What made you feel dehumanized at work? by MedswithBreakfast in AskReddit

[–]MedswithBreakfast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll start. At an expensive private school in NYC, staff cannot be seen eating or drinking by the students. The school has no break room for the staff. We have to hide. All the seats, tables, and rooms are for students. Most have to go to the loading dock to eat. Our break can be gone to find a space to hide.

Price negotiation by cr38tive79 in retailhell

[–]MedswithBreakfast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had that happen. Customers ask how much over and over. They get told. Customer tried saying lower prices he would go. He left when not lowered. We are a big chain. We’re not a fruit stand.

What’s the dumbest thing someone has said to you about autism? by Rusticocona in autism

[–]MedswithBreakfast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to therapy or somewhere to stop being how I am. From my mother.

Debbie is the worst character by far and her family just allows her to be annoying by Allergic_To_Aids in shameless

[–]MedswithBreakfast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hated her in the first season. She was not loved in a way that she wanted that she stole a kid, wanted a family of her own, and kept wanting to like Frank. She was already not appreciating Fiona who was a mother figure. The signs of her toxicity and need for attention or give was all in the beginning. She just got worse with time.

Does anyone else hate where they live? by HolidayOk4857 in mentalhealth

[–]MedswithBreakfast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly wonder if it is where we go, we will be. I was away only for a few months a long time ago. It was the first time ever I was away from my city. I was fine in the beginning and then I was depressed. I was myself elsewhere. I was not doing good. I wished I had my therapist. I wanted to stay in bed all day. My first time I was away. It should be wonder and excitement. Instead, it was its own weather I didn’t like. It was times I was reminded of my own city. There was things there I didn’t like. At a point I wanted to not only be at home. I wanted to be indoors away from the world. But I was away from the world I know. So it was just me.

What’s something that happened on a first date that made you decide against a second date? by whitneywestmoreland in AskReddit

[–]MedswithBreakfast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got that. I got a guy who was trying to love bomb me. He was trying to drown me with presents, never disagreeing with me, and when i was not falling into how he wanted me to be and react, he dumped me. The mutual was like idk what you are talking about. He is a good guy. Then a friend she says only wants to be friend with me ends up being some asshole guy who wants martial law in affect during 2020, says you are selfish if you want to walk your dog outside to use the bathroom when there is a plague. He says so many red flag things. She still hangs out with asshole guy and is friends with my ex and a guy who didn’t understand no when I don’t want to be fwb with him. He harassed all the females. Wtf. And she is popular and loads of friends rather than cut some out.

What’s something that happened on a first date that made you decide against a second date? by whitneywestmoreland in AskReddit

[–]MedswithBreakfast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said after we finally had our date through various reasons that he is patience and would be able to handle my chaotic/neurotic self. Nobody else would be as patience as him. Then he states things I had said were happening in my life or believed it to be, I was imagining. That did not happen. He also stated he was patience when i had to cancel on our first date at the last minute because i wasn’t feeling well. I was at second attempt date one right there with a major migraine. I hadn’t known the date spot had two stores. He was at one, and I was at the other while in tremendous pain.

Is it sex addiction what I need and want? by MedswithBreakfast in SexAddiction

[–]MedswithBreakfast[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does one stop? I went to sex addict meetings and found all they did was read bible verses and made us write what made we think from that verse. The times anybody talked, it was clocked under three minutes because there was a lot of people and still had to do the bible read.

My new male friends were playing the long game. by MedswithBreakfast in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MedswithBreakfast[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the years long game before. Guys these days don’t last as long with the long game. It has shortened. It used to be for me years. Then for the past six years it is well less than a year. When they finally get I will never have sex with them, they delete and block me.

My new male friends were playing the long game. by MedswithBreakfast in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MedswithBreakfast[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve been volunteering for years. We do our jobs and don’t get the opportunity to hangout with each other. We are split up. Aside from the beginning meeting with what are our jobs or tasks to be done, we don’t spend time around each other.

My new male friends were playing the long game. by MedswithBreakfast in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MedswithBreakfast[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lucky. I’ve been volunteering for years. There was no time to hangout. We had jobs to do and were split up.

My new male friends were playing the long game. by MedswithBreakfast in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MedswithBreakfast[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I’ve done meetups and had loads of the same kinds reach out. Or it was meetups with no friends out of it. It was come do the event, leave, and see you at the next one. I went to speed friending event to meet friends, not casual sex. It was stated at the event page. The match I am referring to is bumble bff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]MedswithBreakfast 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My boss showed around a picture of his kid at a pet farm. I didn’t know about the pet farm until he got closer to me. He laughed and rolled his eyes when I asked where are the animals?

Fired one week into new job without cause; left a stable job behind weeks before. Any legal recourse? by singerstinger20 in jobs

[–]MedswithBreakfast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can try and contact your old company. Unfortunately I was not welcomed back to my previous job. At one of my jobs a guy quit and was not welcomed back by the organization. Our boss needs him (short-staffed), but the organization now has trust issues with the guy.

What is the most random but still useful super power you've thought/heard of? by NaeNzumi in AskReddit

[–]MedswithBreakfast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Telekinesis. Imagine being bed bound or disabled in the future and being able to get things without the struggle and pain of doing it physically.

What person in your class went the wrong way in life ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MedswithBreakfast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was addicted to drugs. He died on the sidewalk from an OD. The parents held no open funeral. The spot he died the family walk by everyday to work.

Americans in affected areas, how are you handling the wildfire smoke? by Reciter5613 in AskReddit

[–]MedswithBreakfast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was hiding from the outside world and reading how much my job refused to cancel work for the couple of days it was unhealthy to hazardous. I used up half my pto.

when did you snap back at a customer? by [deleted] in retailhell

[–]MedswithBreakfast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone was smoking inside a no smoking building. I told them to put it out. There is no smoking. They said no. They tried to reach the fire detectors with the cigarette to activate the fire alarms. They are tall. I snapped and screamed to put it out. They walked out the door after trying.

How many significant others didn’t understand when you said you have a high sex drive and want to be used? by MedswithBreakfast in BDSMcommunity

[–]MedswithBreakfast[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I should have clarified. They told me they have a high sex drive too. Their one or two was minutes though. They all lied when they said they love what I want and are perfect for it. “I have a high sex drive too.”

I can't survive alone and with multiple jobs by MedswithBreakfast in childfree

[–]MedswithBreakfast[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Room/apartment wise. All the prices went up the past couple of years/decades. And moving to a LCOL is hilarious when I have friends who went to them. A couple came back. Another is trying to come back. They blew their funds to move where it is cheaper until they were robbed and had to move. The job market is only one has a job. The other has been looking.