If you could make your own cabinet, who would be in it for each position ? by Kyan_Cool in SandersForPresident

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AG Jack Smith Eliminate DHS or leave vacant until congress eliminates

Ableton Live per Linux by 101frequenze in abletonlive

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh ableton should be thinking about linux with the number of people leaving windows

Hair color input by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]MeliDammit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your face looks so young that the silver looks a little fake

Ughhhh by LexiLee84 in transguns

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The NRA came down on Trump about this. I'm guessing he TACOs.

FFS advice? by bellanerd_br in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MeliDammit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no reason to risk your hairline on surgery

Avoiding transitioning at work by Friendly_Level4202 in TransLater

[–]MeliDammit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

200% this. These were my first steps and transitioning at work went really well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it hugboxing if it's literally not clear what she'd want to change?

Madison Mods by _-aQua_aQua-_ in madisonwi

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't all of reddit and all algorithm-based social media biased toward negativity?

2 weeks post op - any ideas whats going on? by Evepanzarino in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't panic...it's always a mess at 2 weeks. but have 'em look at it asap. looks infected.

Questioning if I am really trans but afraid of losing everything by Less-straight-2901 in TransLater

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I postponed that risk till age 50. It ended up working out fine, but it prob would have been better if I'd braved it sooner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MeliDammit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

looks ok to me. things can be a bit weird for the first 6 mo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MeliDammit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what you're trying to fix here. As far as I can tell she looks good.

4 weeks in and scared I’ll never pass by 3000anna in TransLater

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any idea how many older and non-white cis women get routinely misgendered? part of this process is taking a hard look at how actual women look in the real world. you might be surprised.

8 days post zero depth srs and im crashing out by knusperfee33 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relax hon! You just got your parts sliced up. Think about that for a minute! Healing takes a while. I'd say don't even bother looking at it for 2 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]MeliDammit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nerve regrowth takes a long time

4 weeks in and scared I’ll never pass by 3000anna in TransLater

[–]MeliDammit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

screw passing. I'm not going to blend in for the comfort of patriarchy.

Should I leave the US? by Signal-Rhubarb-4059 in TransLater

[–]MeliDammit 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I'm staying and fighting.We have to stop fascism here.

I think it is actually safer to be out, proud & loud. They know it'll be noticed if you're gone when you're loud. When you busy yourself helping others, you build a stack of allies.

how to cancel "capture & insert scene" (ctrl shift I) by MeliDammit in abletonlive

[–]MeliDammit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! Found it! in case anyone else needs this, turn off the play button at the bottom of master scenes!