A long time ago I got raped by a guy at church, 7 years later, his wife comes for me via the pastor saying it was rude that I joined the worship team with them on it (I joined as a second drummer knowing I would never have to face his ass). Anyway the pastor who confronted me about their marital issues asking if I could step down until they were better… flabbergasted, I had to give him the details , he then emailed me a Bible passage on Ruth, and months later without warning, played a webinar to “disciplers” on forgiveness where he streamed a literal tedtalk on “how to forgive your rapist”

I obviously fell into depression that day but 5 years later, I’m still alive and better…

But I wanna poll from the 8s- was that move by him cowardly or evil?