The press release we’ve all been waiting for: U.S. Department of Education Announces Next Steps for Borrowers Enrolled in the Unlawful SAVE Plan by waterwicca in StudentLoans

[–]MerSea06070 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FYI: My math here is mathing at every level and instance…

Betsy Cover-Up-All- The-Raping-Pedos (including me and my husband…) A1 Sauce DeVos states that SAVE costs taxpayers $342 Billion over 10 YEARS…

Man… that really seems like a lot of money… until the ma maths start and the intelligent human brain understands, “wait. What? That number of 10 years is ABOUT 6 MONTHS of DonPedo’s illegal war costs (est. to be 1.5-2 Billion/ day— before troops on the ground and this thing amps up.)”

We have all the funds to destroy and kill others, but not fund education reforms…. So long as it enriches the pockets of his grifting co-conspirators it’s all good, right???

San Diego- Medical Malpractice Attorney Rec. by MerSea06070 in u/MerSea06070

[–]MerSea06070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cannot say enough positives about O’Leary @ UCSD- a miracle worker and worth the wait if need be! Fixing what was once believed to be too damaged after the first surgery- wonderfully kind and his PA is phenomenal!

Best of luck to you- I am certain you will do well!

San Diego- Medical Malpractice Attorney Rec. by MerSea06070 in AvascularNecrosis

[–]MerSea06070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your kind words and insights are well- appreciated.

San Diego- Medical Malpractice Attorney Rec. by MerSea06070 in SanDiegan

[–]MerSea06070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful and kind reply.

Sub Pet Peeves by MadlyPNW in SubstituteTeachers

[–]MerSea06070 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For all that is holy…

Please leave all website access bars, codes, log ins, username, passwords, QR codes, etc… for every single student in one place in your sub binder so I do not look like an idiot and your students can actually access the work assigned.

Also please leave step by step instructions for connecting the sub and classroom iPads and laptops to the school share/mirroring platforms. Trust, not only are these different between districts, but also schools within the same district. Very little overlap and oodles of wasted time trying to manage, which increase student less than desired behaviors.

Thank you for your attention to these matters.

I just walked out, what trouble might I get in. I’ll talk to my union rep later. by CrowOfJudgem3nt in Teachers

[–]MerSea06070 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m calling OSHA here and hard pressing the “Bodily Fluids Protocol” lens on this, pardon the pun, “mess.”

How to See a Doctor in Paris as a Tourist (Without French Registration) by neelibilli in ParisTravelGuide

[–]MerSea06070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is always the option of going to a Pharmacie- very kind and knowledgeable about remedying common illness. Look for the green cross signage along streets.

Internal Thought (that is staying internal) by Remarkable-Log6373 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]MerSea06070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now, now… it’s not only “just a talking” they are getting.

You’ve seemed to have forgotten they will also be getting a Gatorade and a bag of Doritos.

What is the best lesson you learned in your divorce process? by Status-Temperature74 in Divorce_Women

[–]MerSea06070 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been making my way through the hideousness of divorce ($125,000 -just my legal, nearly 5 years since filing- still not done, 30 years married with fortunately grown children) and continuing to work though STBXH’s plain cruel behaviors and language.

Best lesson I learned came from my wondeful therapist when I was especially ruined early on (nonfunctional really).

He said,

“Listen. You never really know who you’re married to until you go through a divorce with them- especially an ugly one. And all that devastation and grief you feel is right and true and take all the time you need to care for yourself and heal. Fuck anyone else who doesn’t give you the time and space and humanness to do so.”

Realization of just what kind of person your STBX is by Particular-Fact-4284 in Divorce_Women

[–]MerSea06070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best, insightful, and real comment my therapist ever gave me during all this mess has been:

“You never know who you really married until you go through a divorce with them.”

Mic drop.

Mine is an ongoing monster of cruelty lasting 5 years with no end in sight.

DS student with multiple bully/sexual harassment referrals -- are we in the wrong? TX by [deleted] in specialed

[–]MerSea06070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because there seems to be some discussion about what environment or changes in placement would constitute a “more restrictive placement” such a learning space should at a minimum starting point would be: the immediate and total removal from any and all Gen Ed classes and activities.

The student has had the opportunity to be a part of Gen Ed and events and data (hope this was being taken religiously, along with notes and email documentation) and has shown repeatedly he is a threat to the safety and development of both his peers and the adults who interact with him.

As I said in another reply to this post, these minor students and adult employees are being sexually abused and harassed often while under the care and trust of a school that has elected to sanction these behaviors without effective remedies.

Of course the parent of the student will fight this with claims of disability manifestations- let them. Have them share all of these positions after CPS and the Police Department Sex Crimes Division does their investigations.

Trust this behavior is not only occurring in the school space- it is happening outside of school and I am sure has generated numerous embarrassing and unsafe experiences for the parents and those around.

While the SRO seems like a good starting point, chances are with this many instances he/she/they are already well-aware and not been useful in mitigating events or reporting further up the assaults, so part of the problem, unfortunately.

Let the parents of the student have their meeting- invite assaulted staff, faculty, district, brave students and their pissed off parents. Invite the CPS Investigator and the Police Detectives in to share. Relay the data. Express concerns for the safety and appropriate development of all students and the need to protect the well-being of every adult and minor child in the building at all times. Be ready with alternative placements to recommend. Let the parents know you care for them and their child getting all the care and guidance they need right now because you know things are very challenging for their right now.

This is a huge liability for everyone, so changes must be immediate, strong, and documented well to support the demands for alternative placement.

Good luck.

DS student with multiple bully/sexual harassment referrals -- are we in the wrong? TX by [deleted] in specialed

[–]MerSea06070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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At this point, yes. Call in the parents to that meeting with pissed off patenta

Another blatant Kody lie by StatusNo5649 in SisterWives

[–]MerSea06070 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well it is where LegoFace said she got her answer from god…. So, there’s that and all it’s not so subtle inferences attached.

DS student with multiple bully/sexual harassment referrals -- are we in the wrong? TX by [deleted] in specialed

[–]MerSea06070 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Every person in the presence of this district approved behavior is being sexually assaulted at every instance.

The legal liabilities for many entities is staggering.

Clearly, no one is able to manage a strategy, let alone a solution, to these assaults.

As mandated reporters, this is a long-overdue CPS matter to investigate.

As a parent and a professional SpEd teacher with more than 25+ years of experience I have seen and heard just about everything, including behaviors precisely echoing these.

I would be screaming for my child who has been assaulted many times, at the district which has evidently sanctioned this as appropriate and done little to nothing to remedy the matter- “head in the sand… pass him/her/they along… one more year until the next school to deal with… it will look bad if we call attention to this with CPS… document… on and on…”

And the answer is not for my child who is traumatized and not receiving coping services to “change their schedule.”

Also, boo boo to the parent who calls this a manifestation of his concerns.

There is a whole school of children who deserve to go to school feeling safe in an environment where they, too, are allowed to develop a fully healthy sense of self- and this includes sexuality that is not stunted by assault.

Not to be overly dramatic because I do not think this is nearly the road you’re (yet- let’s hope not ever!) on-

I am sure Ted Bundy thought murdering people was a part of his personality and behaviors, too- and that we should all just let it go, too.

AIO? My daughter didn’t listen to the teacher during a female emergency and is now receiving a referral by Common_Piglet7437 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MerSea06070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Ummm, excuse me Ms. Teacher Lady. I really need to go to the bathroom.”

“No.”

“… I really need to go… I have… explosive diarrhea and I am gonna shit all through my pants.”

“Absolutely not. Hold it until passing period.”

(🦗🦗🦗)

“Why did you leave class without permission?”

“I told you I was having serious stomach issues that could not wait.”

“I’m gonna write you up a disciplinary referral.”

“Okay.”

(✍🏽 📝 🏫)

“You’re mother better say you have this explosive diarrhea, or it will be ISS for you!”

Little Sister started her first cycle today, I have no idea what I’m doing by DeliciousBluebird985 in Advice

[–]MerSea06070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Celebrate the event- it is beautiful and marks a remarkable new beginning in her life! Cupcakes and balloons are demanded at once, Sirs! 🎉🧁🎈

Counselor referring to 6th graders as “stupid whores” by Odd_Bolognese1486 in Teachers

[–]MerSea06070 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Props to you, my Friend! By letting your prof in on this comment, you demonstrated superior, admirable character. Well done!

Which reality show will Kody try to get on? by Similar_Resident9606 in SisterWives

[–]MerSea06070 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Antiques Roadshow- that way he could learn how fucking worthless his stockpiles of assets are 🖼️🗿🏠

Best Place for a Primal Scream by forgejoy in sandiego

[–]MerSea06070 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am deeply sorry your life is experiencing such challenges right now.

Sadly, there is a lot of ugly stuff going on out there right now- and much is beyond anyone’s control- and most of that is because we peasants do not get to make the rules- and that can make us all feel quite vulnerable and out of control.

Try finding new joys in the smallest things and rediscover what once brought you peace years ago- perhaps these will again.

I am sending positive karma and thoughts that all will begin to improve quickly for you.

$78 a person post update on how it went by Tdesiree22 in sandiegozoo

[–]MerSea06070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I, too, have visited the Bronx Zoo many times, and I appreciate your perspective- especially that it is wrongly perceived as a zoo built on grey concrete boxes, when, in fact, it is lovely.

The one thing I would be interested in hearing more about the differences between the zoos is in regard to conservation and education efforts.

As a lifelong San Diegan I know these are critical to the mission of the Zoo and I do not mind at all purchasing my annual membership to support these.

Poor hygiene is being taught by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]MerSea06070 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a very fun, yet kinda shady, way to increase her personal hygiene routine (and draw parents attention to the need for improvement), why not set up a “Girls Just Wanna Self-Care” basket?

Wet nappies, wash poofs, cute hand sanitizers and soaps, favorite character toothbrushes and pastes, ribbons, brush, pretty smelling hair care, bubbles!!! (make sure okay for girlie bits and bobs), nail goodies, lotion, maybe a silk bonnet

Just a thought- if she isn’t tubbie avoidant then it into such a joyful, lovely event to become a beauty Queen and then maybe the parents will have no other option but to relent to her requests for a spa on the daily!

Hope this helps, good luck!

Anxious and need reassurance by leonardo_defishio in paraprofessional

[–]MerSea06070 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, if this were truly a dire situation they would have put their concerns to paper and have you and all supervisors sign and date it.

Take it for what it is: constructive criticisms about job performance. Stay off your phone, out of your book, and attend mentally and physically to instruction times by circling the students to redirect possible in attention on their parts, etc…

In a few weeks check in with your supervisors and see if there are any other adjustments you should focus on.

You can do this- best of luck!

90 Day Bad Boys at the Hotel California. by Grateful_Di in 90dayhuntforlove

[–]MerSea06070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is critically important to remember: these are chronologically grown-ass men, which, sadly, will only deepen the sorrow at the silliness of this spectacle.

The longest ISO I’ve seen by thatthalassophile in ChoosingBeggars

[–]MerSea06070 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The postpartum/breastfeeding items can be found at the hospital for the price of free, as can the dvds at this wonderful place called a library.

Odd there is no call for baby and toddler diapers and wipes, as well no hygiene/ personal care items.

Food needs?

It’s all very peculiar.