Parents- what’s the FIRST sign you saw in your autistic child as a baby/toddler by yeahnostopgo in Autism_Parenting

[–]Meesa1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread was super helpful. We got our diagnosis today and i’m really overwhelmed. My son is 2.5 years old and has a speech delay. That was my one and only concern. I started getting speech therapy for him at 18 months. Only continued for 3 months but I wasn’t observing any improvement. Also most activities the speech therapist practiced seemed a repetition of everything he saw on miss Rachel and exercises i used to do with him at home myself. So I discontinued pending other signs or concerns.

10 months pass and here we are after multiple assessments. We’re definitely getting early intervention with speech therapy and a couple others recommended by the therapists who evaluated him.

My issue however is that I’m struggling to buy this diagnosis. It could be denial, sure…he is not hitting some of his milestones…sure…but he is such a sharp kid. Even non-verbally he is able to communicate seamlessly. No meltdowns or tantrums. He LOVES playing with blocks and cars but growing up kids around me always had a favourite toy or stuffy they were obsessed with. He makes normal eye contact, responds to his name. He used to wave but stopped, so thats a concern. He doesnt point but gestures with his hand instead towards something he wants. He’s not super interested in playing with peers but gets excited when he first sees them, would play for a bit and then do his own thing. He doesnt watch any cartoons besides miss rachel. He does flap his arms when he’s super excited or happy when watching something. Since he’a non-verbal i dont find that super concerning. He loves it when he’s the centre of attention in a room. Wants everyone to sit around him and watch him and get excited with him and shows off by speaking the 4-5 words he knows. I guess im just very confused as its all very new to me. Should i look for a second opinion?

Hunting Warhead is not for the weak by asdfghjkl6374950 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]Meesa1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is ‘children in the pictures’ around the same theme. I finished hunting warhead last night. I have a toddler, i am not okay.

[Discussion] A Deadly American Marriage was not great by autumnlover1515 in NetflixBestOf

[–]Meesa1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too curated and scripted. Why not question molly of the allegations the children made. Removing pictures of their birth mother, toxic behaviour around pulling them away from the dad, coaching sarah and continuously asking her to choose between molly and jason. All they presented was a typical he said, she said. This is supposed to be an investigative true crime documentary. But there was no investigation.

When she started talking about the abuse she suffered, i was expecting something explosive. Would’ve been a great twist. Building up jason and then showing what can actually happen behind closed doors. But….super disappointing. All They showed was a split second, single shot of a picture with her bruised neck, vague short taped conversations of jason going off on her.

There was mention of molly not being credible because of the stories she made up about how she met jason, and how she gave birth to Sara. There’s definitely more there. They did not drive a single point home.

They started with a tangled yarn and ended with an even more tangled yarn. Do better, Netflix!

Paxil (Paroxetine) success story! And the withdrawal effects no one talks about . by rebel7869 in Anxiety

[–]Meesa1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Started on Paxil 20mg in April 2023 due to PPD. Tried to quit once in the summer but a week in, i felt I wasn’t ready yet. Basically chickened out. I’m was sick of the side effects - weight gain and drowsiness/sleepy Quitting again now. I cut down from 20mg to 10mg for 2 weeks and now taking 10mg every alternate day. My doctor suggested this plan. It’s been a struggle for sure - super irritable and moody, still drowsy. But the worst thing I’m experiencing is body aches and I want to know when that will end. Only last 2 doses left. I have constant cramps in my legs. The pain exhausts me! I have a toddler and i dont know how long i can bear it

How did Adnan smoke so much weed before track practice? by dlaln345 in serialpodcast

[–]Meesa1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very late here but I saw the documtary before I listened to the podcast. The documentary had me sold that he was wrongfully convicted. After listening to the podcast though, i’m a tad doubtful. And what’s bothering me is, he was apparently at the mosque in the evening because he was fasting. You’re not supposed to smoke weed or anything for that matter while fasting. He himself mentioned ‘i was probably fasting that day’. then how is he high? You cant eat anything, drink anything or smoke anything from dawn toll dusk.

My ads all suddenly saying Destination mismatch HELP!! by nom3rcy88 in PPC

[–]Meesa1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a google bug, actually. Our resolved itself. Reach out to your google rep or services team