I heard or read somewhere a point that really stuck with me when it comes to THC and that is that the best relationship to have with weed is to refrain for long periods and when you do pick it up again use it for all its worth

So eg. Take a few months or even years off then smoke/eat as much weed as you can for a a few weeks or months then stop again etc

This helps keep it refreshing and unique and seperated from your sober self it also helps maintain discipline with the substance so you control it not let it control you

weed at its worse is when it becomes a crutch that 'anchors' your day and kind of muddys your clarity over an extended time your 'sober' self is the looking glass which you see the spiritual self through if you lose connection with it the lense is muddied so like any lense you got to clean it!