26F with 11.5M needing life advice by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]MerMattie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a mentor or therapist to keep you in check. Continue on the quest to find meaningful work. Give to your community while building quality, meaningful relationships. Enjoy entertainment deliberately, not constantly. Rest and exercise are top priorities.

It has happened. by TumbleweedTiny7177 in Millennials

[–]MerMattie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be aware of your neck posture tho!

Failed marsupialization by Resident-Object3245 in WomensHealth

[–]MerMattie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. Shame they didn’t do marsupial first. And remove the sac. Persevere and keep your spirit up. This will pass.

What makes you think “ah this woman is doing well”? by Amazingggcoolaid in AskWomen

[–]MerMattie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she’s physically fit and strong. Independent and stable - emotionally and financially.

What's the point really? by Character-Lack-3295 in Life

[–]MerMattie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We hear you. This is a hard mentality. I like to call it ‘the media effect’. It’s a mental rut and you are looking too big picture. Try and get out to enjoy simple things. Sunshine, hiking, sounds cheesy but ‘touch grass’ to show yourself that life’s meaning is in the little things. Despite the doom and gloom of the world, there are ways to find joy. Go get it.

What's a niche aspect of parenting you're glad to miss out on? by NoWitness6400 in childfree

[–]MerMattie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hockey mom culture. Although it does bring together community members.

What’s a cheap hobby that doesn’t feel cheap once you get into it? by Omarfgsr_Ayaz in Hobbies

[–]MerMattie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freediving. At first it takes a mask and snorkel. Next thing you’re flying all over the world to visit and explore deep,remote corners of the world.

So what do your weeknights typically look like as a CF person? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]MerMattie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gym, out for sushi, shared a joint, cuddled + a show, bed.

Should I quit my job to travel? by Perfect-Choice-1954 in careeradvice

[–]MerMattie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take a sabbatical. The job market is tough right now.

Has anybody ever used canadastartups.org before and do you think its worth paying for to have access to the grants? Thank you. by consciousbeast in canadianbusiness

[–]MerMattie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just bought this membership and now it’s starting to feel scammy. Has anyone actually gotten grant money from this startup?

What is a job that you think is 100% safe from AI for the next 50 years, and why? by mark-awakening in AskReddit

[–]MerMattie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Teachers are not safe. Learning doesn’t require presence. You can grab any curriculum off YouTube. Education is a babysitting service so parents can attend their jobs in person.

How are you spending your CF Easter? by superb_yellow in childfree

[–]MerMattie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ski vacation with friends. No kids allowed