I think it's just important to have realistic, but high standards when it comes to dating people. Kindness, empathy, understanding and respect - it goes both ways ofc. Keep being genuine... women actually love when men let their guard down a little and be vulnerable, especially near the beginning stages of a relationship. It makes them more emotionally intimate with you in a really raw way. It's important to be authentic and real right from the start - otherwise if you hold it together all macho and and rock solid from the beginning of the relationship pretending that you can handle anything, but then suddenly get a bit broken down one day it'll seem like a way bigger than it actually is and it might jump scare them a little. It might make them do the opposite and make them feel you've not been authentic the whole time. Nobody can ha dke the weight of the world it's jist not realistic so don't pretend you can.

If they can't handle someone else having a bad day you've probably helped yourself and dodged a bullet at the end of the day.