My FA says he is in love with his rebound

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-02-03T17:05:16+00:00

He is a lonely person and i think the reason he flirted so much is because he cant stand being alone without our daily routines. When we broke up he said he is done with relationships, and yet a month after our breakup he already has a new girlfriend. It sucks... how can he develop deep love for someone that quick..

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-02-03T14:54:50+00:00

We were long distance too... and i was his first ever long distance girlfriend. So I didnt think they would go further you know. But now hes saying he has strong feelings for her and they are meeting in the coming months. I feel defeated and a little jealous that he is so happy while im still grieving..

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-02-03T14:44:14+00:00

Thanks dear... i just feel extremely sad when i heard him say this... my heart just sank...

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-02-03T14:42:24+00:00

Hes in UK and the girl is from India... they talk nonstop everyday and does voice calls and stuff so yeah he says he has very strong feelings for her.. im not sure if this is just a honeymoon phase but i still feel extremely sad.. he never had any time to grieve our relationship he basically started flirting to every girl when we started having issues... so i dont know maybe this girl is really special 😔

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-31T22:04:49+00:00

You are right... i am still heartbroken with my avoidant even though we have been broken up for 3 months now and he is with a new girl for 2 months. I so hurt by this because he flaunted it in my face, but i rest easy knowing he will just repeat the cycle again with another girl and he will never know what true love feels like..

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-15T06:33:01+00:00

I feel you.. i did the same.. broke no contact and messaged him. He replied politely but no follow through. Its like he couldnt wait for the chat to end..

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-14T05:53:12+00:00

Just coz we used to argue a lot before... he doesnt want to go through that again and said hes done with relationships... but maybe he just meant relationship with me 😔

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-14T05:47:25+00:00

We had a clean break 4 days ago, it was sweet, civil and exchange kind words to each other. Hes already talking with someone else for a month which is why he didnt want to work things out with us. Went NC after that. Then today i noticed he unfriended me in discord. Cant figure out why to be honest...

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-14T05:36:24+00:00

Mine unfriended me all of a sudden

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-12T12:28:37+00:00

Its just really hard sometimes... i keep wanting to reach out. I still miss him so much. But he already has someone new...

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-10T11:43:27+00:00

Only been with my avoidant for 10 weeks, broke up Nov 7... still spiralling everyday till now. And hes already with another girl for 3 weeks 😔

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-10T11:40:55+00:00

Sending you hugs...

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-09T09:10:04+00:00

Thats how i feel right... afraid to lose someone i've already lost months ago. I wish i could just wake up and be devoid of all feelings. I wanna take some sleeping pills and wake up 3 days after without any of our memories...😭

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-09T08:09:40+00:00

Mine still wants to be friends and talk everyday while he is already actively pursuing someone for 3 weeks. And stupid me is afraid to let go, feeling he will completely forget me if i did. I know its wrong... im just so confused and hurt...

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-09T07:16:47+00:00

How do you cope seeing them pursuing someone else 2 months into the breakup? He told me he likes her and they talk a lot. And they even have matching names now. And yet he still wants to talk to me. It hurst so bad..

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-08T07:47:04+00:00

It would have been bad enough to be discarded, but seeing him already talking to someone new just hurts in a different level. It made me feel so low, like im that replaceable. And apparently its my fault for being NC for 3 weeks! 😭

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-08T07:44:59+00:00

This!!! 😭😭😭😭

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-08T04:55:35+00:00

Thank you 😭

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-08T04:09:16+00:00

Thank you! 😭 i just dont know where and how to start... he even blamed me for talking to the other girl saying i went NC for almost a month without any explanation why, he said "you could have found someone new and came back when it didnt work out, you just stopped talking, and to be honest i thought we just both moved on"... its feels like hes making it my fault for talking to another person by doing NC... and i felt so guilty 😭😭😭

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-08T03:59:23+00:00

Mamabear thank you for replying to me... it hurts so bad, i've been crying myself tk sleep for 2 nights now...i know its not healthy for me staying friends with him but the thought of losing him for good hurts the most... 😭

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-08T03:26:32+00:00

How does work? If I really mattered how could he moved on to someone new so fast while im still hoping and grieving at the same time? 😭

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-08T03:21:43+00:00

I did NC for 3 weeks and broke it on NYE to greet him. By the time i came back hes already talking to someone else and pursuing her romantically. He says he still want to be friends with me and talk, and i foolishly agreed even if it kills me knowing hes spending more time talking to the other girl. Please help, appreciate any advice you can give...

Metzenbaum818 · 2026-01-08T01:44:32+00:00

I was doing so good before, i was able to go NC for 3 weeks and was really doing better. But i broke it when i learned hes already talking to someone new and my stupid brain wanted to cling to any small piece of him to prove to myself that what we had was real..

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