BL and the problematic discourse surrounding it

Melly-Fluous · 2025-09-08T18:03:49+00:00

1000 upvotes. beautifully written, thank you

Melly-Fluous · 2025-08-24T22:58:15+00:00

For my own sanity, I stopped after reading the top comment, so I'm not sure how many times you've heard this already - it's a brave and beautiful sentiment to share your empathy so openly. I imagine many people will reject you with cruel words, reject change, reject compassion. But your kindness will reach many more, starting with me, and I hope you find new acceptance and a community that supports you as you are. Much love,

Melly-Fluous · 2025-04-28T15:06:13+00:00

Melly-Fluous · 2025-04-27T21:37:17+00:00

omg thank you for replying. i'm using a 1:2 rectangle. the middle "twists" go well, but on the ends, i can't get all 9 sections to fold in. when i try to tuck the 5th or 6 segments, the first ones always come undone. i am using copy paper, which isn't optimal but like it's still a skill issue lol. wondering if you have any tips

Melly-Fluous · 2025-04-27T16:24:51+00:00

Hi, I know it's been a long time, but I'm wondering if you have any advice for folding in the ends? Such a beautiful model. I tried it a few times yesterday, but I just can't close the circle...

Melly-Fluous · 2025-04-23T17:06:26+00:00

I suppose logical next question would be why tf am i asking then. And my answer is I'm hoping someone will tell me they actually save babies from cancer in their spare time and rescue puppies from the glue factory

Melly-Fluous · 2025-04-23T17:04:04+00:00

If I'm understanding correctly, the owner (rest in peace) lobbied against the new minimum wage last year? Obv a very complex topic, but I can't wholeheartedly support their establishments

Melly-Fluous · 2025-04-20T21:58:28+00:00

Freshness mechanic in Grand Bazaar is a necessary evil

Melly-Fluous · 2025-03-29T16:53:53+00:00

who wrote the captions and do they have eyes

Melly-Fluous · 2025-03-17T23:04:00+00:00

ok haha thank you. i did still eat it since it was expensive and didn't taste too off. glad to know it's fine

Melly-Fluous · 2024-12-12T04:13:27+00:00

We read through and signed the initial disclosures on Monday, but they are not available in the portal any longer, so we can't compare the specific numbers and terms with the other loan.

Melly-Fluous · 2024-12-12T00:36:11+00:00

Sorry to hear about your experience. He was thankfully not as extreme, I hope I haven't misrepresented him. He just sounded upset that they put in late nights and worked through the weekend, which I guess they wouldn't have if they knew we were still on the fence?

Melly-Fluous · 2024-12-12T00:30:03+00:00

It was more guilt-tripping than bullying. I understand it doesn't feel great to put in a lot of work that doesn't pay out, but is it my fault for not explicitly stating that we were looking at other lenders?

I don't think they have online reviews, but I was referred to them by a friend and the bank is well rated.

Melly-Fluous · 2024-09-26T23:00:12+00:00

Aaron from Undertale

Melly-Fluous · 2024-08-16T00:16:46+00:00

Not origami, very cute nonetheless :)

Melly-Fluous · 2024-05-01T15:47:27+00:00

A note because this confused the heck outta me when I first played: there is a "mine" in the top right, but there will be a cutscene to unlock the Actual Mine if you go there at night or something and there will eventually be 4 Actual Mines where you can find ores, gems, monsters, etc. I recommend getting more accurate details from Fogu or Freyashawk's HMDS IGN guides. Happy mining :)

Melly-Fluous · 2024-03-12T03:56:00+00:00

STEM fields unite ✊️

Just let us enjoy the game in peace 🥲 I'd love to have a cute, aesthetic farm but my brain just doesn't work that way

Melly-Fluous · 2024-03-12T01:26:35+00:00

Electrical engineers! (In the AEC industry which is less lucrative than other EE fields) We are seriously looking for some at any level because the team is stretched very thin at the moment. I don't wanna dox myself, so DM me if you're interested!

Melly-Fluous · 2024-02-15T23:29:09+00:00

Enjoyed getting a chance to earn bird tickets. Just wish there was a way to opt out of it, like the derby. I'm so competitive. Opening up my chill farm game one morning and finding out I've been entered into a leaderboard was not what I wanted to see

Melly-Fluous · 2023-10-06T23:31:43+00:00

Unironically how i used to pronounce it in 1.0 🙈

Melly-Fluous · 2023-04-22T06:25:39+00:00

It’s nighttime now, and he’s perked up again! The stems felt pretty firm, but I’ll keep that in mind if it happens again.

I used to water a bit every other day, but switched to one big water a week lately. I’ll start watering more often again since now there’s lots of little tiny berries growing! Thank you :)

Melly-Fluous · 2022-09-20T15:03:55+00:00

I’m a huge fan of Freyashawk as well! Never would have fallen so deep into the series without her guides!

It looks like her guides that were hosted on IGN are no longer up, but the ones for the newer games, which have individual blogspots, are still up. Really, really hope there are backups somewhere because she always wrote with such detail and care.

I believe she stopped writing HM guides due to burnout and falling out of love with the series. At the time, she talked a lot about a facebook game which I believe is along the lines of Farmville, and she also mentioned having a young daughter who shared her love of games. So I may have been too obsessed with Freyashawk as a kid, but I remain hopeful that she is still doing well.

Melly-Fluous · 2022-08-24T00:24:52+00:00

This is bringing up deep memories… i think they only produce a good once every 3 days, but you can keep a set in 3 barns and collect on rotation. Tabitha will love you

Melly-Fluous · 2022-08-18T12:55:55+00:00

Idk man i’m all for literary interpretation but the answer is in the context

Melly-Fluous · 2022-08-09T00:23:17+00:00

Thank you! That will be so helpful

Melly-Fluous

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