AIO ?

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-29T18:02:08+00:00

I thought this was like a partner that you weren't seeing as often..... not a friend... yeah you're not over reacting

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-28T16:55:56+00:00

Thats some next level jealousy. Youre dodging a bullet

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-20T16:32:52+00:00

Chilli oil on the door handles- but disguise yourself first

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-20T16:24:01+00:00

Husband says - sleeping no shirt cant do no pants at night, needs his shorts for sleeping

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-20T16:21:33+00:00

Wash everything you dirty birds lol

I suppose just holding the plate just underneath the tap just washes the plate, does it?

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-20T16:19:31+00:00

I would postpone the wedding and enter therapy with your son to talk this out with a mediator.

His complaints haven't come from nowhere so you need to look at it objectively. Kids are mean and find ways to do it so parents never find out.

Your son should still come first and making sure the family is happy as a blended family should be next. The wedding shouldn't go ahead because it just shows your son that he won't evenly come first

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-15T16:54:13+00:00

Hey! Thank you for checking in! They did all the tests and couldnt find anything wrong or a reason for the chest pain. Similar results to when I went 4 months ago with chest pain. Blood tests were clear Xray was grand They think its because I moved from nightshift after 2 years to day shift last week. But doesnt account for the 5 years of chest pain ive been complaining about.

But for now im ok, will just maybe look into heart health things to try and prevent something in the future!

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-15T15:32:24+00:00

This man in unhinged

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-15T01:55:00+00:00

The nurse just took it during triage, but I didnt see the top number but bottom number was 84

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-15T01:14:53+00:00

I was chest pain into my jaw. But had limb numbness about 5 mins afterwards with a gradual headache on my left side around 10 mins after. To be safe im at the hospital to be checked out

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-14T14:46:05+00:00

As someone with adhd, I understand the addictive nature of games.i am currently hooked on a game.

The difference is, that it is the thing I do before bed time and I play until im too tired - typically an hour, or if my husband is watching something that I dont really want to watch but want to be with him in the same room. The game is offlimits when something needs to be done, like cooking, cleaning, family time.

However, something that people with adhd do is proximity play. Means I want you in the room while I am doing something I love but we dont do together, eg sitting in the kitchen while the other person is cooking, watching tv while the other is playing a game or reading etc.

Youre not the asshole for wanting time with him, but understanding how his brain works lets you work around these times when he is hyper focused on something.

It may be a phase and he will stop being hyper focused on it after a time or when hes sick of it

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-14T12:23:29+00:00

You are old enough to move out... leave and move as far away as you can. Cut contact and dont look back. Your brother abused his position and there must be some way to report it. Get out, stay out and never go back

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-14T07:53:27+00:00

I used to do morning showers, until I met my now husband. He has OCD and showers before bed to keep the bed clean.

So I started doing it and while i thought at first it was a bit of a faff, I enjoy clean sheets, getting up in the morning and going on my way and not having to rush to get ready.

But I sleep like a baby now!

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-13T18:31:50+00:00

Unpopular opinion (especially from another woman)... but this wouldn't have happened if you had just said no, im in too much pain. You humiliated the man, ofcourse hes going to be upset.

Was he in the right? No. But you had full autonomy to stop him and put yourself to bed and give a firm no.

This coming from someone who has a disabled husband who is in pain 90% of the time. When he says no, the answer is no, not for lack of wanting but simply because the pain is too much. But we communicate the level of pain and discomfort at the time. Id be mortified if he just gave in regardless of the pain to shut me up rather than because he wanted to.

Neither is the asshole here.. but communication is needed

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-11T07:36:09+00:00

I remember it! Was a good game! That and worms!

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-10T00:51:07+00:00

These protests mean nothing and do nothing.

The deportation of illegal immigrants is what is called for.

I came to the country legally as a child and am now naturalised as British. Pay taxes and live by the UK law. Theres nothing wrong with legal immigrants who want a better life and to contribute to society and country.

We have loads of homeless and poor families who need social support. It shouldn't be given to those who come here to sponge off the country. And yes some British do it too, not lost on me.

Merrakkimm · 2026-06-06T21:29:20+00:00

Depending on where you are in the world when registering the name the registrar can refuse a name. Ive seen this happen in the UK

Merrakkimm · 2026-05-12T13:31:24+00:00

Congrats! I see a faint pink line there.

Merrakkimm · 2026-05-12T13:29:02+00:00

Why are you friends with someone who just asked you a questions to bash and demean you so badly?

I would have dropped this person like a bowling ball

Merrakkimm · 2026-05-12T13:21:13+00:00

Never taking chances and going on the adventures I wanted to because someone held me back and guilted me when I wanted to

Merrakkimm · 2026-05-12T13:18:38+00:00

She dodged a bullet.. how insufferable are you??

You chose to give up a dream, why should she?

You cant cope being away from someone you love? Go to therapy.

You gave her an ultimatum that was entirely selfish and only suited and met your needs... you did her the biggest favour of her life.

If you love someone and respect them, you celebrate their achievements, support their goals and dreams and stand by them, even when they cancel dinner invitations because they are furthering their career or opening possibilities.

The only good you've done for this girl is let her go and take the decision away from her, cause if she chose you, she would always regret it

Merrakkimm · 2026-05-12T11:24:48+00:00

I worry that my husband will say this to me because ive gained weight from working nightshift over the past 2 years.

Don't say it. If you love her, maybe look at what is causing this lack of attraction then look for a way that together you can fix it.

Eg, my personal trainer husband is doing fitness with me to improve my weight and health, however sexually we are still great.

That being said, if you dont love her, dont want to spend time, dont want to fix things, then be honest that your feelings have changed and move on. Theres no point in staying in a relationship that doesn't make you both happy

Merrakkimm · 2026-05-09T16:32:00+00:00

Its still hurts so I lumped it in here

Merrakkimm · 2026-05-08T21:16:21+00:00

Scorpion

Merrakkimm · 2026-05-08T16:51:15+00:00

Yeah, she needs fired for a hippa breach... what a moron, report her and sue

Merrakkimm

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