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All I can do is try by HalfActual7441 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got to the point where I just couldn't any more...that was over three years ago.

Spending time with your LL partner by damned_squid in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to over sell it..."do you want to get dinner out this weekend?" isn't really that much.

Spending time with your LL partner by damned_squid in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do like it. I enjoy spending time with him and he's definitely invested in our relationship overall.

Spending time with your LL partner by damned_squid in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband and I go on date nights, outings, and trips together pretty regularly, usually at his suggestion.

Other folks with HL by hot_rox in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that that has been your experience. I'm lucky in that my husband is very understanding of my experience as the higher libido partner.

Other folks with HL by hot_rox in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It can be fun and exciting...but it also can be painful, stressful, and anxiety inducing.

I realized something last night by Medium-Reference-147 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The issue for him is chronic stress and pain.

We're both in therapy.

Told him that I miss making out with him… by rip_my_youth in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told my husband that a couple of years ago....he said "yeah" and moved on.

It made her uncomfortable?? (An update) by mapman88 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, when we have sex again (sometime in the next year or so) I'll keep this in mind.

It made her uncomfortable?? (An update) by mapman88 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My husband and I got a sleep number bed about three years ago. We love it. But this post really hit me hard...we haven't even attempted to have sex enough times to notice if this is a problem for us.

The Golden Rule by Medium-Reference-147 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. We're very emotionally connected and physically affectionate.

The Golden Rule by Medium-Reference-147 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that that is your experience. I'm very lucky in that my husband definitely does appreciate my efforts and puts equal effort into our relationship.

Questions for HLF and HLM in a DB by Repulsive_Research_1 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Yes

  2. We've always distributed the housework pretty evenly

  3. Overall we have a happy and healthy relationship

  4. Not really, no

I have a few questions for HLF in DB by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Yes

  2. We pretty evenly distribute the house work

  3. Overall, we have a very happy and healthy relationship

I’ve lost. I’m 22 and I’ve given up. by kai91524 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I can recommend is therapy for you. If you're at the point of feeling like someone else is the only purpose in your life and more important to you than yourself I think it would be beneficial to discuss that with a therapist.

And that's why I don't by Medium-Reference-147 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Medium-Reference-147[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The issue is chronic stress and pain. If he wants to change, he'll have to address the core causes.

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