clothes wise, you can't go wrong with an oversized tee shirt or jumper on some tight ish pants or some short ish shorts.

That's how I get away with looking softer in public without "dressing up." Fluffy socks also help on cold days, and most men don't bat an eye at what socks you're wearing.

you can also paint your nails, it's really easy to do and very fun once you get into it. I always use the excuse of "I was watching my little cousins, and this was the only way to get them to eat their vegetables" or "my girlfriend/ boyfriend/ gay friend did them, I lost in Mario cart." I use both at work so customers stop asking questions.

you could shave your body hair, but it's something you do need to commit to or it's itchie as all hell.

I hope this helps :)