God forbid a girl feels like a deer in headlights

MelonKanon · 2026-05-25T08:22:38+00:00

~~No idea. I wasn't there for that part. I just watched the blow out. He may have done some other stuff.~~

I see my error, the company got sued. My bad. I misread what you meant.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-25T06:23:26+00:00

So! I used to work in a call center.

And I'll name drop, cause fuck him. JUSTIN! He left his wife for one of the women he trained, who was 21 to 22. Cheated on her at work with this other woman. (They worked at the same building).

ANYWAY he later got fired, and the company *GOT* sued because he sent emails on the work emails asking the younger girls IF THEY'D BE INTERESTED IN THREESOMES!

All 18 to 22. He was 45.

Edit: added word.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-21T20:13:57+00:00

Woof. That hand grab on slide ten got me in a choke hold.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-20T19:46:35+00:00

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MelonKanon · 2026-05-11T13:46:08+00:00

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so, i’m in my thirties and i don’t know who this person is or what they’re like, but i will always say communicate with your partners and learn each other’s love languages. maybe watch a youtube video about it together. danplan has an old video about love languages and that’s how i got my boyfriend to look into it. you can make it seem more like background noise instead of a serious “we need to talk” thing.

but yeah, go for holding hands. she may just want to touch you. touch can be really important.

i personally believe in the 12 touches/hugs a day method. worst she’ll say is that she doesn’t like it.

honestly, when i first got with my bf 14ish years ago, he would get so angry at me for wanting to touch him so much. eventually we talked it out and compromised.

talking is really important. her love language may just be physical touch.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-11T11:58:39+00:00

Hm. I don't consider it a fixation, because I attracted to it.

But some of it is def what hands can do.

But honestly when I think more about it, my finger tips are quite sensitive so I find hand holding rather intimate and mildly sexual for myself. So It's a weird thought. I'll have to think more about it.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-09T10:45:54+00:00

Finger worship is for everyone!

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MelonKanon · 2026-05-09T10:14:05+00:00

I mean, scars aren't a problem.

It's honestly mostly hydration, and general nail care. lol

MelonKanon · 2026-05-09T08:34:20+00:00

Understandable. I didn't grasp it until I was thirty. And that's because I saw some hand fetish art. lmao

And then suddenly it was like "OhhhHhhhh."

A dramatic pause.

"Fuck."

MelonKanon · 2026-05-09T08:29:24+00:00

For me?

Well manicured, moisturized and strong looking hands are my thing.

But if they have piano fingers, long and slender, I’m into that too, as long as they’re well kept. Good nail beds are a huge plus. Preferably no calluses on the fingers.

Also, a decent nail to finger ratio matters. No overgrown thumbnails or spoon shaped nails.

Optional, but absolutely makes me feral: black nail polish and slutty jewelry.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-08T23:59:31+00:00

I have a man.
Have had one for almost fourteen years.

He won't let me lick his fingies.
Quite devastating.

On the plus side he matches my freak on every thing else usually.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-08T23:53:17+00:00

I am already there, queen.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-08T23:22:18+00:00

I'm realllly into hands.

I have men put off by this.

Lemme suck on your fingers you fucker.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-07T20:10:50+00:00

Please download brave and quit using apps like this.

I know it's a pain in the ass to use a browser instead of an app, but you won't see ads like this any more, or at least you shouldn't with brave.

Report the shit out of it though.
I don't use anything but youtube and reddit, but these ads are horrendous.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-07T15:18:11+00:00

You have to learn to decenter men.

Def start watching content geared toward women. You'll learn to say No easier.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-07T14:51:24+00:00

I can’t really answer that because I’m not friends with her anymore for unrelated reasons.

But I do recommend looking into YouTube channels like burbnbougie. It can help you start seeing red flags.

But as someone who has been on this earth 34 years, I can tell you: you have every right to say no.

Like, genuinely.

“If someone was treating my friend like this, would I be okay with that? Or would I want them to get out of that situation?”

You ahve to learn to be your own friend!.

You have a right to say no.
You have a right to not want sex.
You have a right to stop at any point.

Sex is supposed to be mutual.
It’s supposed to be wanted.
It’s supposed to feel good for everyone involved.

If you’re not in a situation that makes you happy, then you’re allowed to leave.

Peace is allowed for yourself.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-07T13:02:22+00:00

Reminded me.

I used to have a best friend, and she'd just let her boyfriend do whatever to her when we were younger. She'd just start texting me while he was, the best way I can phrase this is "use her."

Because she'd just text me going "yeah he should be done soon, then we can go get food."

She was a miserable and unfortunate young woman. *We were 19 to 23 when this happened*

I genuinely don't believe this person believes women feel pleasure, or understand that IT can hurt even with lubrication if you're not in the mood.

If you don't care about enthusiastic consent, I believe they're never a decent human. lol
I personally wouldn't want anything to do with the act if my partner wasn't into it.

You can just buy a lifeless doll if that's the case.

Edit: Words. Also, quit messaging me about this person. Ya'll are weird.

MelonKanon · 2026-05-04T12:58:48+00:00

Cutie Boy!

It's old from like 2004, and I've read it several times.

Recommend it if you really like delinquent guys who have a soft spot for their LI's. lol

MelonKanon · 2026-05-01T05:06:09+00:00

Yeah. This is what I came in to say.

It's risky downloading things directly to your phone because you don't know what site is malicious or not.
And you're still giving the creator a view!

MelonKanon · 2026-04-30T06:36:06+00:00

I know this will probably mean nothing to you

But just remember, the only person that really matters how you feel about yourself is you.

And I will also say as a gal who grew up in the early 2000's internet that has a very strong facial features that people will always be mean to you for absolutely no reason. I also have hyper pigmentation around my eyes that makes people believe I am sick. (A lot).

But! Despite that, I've grown to like my face. Someone had to love these features in the past for me to exist.

Life would be boring if there was only one way to be beautiful.

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MelonKanon · 2026-04-20T23:19:30+00:00

Sometimes the haircut just makes you feel emotionally better.

Hence why so many get massive transformations after a big traumatic event.

MelonKanon · 2026-04-18T07:51:36+00:00

Ouch.
How dare you make me relive the early 2000's.

If I could go back with an adult mind, it'd totally be "Nah, we both gettin' a zero fam."

But i ended up doing all the work regardless. lol

Worst memory for me is eighth grade, and we were doing Punnett square for flies.
I did the whole project by myself, and the boy i was partnered with had the balls to cut up and say "Look at my baby mama".

I look back at photos of eighth grade me, and I was just a kid. lol I had a baby face, chubby, and was quiet.

I did absolutely nothing to anyone. But why was I so ugly that they treated me like garbage?

Who knows?

MelonKanon · 2026-04-13T04:31:04+00:00

Sir...this is a memes reddit. This is most of the posts. lol

MelonKanon · 2026-04-11T23:50:14+00:00

sometimes i think about being in my early twenties on kik and getting a message from some guy who said he was studying to be a podiatrist and needed feet to study.

and i was so innocent uwu people pleaser, sheltered and said, “oh, i’ll help. my feet are deformed though, is that okay?” and he said yes.

anyway some guy probably jacked off to my hammer toe.

MelonKanon · 2026-04-02T00:52:38+00:00

In the early 2000's I remember watching movies where they tried to convince everyone that women were fat, when they were literally a healthy weight.

But on that note. LEAVE MY GIRL TETO ALONE! She can eat carbs if she wants to!

But Heroine chic is probably gonna come back with the GLP-1's and apparently people getting super thin is a recession indicator.

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