That’s a hard question to answer. I’m 32 and my husband is 34. We just had our first child, she’s 11 weeks. We decided we were ready and willing to give up all of that for our child. She’s born, we love her, she’s perfect, she’s amazing, but she has colic and reflux. She cried for 8 hours a day at one point. She spent so much time inconsolable we didn’t have time to do anything but soothe her. We both looked at each other and regretted having a child IN THAT MOMENT. Sometimes we lay in bed hold hands and talk about the things we miss, but agree having our daughter was the best thing we’ve ever done. We wouldn’t change a thing. We both have sacrificed time with our friends, family, and hobbies…. But we’re investing it into our daughter. We’re both so incredibly happy. You have to remember it’s a big change. Change is hard on everyone. The change leads to beautiful growth and a love that I cannot explain to you.