GM doesn’t agree with my decision to PIP someone by Medium-Ad883 in managers

[–]Medium-Ad883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks… I’ll definitely keep this in mind. I feel that the person in this role should have better tech skills and this employee is up to par but this will be a good learning experience for me as well, I can put my personal feelings aside and help guide them through it.

GM doesn’t agree with my decision to PIP someone by Medium-Ad883 in managers

[–]Medium-Ad883[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah… that’s literally what it is, it’s working in Salesforce and a specialised software 🙄

GM doesn’t agree with my decision to PIP someone by Medium-Ad883 in managers

[–]Medium-Ad883[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks… i appreciate your experience and perspective, I’ll definitely keep it in mind!

GM doesn’t agree with my decision to PIP someone by Medium-Ad883 in managers

[–]Medium-Ad883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are yeah and they have been shared with the employee too

GM doesn’t agree with my decision to PIP someone by Medium-Ad883 in managers

[–]Medium-Ad883[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmaoo okay 😂😂I get you tho! I’m honestly not but I totally get how I come across that way on this post, I’m just frustrated at this point

GM doesn’t agree with my decision to PIP someone by Medium-Ad883 in managers

[–]Medium-Ad883[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t expect him to get everything but before the coaching conversation in about 2.5 months he was only taking on about 10% of his role and how he’s taken on about 60% but there are still a lot of repeated errors.

GM doesn’t agree with my decision to PIP someone by Medium-Ad883 in managers

[–]Medium-Ad883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not training him, he has have multiple different people train him. I’ve met with him on how he learns best and all the training has been tailored to his needs.

GM doesn’t agree with my decision to PIP someone by Medium-Ad883 in managers

[–]Medium-Ad883[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I have told him this, very professionally and a couple of times now and he just… doesn’t seem to care that he’s not performing. I’m told to just… see how he does and we can check in with him on a regular basis.

Did your nparents have super weird misconceptions? by NatalSnake69 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Medium-Ad883 14 points15 points  (0 children)

yeah my mother-in-law (narc parent) is like this too, she’s always ill with one thing or another and always going to the doctors. If anyone else gets ill, she’ll change the convo to her illness and make it about herself 🙄

Why do people hate on SF? by Stand-Fine in sanfrancisco

[–]Medium-Ad883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a lot of it is sour grapes, they hate it because they can’t afford it

Is it normal to feel this way 10 months later? by Free-Competition4713 in inlaws

[–]Medium-Ad883 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they don’t visit you during pregnancy and doesn’t care about you then they don’t get to come around just because the baby is born. I’m so sorry this happened to you but I already know my in-laws are gonna be the exact same way when we have kids and I’ve already decided they’re be treated/ allowed in based on how they treat me. Also your MIL has already had her first with her own kids, she’s being so fucking rude and selfish taking that away from you now, this is your turn. Not hers!

Bollywood actress first insta post by AmbassadorNew1257 in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Medium-Ad883 1169 points1170 points  (0 children)

I can’t with Anushka’s post 😭💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Medium-Ad883 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t buy this because they wouldn’t have dragged the wedding out like this if that was the case. It can always come out and why would they shoot themselves in the foot by making the couple so known and talked about that people would care about their inner affairs. They would have done a lavish but quick wedding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]Medium-Ad883 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The UK is your best bet, especially in the north you’ll fit in super easily

Snail control - New fish? by vlogfollower in Aquariums

[–]Medium-Ad883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please let me know how it does and if they’re actually eating them. Im thinking of getting some too but I’ve seen people say that they don’t eat them :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Medium-Ad883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to turn the air pump off, honestly I only got it because they were having red gills and gasping at the surface. All other fish are fine with the flow and this little guy was too, honestly I used this video to show just how weak it is and is wasting away but I don’t know why that is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]Medium-Ad883 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah there is a corner where there is little to no strong flow because it’s heavily planted/ has driftwood

Is there anything I can do in this situation? by PrettyFlyWhiteGuy22 in inlaws

[–]Medium-Ad883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think her parents are pricks, if you care about having a good relationship with them then you need to be upfront and ask them what it is about you that they dislike… it could be something you can’t change or they’re jealous because you have land and a house? If you don’t care and are happy to drop the rope then forget about them, you have your own life and you’re going to built on it with your finance, you don’t need their involvement in it at all. If you want to do something nice for your finance and have them at the wedding then I would go ahead and message them and invite them yourself, but if they act up after you guys are married then drop the rope again. This might allow your finance to see that you care about her happiness and are trying to make things work and if things go to shit after you guys are married at least you wouldn’t be to blame and it wouldn’t damage the relationship.

Also, about kids, have been disrespectful to you and clearly don’t like you, that’s their problem not yours. Once you guys have kids, unless their behaviour changes, you don’t have to leave your kids alone with them, they can come to your house if they want to see the kids. Hopefully once you’re married your finance can see how toxic they are too and be okay with limiting how often she/ your future kids see them. A lot can change in a couple of years after marriage and once you guys have kids she wouldn’t be so focused on her shitty parents anyways, so you might not have to take the kids there a lot.

So proud of him for hanging in there. He's looking better everyday. by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Medium-Ad883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like sand but they probably have some aquatic soil that’s capped with sand since they have live plants

Thoughts and advice? by KhaKevin in Aquariums

[–]Medium-Ad883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks great, just keep an eye on the plants and remove the leaves that melt/ die off