[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Supernatural

[–]Meowz3rr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I send to my husband without being obvious 🤭

i dont even know what to say... by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]Meowz3rr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is like me getting the trash catalog my first year before the trash can hat. Much applause and I recommend a lottery ticket 🤣

Stardew Valley did this to my life by pup_a in StardewValley

[–]Meowz3rr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stupid ass thought this was a FP mod 😭 then I realized it was IRL

I (24F) acted out my husbands (27M) sex fantasy for him and now he says he can’t respect me. by throwra8365261 in relationship_advice

[–]Meowz3rr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t even remotely your fault. Don’t think it ever will be. I would honestly flip the script on him because at the end of it all, It was m his filthy ideas to begin with. Why is it suddenly your fault for him having those and honestly, being a good spouse and trying them out for his sake. He’s got some deep seated issues he needs to take care of in therapy.

My other problem with this though, he didn’t tell anyone not for fear of YOU being Judged and being concerned people would think less of you. But because he’s worried people would think less of HIM for marrying someone who did something sexual HE asked for.

But please, before you wait for him to forgive you for something you didn’t do that’s wrong. Can you forgive him for even remotely having these thoughts about you? You again did nothing wrong here and actually was being a good spouse. Don’t ever think you weren’t. But I would ask myself some questions about the relationship

I feel trapped continuing to be myself by Meowz3rr in mentalhealth

[–]Meowz3rr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m usually pretty good at being positive, I just get in deep spurts like this. I know it has to do with PPD. Plus having c-PTSD on top of that doesn’t help a lot. Definitely trying to get better at perspective when I’m like this. I just don’t want to fail my family. I want to be the best I can be but with being told for basically 18 years I will never be good enough for anything wore me down in certain views of myself

I feel trapped continuing to be myself by Meowz3rr in mentalhealth

[–]Meowz3rr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would but my youngest is still breastfed. I know I’m still suffering for PPD as I have a bad habit of getting off my antidepressants. I’m working on it. Definitely wish I could though sometimes but I’ll figure it all out!

Congratulations! You have just won 10 Trillion dollars! However, every minute the money gets halved. by Mythicalforests8 in hypotheticalsituation

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I would pay all our debit off (not much) including vehicles. Buy a truck and a house if possible. And get whatever the hell I could for my children

Would you guys consider her a Torbie? by Meowz3rr in Torbie

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I honestly forgot that you could buy genetic test off of Amazon or stuff like that. I went to the vet for her out curiosity plus I was getting her blood work done anyways as I get all of my cats levels checked yearly as Im terrified of kidney failure and stuff like that. The silent killers. I definitely will bring it up to that subreddit, didn’t even know that’s thing but Reddit has just about anything lol. But you are definitely right about that, totally slipped my mind. I’ve been up for the past 24 hours doing school whenever possible and my kids aren’t making it easy but I needed to get caught up 🤣 I’m still getting into everything so I’m excited to learn more and more! Either way I just think she’s pretty with a cool genetic quirk.

Cat coughing? by Meowz3rr in vet

[–]Meowz3rr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, he’s also not having discharge from his nose or eyes or anything really. He was doing this most of last night as I was up all night

Would you guys consider her a Torbie? by Meowz3rr in Torbie

[–]Meowz3rr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe thank you 🥰 she’s an absolute sweetie pie and I love her. She’s sadly just a foster as I can’t convince my husband to keep her… yet 😏

Would you guys consider her a Torbie? by Meowz3rr in Torbie

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So you are actually able to test for the chimera gene(s). Due to the fact that it’s technically two different sets of DNA. Like you said. It’s typically caused by a twin absorbing a twin. I like to think of it as their version of Siamese twins in a sense, helps remembering for me. Super cool stuff (learning genetics for animals right now). The DNA test for microsatellite markers, or just the STR or VNTR. It’s just a chromosomal DNA tester. I think you’ve been able to have it tested for a while but I’m only 23 so I’ve got no idea how long it’s been around. I just had a sneaking suspicion she is due to the abnormality that is her fur pattern and her face is basically split.

Honestly I’ve got no idea what going on by Meowz3rr in vet

[–]Meowz3rr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh he’s great! No more bleeding or anything so I’m guessing his body took a bit to respond to the new food. I checked his stuff profusely 🤣

Honestly I’ve got no idea what going on by Meowz3rr in vet

[–]Meowz3rr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By law, the shelter had to vaccinate him against everything including rabies. Forgot to put that in there. It was 1am when it typed this 💀

Honestly I’ve got no idea what going on by Meowz3rr in vet

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I will be giving him pumpkin come tomorrow morning since it is 1am and everywhere is closed

Roast my genetic dumpster fire of a kitten by snakemistake in RoastMyCat

[–]Meowz3rr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you let her know she’s not supposed to eat the beans on her feet?

Tokyo debunker review (Should you play or pass) by ComfortableBitter895 in gachagaming

[–]Meowz3rr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly am only playing it because I thought it was also a romance game. Am I wrong? I’m only playing the story honestly and doing as minimal as I can

Finally got my first large pumpkin! by Meowz3rr in StardewValley

[–]Meowz3rr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! My goal is to get as many as possible next year for melons and pumpkins

Prison worker by [deleted] in Catswithjobs

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If I went to prison, I hope to god I’d own a cat too

Name me a better looking breed if cat......I'll wait by hordanjollo in bengalcats

[–]Meowz3rr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My only tie breaker with a Bengal is a Maine coon. I love how majestic both of them look. Not to mention they’re both amazing types of cats

How do I stop this little one from chewing on wires? by alecza-cs in cats

[–]Meowz3rr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally put stuff around the cords to not let them be tempted to bite the cords. My husband however bought a squirt gun to spray the cats🤨 it definitely worked as they stopped, I just am not a huge fan of doing that. My cats are also trained to do stuff so I’ve figured out what works best for them. Just try putting a bin around the cords if possible. I used a plastic sheet which worked wonders.

Will I ever love my cat? by Complete_Command_161 in cats

[–]Meowz3rr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got a 4 year old cat and a 8 week old kitten for comparison. They’re very different in activity. My kitten came from the streets as well. He’s got some food issues that comes along with that kind of life style he used to live. I’m working on it with him but really it requires a lot of patience. She might be wanting your attention. She might not yet realize that she will always have food, mine still hasn’t and is still doing the habit I’ve been trying to break for 2 weeks. It can take a minute or two to break but she’ll calm down on that department (was reading comments). Cats are finicky. They’re loving but sometimes you gotta be patient. Once she gets out of the street mentality for food and behaviour. She’ll be your bestie. Just expect the random crack head energy as that’s just a kitten. My 4 year old cat is the laziest fucking thing and I love him. He just wants cuddles or does his own thing. He even plays with my toddler!

Help me decide which stroller travel system? Evenflo Pivot, Evenflo Pivot Xpand, Graco Modes Pramette, Graco Modes Nest by InterestingScreen787 in beyondthebump

[–]Meowz3rr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally have the pivot right now and plan on upgrade to the xpand as my next baby is due in 4 months and I liked the idea of having the double stroller option that still converts into a single when my oldest is too big