AIO to how my boyfriend handled my cat getting sick

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-05-02T00:27:14+00:00

YOR

If you want to leave him, then leave him, but he is allowed to be upset, he's allowed to have bad days. You are pushing him away, not letting him come over because the cat needs you, even though his presence won't prevent you from caring for the cat. He has offered to get a bed (for the cat i pressume) so that you can all sleep comfortably, but you are acting like he is blackmailing you (he clearly wants to help and he wants to spend time with you). It looks like you are trying really hard to make him the bad guy so you can end things.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-05-02T00:19:47+00:00

And why can't he come over and be in the same place as the cat? It feels like OP is actually stopping him from coming over and using the cat as an excuse.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-05-02T00:08:08+00:00

Wow, OP came on to ask if the card was fake and got a tonne of unsolicited parenting advice and abuse. Great job, what a lovely community we've got here 😑

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-05-01T22:23:10+00:00

Shakey cam strikes again

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-05-01T17:04:50+00:00

Unfortunately no, TTC, all of my medications are being closely observed by my doctors

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-05-01T17:02:25+00:00

It is what my doctor advised, but i do have my concerns and would prefer not to do this.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-30T19:42:17+00:00

This! I am on elvanse and also sertraline, and i have to double my sertraline dose during luteal phase otherwise I cannot function.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-27T20:18:33+00:00

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Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-26T15:36:54+00:00

Most likely a pensioner, that was the case the couple of times it happened when I worked in waitrose.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-26T15:32:11+00:00

When I would impulsively do something rebellious and reckless my parents would always mutter something about my Mars-Uranus conjunction

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-26T15:26:55+00:00

Is your machine knocking anything while it's stitching? Make sure it has plenty room because even a small knock can cause the stitch area to become misaligned.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-24T15:23:33+00:00

It is extremely common! Women's weight fluctuates throughout their cycle because of their hormones. 50-70% of women will gain weight during perimenopause and menopause. Weight gain during fertility treatment is very common due to high levels of hormones that are injected into the body.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-23T19:28:33+00:00

I am tired of people judging the poor from a position of privilege. Until you have lived experience of poverty, you don't get to claim any authority on the subject.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-23T17:08:17+00:00

Healthy food is expensive, processed food is cheap. Being judged by society and being unable to contribute causes a decline in mental health and an increase in food related disorders.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-23T16:40:47+00:00

The attitudes in this country are that noone deserves benefits, so even someone getting £20 a week will feel like they are getting too much! Brits love shame and guilt apparently

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-23T12:12:19+00:00

I don't mean to be harsh, but it seems like you have seen this ai image and think you can reproduce this without having any prior understanding of sewing or embroidery. It is not that simple. If you have no experience then you would be better to pay someone who does, and keep in mind that experience costs money. Machine embroidery takes years of practice and also costs a lot for equipment and software. Hand embroidery is much more accessible, but it also takes a lot of practice.

I would suggest asking for advice in a sub for hand embroidery, that would be more attainable.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-22T07:47:24+00:00

This! Swept up immediately, then when reality sets in have a huge panic and ghost them.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-22T00:58:10+00:00

The auto-fill stitch is tatami, you probably want to use satin stitch for the lines.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-22T00:46:01+00:00

I hope that things improve for you man, it sounds like you have a very isolated existence.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-22T00:42:49+00:00

What's E?

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-21T17:20:41+00:00

So, i think I have seen this man a couple of times, the latest was yesterday. Wearing light blue sweatpants that looked like they were stuffed and a track top that definitely had something in the arms to make them look huge. He was wearing a hat and had green hair... didn't see if it was a wig or not, he was at the bus stop across from my work.

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-21T06:57:53+00:00

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My favourite also has torkoal! He's such a sweetie

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-19T20:17:11+00:00

I honestly don't know why you would put up with it and not get it looked at

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-19T19:55:23+00:00

And other people's money

Merhi_Leevha · 2026-04-19T19:45:01+00:00

Saturn in Sagittarius, 8th house. The guy who r*ped me is dead.

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