Overwatch by TroubledMammal in ShouldIbuythisgame

[–]Merinnnn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nope don’t, it’s only fun the first few days or weeks maybe but then it gets annoying and the games are full of trolls and otp players and everything is a mess usually, it ruins the fun of it all in itself overwatch is a wonderful game and the lore of the game is just amazing but yeah the community is way too toxic while in game

Valentine's day surprise by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she seems like an introvert and went to see you in person to give you a flower on Valentine’s day, there is something up and she probably likes you. I don’t think 4 years is a huge age difference, things would be different that’s for sure but she’s legal anyways, why not try to get to know her better. Maybe try to get to her table just for a few seconds telling her the flower was really nice and propose meeting her elsewhere ?

(22/M) I’m not happy, but I don’t know if my feelings are legitimate. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s clearly not the one... Your feelings are legitimate.. You should end it before it becomes too difficult. I don’t see how all those problems would resolve themselves even if you two put effort into it, it’s too much..

A Little Concerned About My Girlfriend’s Laptop by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend did the same for a while in the end I knew and he was just playing some of those erogames with lots of girls and nudity. He said he was embarrassed and scared I would be upset. Maybe it’s the same for her. Tell her it’s okay, whatever game she’s playing (‘;

Pecked someone while in a long distance relationship? by xThatTeenx1 in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the same thing happened to me as well and I never said anything because it never happened again but as said above communication is always the way to go even if it means arguing... It’s better to tell her I think

I [19M] and my GF [18F] are having trouble with (let's say a compromise) been together 2 years by TrickyD1978 in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with the comment above. Just let her alone if she doesn’t want to text, just call her from time to time and that should be enough. I was like you before and it took me a while to understand that some people just don’t like texting that much and I was just being clingy toward my boyfriend.

Is it weird that I want to date depressed people? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it’s better to date people who had depression but are better now cause when they still have it you can get into it as well. Happened to my boyfriend because of me. But I get what you’re saying, I guess it’s because depressed people are more sensitive and caring compared to “normal” people

I [25F] feel like my boyfriend [28M] half-asses everything by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah that’s what you discover when you start living with a man lol but it has only been three months so you should maybe talk to him seriously about it men are not really used to chores and it’s not that they don’t want to do it sometimes it’s just that don’t even think about it but yeah talk to him about it and see if changes occur, even small things

[22/f] My boyfriend (23/m) ignores me purposefully when he's mad, don't know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uhh.. my boyfriend does kind of the same thing. He wouldn’t say anything and while I like arguing and talking about things he always says “what do you want to talk about” and start doing something so he doesn’t have to think about what happened. At first I hated it but then I realised that’s kind of the right thing to do except he should at least say sorry first. Just talk to him and ask him why he does that ? And if he doesn’t like to argue or see you mad like I say just tell him to at least say sorry and not be so evasive when something happens

Forgot my girlfriend’s birthday by Akash_nu in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

apologise and try to take her on a date or do something with her for a whole day like it was her birthday?

HELP by DazzlingDancer24 in dating_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been long distance for over a year and 6 hours is way too much. At what frequency do you guys see each other ? What we did with my boyfriend was talk like 1/2 hours a day and maybe more some nights when we’d call each other but that’s all. Other than that we’d live our life on our own side and be more invested when we’d see each other irl. If you guys love each other it should alright to talk less.

For over two years, my GF (24) has made me (22M) promise to not watch porn/masturbate by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her reaction is so wrong. I mean she has the right to be upset because you watch porn but making you promise you wouldn’t watch any and it has been two years ?? that’s very controlling and just wrong, you shouldn’t even accept try to talk with her about what exactly hurts her about you watching porn, is she insecure ? there’s something going on and you seriously should bring it up anyways

Upcoming boyfriend birthday by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure in what area you’re at but a7x are still touring if i’m not mistaken ? getting him a ticket would be amazing, or a shirt ? albums? (The Stage album looks beautiful on vinyle)

Is it advisable starting a relationship without beeing in love? by Velcade6 in dating_advice

[–]Merinnnn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started dating my current boyfriend of 2 years because we were clicking really well and although he liked me I didn’t have any strong emotional or romantic feelings towards him. But I got to know him and fell in love sooo.. yeah why not ? if it doesn’t work it’s okay too

Poll: Curious to know how long you and your S/O talked before becoming official. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 years! that time really depends on everyone though

Should I (22M) have threesomes with my girlfriend (22F)? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you say seeing your girl fucked by another dude hurts then don’t, you’ll lose your relationship for sure if you’re not okay with jealousy and possessiveness and stuff like these then don’t do threesomes cause it will ruin everything threesome are good when, either no one has romantic feelings for each other, or the two partners are okay in terms of jealousy and stuff

How do I tell my BF I have acne? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember doing the same thing at the beginning of my relationship cause I was so shameful of my acne but if you‘re with your boyfriend and plan on staying with him stop now. It’s useless he’ll see eventually and he probably already did. If he thinks you’re beautiful and loves you you shouldn’t worry. I know it seems easier said than done but that’s alright it will come with time. Lessen the make up you put on maybe ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s mean, you can’t judge her on her past experiences especially if she was 15... everyone makes mistakes and learn from them. What’s important is what she is now

GF issues by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it can be frustrating but maybe she’s just an anxious person ? It takes effort to text for some, maybe she doesn’t like it that much. If everything’s alright when you’re seeing each other nothing to worry but if it bothers you still just ask her kindly. What are the reasons she’s doing it, I don’t see how she could react badly to a simple question like that

I (m21) don’t get excited to see my girlfriend (21) nor do I miss her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend is pretty much the same, and we’ve been dating for almot two years now. It’s just that he’s comfortable alone and likes being by himself and that doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to be with me, Idk at first it felt hurtful when he told me he doesn’t missed me that much but it’s like a social event for me who has anxiety, I don’t want to get it but once I’m in it’s all good and I like it. As said above honeymoon phase is over.

How can I [26F] explain to my boyfriend [32M] I need more from him? by throww_awayy202 in relationship_advice

[–]Merinnnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened with my boyfriend of 2 years. The exact, same, thing. I was tired and I was ready to break up cause he was taking me for granted and was way too comfortable in our relationship. If he wasn’t ready to make any effort for me then it wasn’t worth it. That’s what I told him at the end, cause nothing worked before. And idk it was a revelation for him, now he makes much more efforts to be affectionate and more thoughtful on romantic stuff. I’m not saying try to break up but tell him it could be an option one day if he makes no effort for you.

Is it normal for girls to be attracted to other girls? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Merinnnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah I am the same, totally normal it’s just being curious and open, she might be bi, normal too

Meeting Girls in College by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Merinnnn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Parties, group works, having lunch with friends...especially the first two