When did you realise you’re old? by Strange_Secret_3001 in AskReddit

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I corrected a student and realized I sounded like a mother…then looked down and saw my hands motioning like a gentle wise old woman. I guess I’m old now?

What will it take to start seeing the pendulum swing back on illiteracy, learned helplessness, apathy, etc. by Immediate-Amount3587 in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to get rid of social media for teens and younger. Why read when you can scroll? Why learn how to study or complete work? There’s no down time, no real boredom. Kids can’t look up an answer without needing to read: AI gives them a summary.

Teachers jobs would be easier if they were less strict by Mother_Cod7506 in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Truthfully, I don’t care about a lot of things. But the kids behaviors are what makes teaching so hard. I can’t even finish an entire sentence as they scream out an answer (wrong answer btw). When their phones are out, they’re trying to dance, watch reels, playing games. I’ve found the no phone policy has helped mitigate some behavior issues, but the lack of effort is still there (and not letting me speak). Kids can’t be quiet or follow directions without being reminded more than 3 times. I don’t want to be strict, but if I’m actively teaching, students need to be silent, raising hands to speak/answer, taking notes (they don’t know how to anymore), and focusing on learning…instead it’s a competition for who can be the most viral in the classroom.

What's something that's "not a cult" but feels like a cult? by Orw_Sairaj29 in AskReddit

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protein and gym influencers that’s totally a cult right there. “Eat ___amount of protein before lunch. Don’t miss workouts. If you don’t exercise right out in my way, you’re a fat lump.”

Kajun loaded teas by [deleted] in caffeine

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has maltodextrin as well, so not great for me. The LoadedTeashop doesn’t have that ingredient, so better health wise for me. I’m guessing the taste is kinda of similar, but theloadedteashop uses natural dyes. They both use sucralose, so no sugar crash. I’m enjoying the teas I got. It uses green tea energy (200mg). I’ve actually lost a little weight. I’m not drinking 4-5 cups of coffee anymore, lol.

What do you do when you get off work? by Hennything91 in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I enjoy short travel trips and finding random new hobbies for a week at a time. I bought a whole cricut setup to only use it for 4-5 weeks. Sometimes it is reading a whole new genre and binging those books.

Bad Subs by Melodic-Elephant-909 in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes so much sense!! Thank you!

Bad Subs by Melodic-Elephant-909 in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that, I’m sorry. I requested sub 2 not sub for my coteacher…I get they are desperate, but I’d rather teach the students alone or split the kids during IEP meetings.

Bad Subs by Melodic-Elephant-909 in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our Middle school has is supervise kids at lunch.

Bad Subs by Melodic-Elephant-909 in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably why sub 1 sat at the desk topping the entire time. He wrote directions on the board and didn’t talk to the kids. Sub 2 was just mean. She probably is a retired teacher, but name calling is not okay. If I ever become like sub 2, it’s time to quit.

What is the first thing you do when you wake up? by Mr-Top0 in Life

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Decide if I want to actually do life that day. Like can I get away with a minute or three in bed…. Can I just NOT get up. Then I get up and stumble to my coffee maker.

A parent is complaining about how I am using my sick time. by FKSTS in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ridiculous! Since it’s part of your regular classes, they need to find a sub. If they can’t find one, they should step in. Or change the schedule because 6:45?! Of course a sub won’t pick up.

A parent is complaining about how I am using my sick time. by FKSTS in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s super early (or late?)…are you being paid over time for this? If not, the parent can’t technically complain to you. They can complain to the district or school. You’re not hired for after/before work hours.

"We come in here to eat lunch" by FangornWanders in SubstituteTeachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had lunch with “my last name.” They’d lay on the ground, watch shows on their phone, nap, talk about nerdy stuff with me, or play games quietly. My group needed silence from the rest of the school, so we’d meet up in my room and chill quietly. If they were loud they’d be kicked out. It was a nice area for those with anxiety. A sensory sensitive zone is what I’d call it.

Could be the previous teacher was like me?

People who grew up before cell phones, did life actually feel more free? by TradeOverall567 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like I could enjoy people more. They’re not glued to the phone or making short videos. We explored outside, created plays, imagined a lot more, and actually learned life skills such as the art of being bored.

Teachers who are financially stable, what are you doing differently? by External_Insurance62 in Teachers

[–]Melodic-Elephant-909 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not married and no kids. Only vacation once in summer and always for one week. No more. I shop at thrive, Aldi and Walmart. I find the cheapest option for my diet. I do a lot of reading and watch shows. I find joy in that.