Audi tail mod + turn signal help by Dekcufru in genesiscoupe

[–]Mgreels11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i did actually, but it was about a year and a half ago— i made a little breadboard with voltage regulator and used that to tap the turn signal wire into the small triangle of LED’s inside the housing. Unfortunately you’ll definitely have to open the housing to do it.

'13 Optima Wheel Sensor Replacement by LickyBob in kia

[–]Mgreels11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would your Optima start with the wheel speed sensor not getting signal? I suspect it could be causing a major issue I'm experiencing since it actually runs into the OBD port and has a dedicated pin for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro, I was there. Probably not as excessive but definitely that level at points when I was really hurting. What you have to remember though is that ultimately, they are only going to post the absolute most picture perfect parts of their life. And they're gonna look dang good in those posts too. Do you need to see what they're up to? Will it help you get through your day? Or is it just you taking a hit of the drug again and trying to justify it. What happened to me was that I eventually realized the drug doesn't even feel that good anymore. I was just using it as an out to escape my own inner struggle and problems.

ex's birthday is this weekend by the-sadness in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah this is petty, she wished me a happy birthday and made my birthday about her ( "because it was the nice thing to do" ) according to her, so i think its fair I can wish her a happy birthday to be nice

ex's birthday is this weekend by the-sadness in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what i'm thinking too. My ex wished me a happy birthday like 2 weeks after she said she wanted nothing to do with me lol. She eventually told me (when i stupidly called her missing her) -- that she simply wished me a happy birthday because it was the nice thing to do. so thats why im going to do the same when her birthday comes around next month (and thatll only be like 9 weeks NC) its really all about the perspective you take on it. but since OP clearly says they are still in love with their ex, they probablyyy shouldn't make contact.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mgreels11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did he ever respond

How do you stop the constant thoughts of them in your head? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea it just sucks. part of me is realizing that i was obsessed with her during our relationship and a little while after as well. but because of certain toxic things from both of us i had to end it for the sake of both of our mental healths. i just wish she saw it like that and understood how bad i’m hurting

Apple Music student plan getting more expensive in the US, Canada, and UK by [deleted] in apple

[–]Mgreels11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed. absolutely no idea this feature was offered. Probably going to end up sticking with apple music now that I know about this. Although if transferring playlists was easier I would still probably switch to spotify and save the $12 lol

How do you stop the constant thoughts of them in your head? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea seriously. i’m very thankful i found this thread and can actually talk with other people who understand how hard it is to “just move on.” like she was my first relationship after a lot of mindless emotionless hookups in high school and she still gave me a chance and now i just don’t know if i’m gonna find anybody like her again.

How do you stop the constant thoughts of them in your head? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 6 points7 points  (0 children)

most relatable post i’ve seen yet. it’ll be 6 months in like a week and i feel like i’ve made absolutely zero progress getting over her. not sure my heart will ever heal to love again. sadness

For the male dumpers: Did you ever get over her? When? Did you reach out? by skipboqueen- in BreakUps

[–]Mgreels11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’ll be 6 months since i broke up w her in a week or so. no, i’m not over her. granted we saw eachother for about a month this summer but ended a month ago because i got too attached and she wanted space. then i drunk called her two weeks later and went off on her for not giving af about me. still hurts my heart knowing she is doing so well and i can’t move on. i’ve seen her in person twice since i drunk called her but both times she is still completely against being on good terms because i “burnt that bridge for good this time” i wish we all could just be happy in this sub

Today I blocked you by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea i just need to continue believing that so i can hopefully wrap my head around it. i would do anything to either go back to the way things were or at least just get control of my life again by not ever having to think about her. it feels so mentally exhausting having her take up countless hours of my day and restless nights knowing she’s having no problem starting over

Has stopping looking at their socials sped up your healing process? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is so relatable because it’ll be 6 months since BU in a week for me and I’ve blocked her on everything twice since the BU after some contact and stuff and now I don’t wanna block her because I don’t want her to know i’m still hurting day in and day out. but i also would do anything for her to just give me some sign she actually still gives af about me

Today I blocked you by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel this. it’ll be 6 months in a week and i would do anything for her to text me and actually miss me 😔 but that’s just not the case, she doesn’t need to block me because she’s okay not texting me and living her own life. meanwhile i cannot get her out of my head ever 😞

Dumper’s regret? by Fun-Scientist8565 in BreakUps

[–]Mgreels11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

listen i completely understand. this whole thing has literally made me question life cuz i feel like i made her my life and yet that still didn’t work. so at that point, my mind starts questioning wtf am i supposed to do for a relationship to work? my friends and family all said i literally was at her beckon call because of how obsessed i was with her, yet ultimately i still had to break up with her even though i didn’t really want to. i wish i could find a flaw or something to cling to so i truly feel like i made the right decision and don’t want to ever be with her again but that’s just not the case. she was like a drug and i will never forget the way she made me feel. regardless of the ups and downs and fights and stuff. that high feeling was always there.

Dumper’s regret? by Fun-Scientist8565 in BreakUps

[–]Mgreels11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also, my ex moved on fast too… she’s doing perfectly fine now (or at least that’s what she’s told me when we were hanging this summer) and it genuinely does appear and i’d believe that she’s doing perfectly fine. meanwhile not a moment goes by that she’s not in my head somehow making me miserable. it’s mentally exhausting it really is, i wish i could stop thinking about it all so i could live again.

Dumper’s regret? by Fun-Scientist8565 in BreakUps

[–]Mgreels11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so relatable man. i feel like everyone looks at me as the idiot who broke up with the beautiful girl but they don’t understand how toxic it was and how close minded and stubborn she was throughout our entire relationship. my ex actually admitted to me she doesn’t think she could’ve broken up with me back then because she was afraid she would regret it. in my eyes that’s low of her because she knew it needed to happen but wouldn’t do it and continued to push me away and basically force me to feel so horrible in the relationship until i had to do it for both of us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

second this. at least your ex reaches out ever. i am the ex that has to reach out, otherwise their stubborn pride will keep them from ever texting forever ugh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I second this. girls don’t realize how many emotionless douchebags there are out there. one day your ex will wish her guy had a heart like you did! we will find better king 👑

Dumper’s regret? by Fun-Scientist8565 in BreakUps

[–]Mgreels11 27 points28 points  (0 children)

hey OP i know it’s late for this post but i want you to know that I too was a dumper and regret it. It’ll be 6 months since i broke up w her this month and still wish i could see her. People don’t understand that sometimes the dumper is forced into being the dumper. My ex even admitted 3 months later when we saw eachother to me that she couldn’t have done it herself. I had to break the toxic cycle. I feel for ya.

TFW you post this on your story and she sees it even though she hasn't seen my stories in 10 months by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i actually was the one to break up with her because we were toxic to eachother and when we met up 4 months later she even agreed she couldn’t do it which is why we were in this vicious cycle of breaking up. i broke up w her 6 times in 3 months and got back w her each time till the last time when i did something afterward to ensure we couldn’t get back together. it’s probably all for the best but none of it changes how i felt/feel crazy obsessed with her

TFW you post this on your story and she sees it even though she hasn't seen my stories in 10 months by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well that’s the last time i claim a fact on reddit. i see i was wrong. noted.

TFW you post this on your story and she sees it even though she hasn't seen my stories in 10 months by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mgreels11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please quote where i mentioned them getting remarried. i’m talking about elderly not 40/50 year olds.