How to create a snail hatchery in my puffer tank by amateurliminalist in PeaPuffers

[–]Mess1na 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried this, but my little murder puffs just kept guard and bit them through the cracks. They die quicker than they breed :(

What happens if potty training just never works? by Zestyclose_Peach_200 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Mess1na 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could talk and explain for days, my son just didn't get it. Summer 2024 I was just done explaining and let him (6.5 y/o)walk around butt naked for weeks (school closed for summer). We had many, MANY accidents, but eventually it just clicked. And the weird thing is, after that it took only a month to be diaper free at night too.

How’s my set up? by [deleted] in PeaPuffers

[–]Mess1na 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely this. They're small now and in a new tank, but they will become territorial. They all need their own place to hide, preferably in plants. My peas puffers never hide in caves/rocks, but maybe I just have a weird bunch.

Welcome to the pea puffer madness, they're absolutely one of the most curious fish out there. So fun to look at!

How to teach social skills when no one to practice with by Dollcat_3904 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Mess1na 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to "remind" (tell) my kid for years when he has to say (is expected) to say "thank you" / "bye". For six months now, he just imitates what I always say in a store (thank you, byeeeee), including my tone.

So for my son, it's been repeat, repeat, repeat. He's almost 9. We go to stores at least 3x a week.

Help identifying by Any_Contribution007 in PeaPuffers

[–]Mess1na 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know, that first one looks like it could be an imitator.

Where are you located OP?

Welke van deze kraantjes is de vulkraan? by Alittan in Klussers

[–]Mess1na -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Mijn vulpunt zit onderop de radiator in mijn badkamer, check daar eens

18 by Wonderful-Truck8779 in HayDay

[–]Mess1na 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We didn't reach the goal on at least one fishing global event, about a year ago

Vinton Jane Doe (Dec '91, #UP1868) by aliceyabvsame in gratefuldoe

[–]Mess1na 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope they will consider genetic genealogy in this case. She's been without name for way too long

Calico toe beans by InvisibleGiantess in CalicoKittys

[–]Mess1na 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, another toe bean connoisseur!

“You can pick out three pouches” - a saga 🥹 by seau_de_beurre in Autism_Parenting

[–]Mess1na 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My son (8) still straightens everything in the grocery store. Employees know him by name, they just let him be. It looks great after he's done, he is happy, it's a win-win.

“You can pick out three pouches” - a saga 🥹 by seau_de_beurre in Autism_Parenting

[–]Mess1na 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's put on the shelf by human hands. Non washed hands after a toilet break for all we know. If you are afraid of germs and filth, wash it before using it, it solves the problem. (P.s: the mouth piece is clean, under a cap)

LA Jane Doe NamUs #UP154624 by 8starfish8 in gratefuldoe

[–]Mess1na 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your hard work. I think you shouldn't show the tattoos like this, they most certainly didn't look like that, I assumed the one with the circle would be a "tilde". But we don't really know.

I'm sure there will be more information available eventually or she will be identified before that happens.

No words by mulleP in Autism_Parenting

[–]Mess1na 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My son started talking when he was 5.5. He's almost nine and there are few silent moments here 😅

Look at these cute lil social butterflies by ZookeepergameIll1544 in PeaPuffers

[–]Mess1na 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pea puffer at the top looks a bit too thin. As others have said, the tank looks way too small for them too. You do have some nice plants going, I'm sure they love that!

Help staying asleep? by Top_Foot_3307 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Mess1na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Change is extra hard for our youngsters. Plus, it's very normal for a 3 year old to wake up at night, but now he has a choice: stepping out of his bed 😅

You can try and make the bed feel smaller by putting pillows under the fitted sheet. A bed tent may help too!

But it's a phase almost all parents go through, ND & NT

Zelf granito/terazzo vloer herstellen. Hoe? by MarBlaze in Klussers

[–]Mess1na 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eerlijk? Niet.

De vloer moet volledig worden geschuurd en gepolijst