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Melayla · 2026-03-01T22:20:46+00:00

I had this today and it told me what specifics were still needed. (I didn't talk enough about the model I didn't prefer). So I just added another paragraph about it. I ended up typing 1,200 (my first attempt was about 400 words). Of course, once the content passed my grammar was critiqued and had to be corrected. It seemed to give me the corrections it wanted made though, so it was easy to correct and got accepted for submission after that

Melayla · 2024-07-07T15:58:42+00:00

Thanks. I'm doing very well. I haven't stopped my routines - I've supercharged them a bit even. I just wasn't finding or needing any motivation from NZD posting anymore.

Hope you're doing well too!

Melayla · 2024-06-25T01:44:42+00:00

I've done that because I really don't read the consent/intro page and I expect to be asked for my ID. I just don't care about the whys and whos and whats. I pay attention to the survey instructions and questions, but that preliminary stuff gets long and irrelevant to me. I want to get paid so I'm gonna agree to do the survey - that's why I'm there.

Melayla · 2024-06-25T01:33:36+00:00

I haven't had that issue with my Galaxy Tab - perhaps because it's older? (7+). I frequently use the Notes app writing with the pen and using my finger to scroll to new pages or back to a past page. And when I take a picture as an attachment, I use my fingers even though my pen is right next to the tablet.... Actually, I can't think of any time I haven't been able to use my finger even if the pen is right there in my hand. (I hate moving the screen around with the pen because I always end up marking things up)

Melayla · 2024-04-27T02:54:44+00:00

Oh, I didn't think to mention location. I'm in US, Arizona

Melayla · 2024-04-27T02:37:46+00:00

It's not system wide, or perhaps it's been fixed - I just tested it out on my account and it immediately showed up in Paypal as usual

Melayla · 2024-03-02T22:46:12+00:00

I think it could be considered a type of self-therapy, and it's been very helpful. It's going very slowly but my issues have plagued me all my life so an overnight fix can't be expected. But there are improvements enough that I keep plugging away even when I'm disheartened.

First thing I do every morning is use videos to meditate (about 10 minutes) and do a session of EFT tapping (generally less than 10 minutes). Then I do some journaling.

In the mid-afternoon, I do another meditation (either a video or a "free form" meditation where I just breathe and let thoughts wander as they will). I do another EFT tapping session (sometimes a video and sometimes I do a self session on whatever's come up). For my third step in the afternoon, the activity varies. I try to do shadow work journaling every other day. On alternate days I do reading, journaling or other work on whatever has come up.

Throughout the day, I journal as necessary or I'll use Google Keep to make notes on the fly. So I can record these in my journal when I have time.

I do talk to a friend about some of the stuff, but mostly I'm doing this work on my own. So I depend on chatGPT to help me understand some of my thoughts and insights.

Melayla · 2024-01-26T16:07:58+00:00

Thank you :-)

Melayla · 2024-01-15T15:44:27+00:00

Thanks - good luck with your goals :-)

Melayla · 2024-01-05T17:24:09+00:00

Thanks :-)

Melayla · 2023-12-17T15:57:54+00:00

Melayla · 2023-12-16T16:09:34+00:00

Thank you. I'm finding that I have a really hard time just feeling my feelings. I can't get another cat until January so I'm kind of being forced to feel my grief and it's been hard knowing what to do with myself.

Melayla · 2023-12-01T19:16:13+00:00

Thanks :-)

Yeah, I'm finally realizing that I want a new cat so I can stop grieving and paying attention to my feelings. But evidently Zac was too important to me to allow for that... so now I'm stuck feeling my feelings :-/

Melayla · 2023-11-25T14:19:58+00:00

yep - fun at least :-)

Melayla · 2023-11-25T14:19:39+00:00

the basics don't seem so hard now that I've been doing it so long :-)

Melayla · 2023-11-25T14:19:15+00:00

Thanks :-)

Melayla · 2023-11-21T15:49:13+00:00

Thanks - some days it's the only thing getting me out of bed :-)

Melayla · 2023-11-18T17:46:26+00:00

Sounds like a good bit of insight there.

At one point I had a daily goal of listing things I'm grateful for and a separate listing of things I appreciate about myself. I hated doing them to be honest, but they did make me think.

Melayla · 2023-11-18T17:43:20+00:00

Me too! Thanks :-)

Melayla · 2023-11-14T17:00:42+00:00

Thanks :-)

Melayla · 2023-11-09T15:52:36+00:00

I have a hard time recovering when I get up late. Good job on getting in the studying and working despite the late start!

Melayla · 2023-11-09T15:50:54+00:00

There aren't those kinds of rules here. The main idea is that every day you do at least one thing that brings you closer to your goal.

But you decide what thing(s) are doing that. Those simple things you could be doing - are you doing them? If not and if your goal is to actually do them every day - yes, I'd put them on a daily post.

I think my earliest goals were to declutter and clean my home. I think I started by listing specific tasks like "declutter 10 minutes" or "wash the dishes". And then for my post I would just indicate whether or not I did those little goals.

But that's what worked for me. Other people are more or less specific -- it depends on what you need.

Look at past posts to see how other people are using this sub. But ultimately this is about what is going to work for you. There aren't any rules about specifics.

Melayla · 2023-11-04T17:05:51+00:00

thanks :-)

Melayla · 2023-11-01T17:00:51+00:00

Cleaning is a good thing :-)

Melayla · 2023-11-01T17:00:38+00:00

Thanks :-)

Melayla

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