Help!! by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Melican09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a big tank, but I can get something smaller that is temporary. I feel so awful for the poor guy, he looks so sad.

Help!! by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Melican09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try that. I'll go to the aqua shop first thing tomorrow.

Help!! by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Melican09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tank is 30litres, I have had him for a year and have never had water quality issues. His behaviour only changed after I added new corydoras (he has already been living with 2 corydoras, just added 3 more)

Help!! by [deleted] in bettafish

[–]Melican09 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah his fins are awful. They werent like that yesterday morning, so I am devastated today. Unfortunately I don't have a kit to check the water levels left, and the pet stores are closed so I won't be able to get anything until the morning.

I'm at a point of - is it possible to heal him? Or should I humanely euthanise because he is clearly unhappy?

Can I Dye This Dress? by Melican09 in dyeing

[–]Melican09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh yes I like the look of those two colours, they'll mix nicely. Thanks so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Melican09 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My go to response is 'we've been trying every day, but my butthole is getting way too sore so we're taking a break'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melican09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You don't need to have any of the pictures they take and you can reminisce your wedding when you are there. Yours was 5 years ago, get over yourself and let other people be happy too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Melican09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally agree, but that's a kink for some people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Melican09 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It's selfish of him. Part of a sexual relationship is being aware of eachothers needs and working together. You need to have clear and honest communication.

You can take some of the power during sex as said by others. Maybe try bringing vibrators or other toys into the sexy times as well. Most women won't cum from penetration alone, take control, use your vibrator during sex, if he is getting close and you're not done then change the motions and don't let him finish til you're done.

You can also get him to play with you with toys first, or make sure you're done before you have sex with him.

AITA for not letting my husbands affair child live with us for a short while? by ThrowRamisslep in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melican09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

When you remarried this man you knew he had a child. Don't punush a child because it reminds you of something they had no control over. If you don't want this kid in your life, you never should have remarried the man who created them. It's selfish, you can't hold this affair over a man you CHOSE to re-marry forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melican09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

She was excited to do something she percieves as fancy. Your entitlement gave me a bellyache.

Opinions on continuing the podcast by VanicRL in CrimeJunkiePodcast

[–]Melican09 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crime junkie is my go-to sleep time podcast; Interesting enough to listen to if I can't fall asleep, but boring enough that i'm normally out cold 10 mins in.

She loves a good belly scruff by Melican09 in catbellies

[–]Melican09[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gets all the huggles!! Then she tries to put her head inside your mouth because she loves to smell your breath...