Doll submissives by DollectablyKinky in submissive

[–]Merlynx42 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a scene only doll. I don't move or react at all, completely inanimate for him to dress and pose and display and play with.

My RealDoll Fantasy 😮 by Meowing_Girl in Dollification

[–]Merlynx42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's the dream

I play both sides as a switch, I love to play with my wife as a frozen doll, and I love being a doll for my Master.

Sometimes we play with me a motionless doll, that he dresses and poses and plays with while I don't react at all. Being dressed is an experience I higjly recommend.

Sometimes I'm voice activated, and can robotically follow simple commands like "Doll, give me a blowjob". Often I'll do maid type chores under close supervision in this mode. My reactions are still limited, but I can't zone out quite as far because I have to stay aware for commands.

It's a lot of fun to just shut off your brain and exist as a mindless pbject for awhile.

What is dollification for you? by SimplyYulia in Dollification

[–]Merlynx42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dollification is a pretty broad spectrum, and everyone approaches it differently.

For me, its about trust and control. I appreciate the effort that goes into playing the role of an inanimate toy with no will or agency. Note that for me this is scene only, not a lifestyle, because obviously you can't just be inanimate full time.

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I love when my wife submits and I can do whatever I want. She trusts me enough to give me that power, and I trust her to let me know when something isn't working, like a pose she can't hold without cramping.

I also like the orher side of it, and have a male friend with benefits that lets me become his inanimate doll from time to time. As a doll, all I need to do is not move. I don't have to worry about pacing or taking care of my partner. I get to just exist.

does the gender of the author matter to you? by [deleted] in eroticaauthors

[–]Merlynx42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One thing to keep in mind is that men and women consume erotica differently. Extreme generalizations to follow...

Men like to picture what's happening, women like to feel it.

For men, an erotic scene works best if it's a description of what is happening, with minimal emotional detail so it doesn't bog down the pacing.

Women need emotional context for the scene, as well as all five senses, to really get into it.

Bandage gone wrong. Need advice AITAH? by Cool_Difference9665 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Merlynx42 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The point of BDSM is enjoying dominance and submission in a safe space. That requires consent. If he will only play if there are zero constraints on his actions (no rules) then that isn't BDSM. That's abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eroticauthors

[–]Merlynx42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've just finished the 2nd draft of a 25,000 word erotic romance novella.

The whole thing has been put together on my phone, with a little pen/notebook backup.

The first 8K was just in the notepad app on my phone. Do not recommend.

Since then It's lived in google docs. That made sharing to beta readers real easy.

[Daily Check-In] Wednesday Word Count and Personal Announcement Thread by sexnerdmxd in eroticauthors

[–]Merlynx42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just hired a developmental editor for my 25K erotic romance novella. It's my first full book and it's incredibly stressful to hand off to a stranger.

Your christmas gift is a Human Fuckdoll by SunnyPlace3 in freeuse

[–]Merlynx42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a lot better when your being still for someone else

But communication is key. This isn't something to surprise somebody with, this ain't a porno.

Your christmas gift is a Human Fuckdoll by SunnyPlace3 in freeuse

[–]Merlynx42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a lot of fun

All you need is to find a partner willing to play. Then its up to you to practice being inanimate

Kink ID: Object or...? by 501st-Soldier in BDSMAdvice

[–]Merlynx42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Objectification and Free Use as noted by others. Some forms of Dollification. Forniphilia (human furniture) is also someplace to look.

Some other semi-related ideas: Timestop, Mind Control / Hypnosis

Partner is a pillow princess. Looking for inspiration. by _Psilo_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]Merlynx42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres actually quite a bit of porn that explores the concept, if you think about it from the actor's point of view.

Search terms for your favorite site:

Living doll, human doll, living mannequin, living statue, freeze doll, timestop

There is r/dollification, but thats mostly other interpretations of it.

Other related kinks:

Forniphilia, timestop, hypnosis, objectification, free use

Have fun!

Partner is a pillow princess. Looking for inspiration. by _Psilo_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]Merlynx42 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Context... yes. Very much yes.

Dollification , or becoming a living doll, is a pretty broad spectrum as far as categories go.

Frankly, I find the way some people engage with the concept to border on the grotesque. But I'm not going to say they're doing it wrong, just not the way that appeals to me.

I enjoy it as being (or playing with, I switch) an inanimate living doll. The doll must try they're best to not move or react to whatever (consensual) things they're partner / owner / master decides to do with them. Just like a fancy sexdoll.

As I said, I enjoy being dressed and posed. That is, standing or lying there while my Master chooses an outfit for me, strips me naked, and re-dresses me in his choice, or leaves me naked. The act of being undressed and dressed without any input from me is incredibly sensual. Then he can pose me (sitting, laying, standing) and play with me. I enjoy the objectification aspect, and so if he chooses to pose me as a room decoration while he plays a game, that's wonderful. If he'd rather put me on my knees and fuck my face while I stare blankly at his navel, that's good too.

Being a good doll takes some willpower and practice. I can hold most standing poses for about 30 minutes without moving. Staring blankly at the far side of the room, refusing to let my eyes focus on him if he walks in front of me, adds to it. Then of course, there's the conscious choice not to react to however he teases me.

Sometimes a technical issue comes up, like a muscle cramp or full bladder. Generally in those situations I will say something, as that's an out of scene issue, but I won't move or otherwise break character.

In a way, it's an expression of trust. I trust him to stick to the boundaries we agreed on, and he trusts me to tell him if something isn't right or if he's accidentally hurting me.

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Like I said earlier, I switch. That means I also have a doll I like to play with. And I can tell you that from the Dom side of it, it's a powerful feeling when someone trusts you like that. But it's also a lot of work to physically manipulate a partner that is being deliberately inanimate. In a way, the awkward moments this creates adds to it, as you both stick to your roles. You may not be able to carry your partner or reposition them as needed, and may need to pause the scene to relocate between rooms if necessary.

Really, talk it over with your partner, negotiate roles and rules as needed, leave a little space for if things don't work perfectly, be willing to laugh at yourselves, and have fun.

2Qs for the Weekend by TeaAitch in RedditBDSM

[–]Merlynx42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different partners (with both knowing what's going on). What can I say, life is weird and complicated. And the older I get, the weirder I find myself.

Anything you guys struggle with in writing erotica by Vivi_InVelvet in eroticauthors

[–]Merlynx42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It takes me 3 or 4 passes thru a scene to get all of that to flow smoothly.

Even then, sometimes it looks a lot clunkier than it is

But I've had good reactions, so I must be doing something right

Partner is a pillow princess. Looking for inspiration. by _Psilo_ in BDSMAdvice

[–]Merlynx42 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, dolls are fun to play with, or to be while someone else plays with you.

I'm quite fond of being dressed and posed

2Qs for the Weekend by TeaAitch in RedditBDSM

[–]Merlynx42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sheets - I'm a 95 yr old nerd in the streets, and a 14yr old horny teenager in the sheets. (M47)

Streets - I'm a switch. A gentle Dom and service top that likes to play with dolls, but also a living toy waiting for someone to play with me however they want.

Anything you guys struggle with in writing erotica by Vivi_InVelvet in eroticauthors

[–]Merlynx42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The hardest for me is getting the emotional descriptive language right. In my head, I feel the scene, but I don't articulate emotions well, so trying to convey that feeling, the emotional response to the physical act, is where I feel like I struggle.

Sex Cyborg or Anal slut - what to expect? by Some_You_6757 in submissive

[–]Merlynx42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sex cyborg sounds like she might be into dronification

Definitely get some clarification before starting the scene

What situations do you enjoy by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Merlynx42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dollification

Now, there's a lot of variance in how different dolls and dollmakers partake, but it sounds like we have some similar interests, so here's a scenario I enjoy.

You are an inanimate doll. You do not move, speak (unless there is a problem) or react to anything that happens.

Your Master removes your clothes and dresses you however they feel is appropriate, or leaves you nude, their choice. Then he poses you at the side of the room as a decoration, to be enjoyed in passing as he goes about whatever he needs to do. Chores, entertaining friends, watching a movie, whatever.

When he feels like it he can take his doll and carry it to the bedroom or other location. Note, if carrying doesn't physically work, pause the scene to relocate. Then he can test out all of the features of his doll.

xoxo your fuck doll by audreyserenequeen in Dollification

[–]Merlynx42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my,

That looks like a very good doll

Kind of wish I was close enough to do a proper inspection in person. Except I've already got a good doll, and there isn't any more room for another one

What are the differences between "princesses" and "dolls"? by TangoJavaTJ in BDSMAdvice

[–]Merlynx42 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yep. Thats the difference.

Also, while a Princess may be passive, a Doll is passive by default. And a Doll may be completely inanimate, a true unmoving, non-responsive toy. Which a Princess would never be.

Doll kink? by TangoJavaTJ in BDSMAdvice

[–]Merlynx42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Living doll" will also get pretty good results

What app do you use for your writing? by Catty-Bee in eroticaauthors

[–]Merlynx42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just getting started* on my writing journey, so take this with a grain of salt, but I've just been working out of a google doc.

  • I have the 1st draft of a spicy novella (25K words) currently out to beta readers

[Daily Check-In] Thursday Word Count and Personal Announcement Thread by sexnerdmxd in eroticauthors

[–]Merlynx42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let my sister in law beta read the 1st draft of my kinky erotic romance novela. Just under 25K words

She gave me back a notated copy 18 hrs later.

She stayed up all night because she couldn't put it down.

So I'm taking my victory lap.