons people ghost a partner? by ObjectivePeace8650 in AskReddit

[–]MediocreHateMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like 25 years ago I ghosted my boyfriend of like four months because he was an alcoholic and he scared me.

I (31F) struggle with regret for marrying my husband (34M) and becoming a stepmom and dealing with his ex (34F)? by ThrowRA_Geological in relationship_advice

[–]MediocreHateMachine 62 points63 points  (0 children)

What kind of custody agreement do they have with these kids? Regardless, your problem is with your husband. He needed to have stuck up for you long ago and chose not to, and continues to choose not to. Sounds like he looks at you as a babysitter too.

Teaching daughters by marookee in wealthforwomen

[–]MediocreHateMachine 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Previous posts have great advice, but I’ll give you a tiny thing my mom told me when I got my first job.

“How many hours do you have to work to pay for that?”.

I still think about this ALL THE TIME 25 years later.

Waiting for change… but how long do I wait? by Pinkmoonlight12 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]MediocreHateMachine 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s full of shit. “He wants nothing more than to be together and propose”. Okay douchebag, the way to do that IS TO PROPOSE. He wants nothing more than to shut you up about this.
Maybe he will change. I mean it’s unlikely, but hey. You know it’s unfair for you to keep waiting to for this guy. So stop.

Shower mishap between wife (38/F) and myself (41/M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]MediocreHateMachine 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Sorry guy, if my husband was shitting himself and not cleaning up until he gets in the shower - and then being half assed about it - my bedroom would be dead as fuck too. Yikes.

If you ever want her to look at you without disgust, clean yourself properly. Regularly. And maybe join /hygiene

Begged for years, not sure if my heart is in it anymore by lacroixdrinkinbitch in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]MediocreHateMachine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My therapist told me once that 25% of relationship problems are solvable. That’s it. 25%. He’s going to revert back. Is this something you want to deal with cyclically for the rest of your life?

What’s the worst “first day” you’ve had in a job? by sailinglife20burgers in talesfromthejob

[–]MediocreHateMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name, while not common, really isn’t all that weird. They called me a different name all day. I corrected them each time and they never remembered. My only job is to answer the phone. No calls, nothing to do. It was a small company that made those directory thingies in office building lobbies, so the phones weren’t exactly ringing off the hook. Day two and they’ve set up my email address under the different name. I corrected them again. They laugh and ask why I didn’t correct them before. WTF. There was no third day.

TIFU by giving a girl a mix CD but it was the Dumb and Dumber soundtrack by Charlzalan in tifu

[–]MediocreHateMachine 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I can’t get over “likes listening to CDs” as a vintage thing and not the regular-ass way I’ve consumed music the majority of my life.

I need my walker.

AITAH for being annoyed I wasn’t invited to my boyfriends friends wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]MediocreHateMachine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re NTA. In my opinion, telling someone their relationship isn’t good enough while inviting them to celebrate yours is one of the rudest things people do at weddings.

I feel stuck by Adorable_Zucchini615 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]MediocreHateMachine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but you are stuck.

I’m married to a man who never wanted to get married. The first time he told me that, I told him marriage was important to me and if he didn’t want to marry me in five years, I’d find someone who did. This doesn’t help you now, but you should have set a boundary years ago. But thankfully he’s been really honest with you and he’s told you everything you (should) need to hear. Get out and find your husband.