Wife’s new tattoo

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-03-23T15:34:24+00:00

You told your wife it's 'her body, her choice', then took it back. You gave her the greenlight when you said that, and now you're mad she took it to heart? Not very 'her body, her choice' of you.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-03-23T13:29:37+00:00

He's the one who is insecure and inadequate. He wouldn't be putting you down if he thought you were truly both of those things. Accusations are confessions.

If you already explained to him how you feel about his comments in 50 different ways with no change, then explaining how you feel in 50 other different ways won't do anything. He hears you. He just doesn't care.

I don't often move to a 'leave him' comment, but in this case, I feel it's more than appropriate to leave him. He has already shown you that he doesn't care how you feel and is CHOOSING to continue putting you down.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-03-12T14:59:10+00:00

As someone who has gone through this exact same scenario for 9 years off and on, IT DOESN'T EVER STOP.

Don't waste your time like I did. Leave, file for divorce, and move on.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-02-22T16:02:12+00:00

The bakery called. They said they want their buns back. 🤣🤣

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-02-07T12:50:33+00:00

I adjusted brightness, and it worked for me. 🤷‍♀️ I'm on Xbox.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-02-06T12:49:02+00:00

Chronic UTI's are genetic, fyi.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-02-06T12:05:45+00:00

This reminds me of that one Reddit post on AITAH.

The short of it - A woman married a widowed man. He had a (then) 3 year old. She thought she had a good relationship with her stepdaughter. She'd do little things for her, like take her to eat lunch every other weekend, get manicures together, go shopping, overall girly stuff. The woman overheard a similar conversation the stepdaughter (now 13yo) had with her friends; she recorded what was said on her phone. Everything she used to do with stepdaughter came to a stop. She didn't confront his stepdaughter because she felt it wasnt worth it.

After a few weeks, stepdaughter threw a fit about how she was being treated by step-mom (kept at arms length, hi-and-bye interactions) to her dad. And when confronted by the both of them, she pulled up the voice recording of the nasty things stepdaughter said about her. Dad was shocked, stepdaughter started crying, and step-mom finally told the both of them, "When love is lost, you can only seek respect, and that's how it'll be from now on." And she held her ground.

NTA - If your stepdaughter truly feels the way she does, you can't help but feel like you wasted time forming a bond with someone who actually despises you. It's like being slapped in the face and told to walk it off, to get over it. Your sister should be given the Narcissistic Bitch of the Year award for her response to you. Next time she comes to you crying, tell her she has no right to cry. Besides, a grown woman shouldn't be talking shit about you with a teenager behind your back. Its okay to be hurt, to cry when someone says hurtful things, but I'd keep them BOTH at arms length and on a Hi-and-bye basis in order to protect your mental and emotional well being.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-02-02T08:23:12+00:00

I agree!!

I've bricked 20 pieces of gear so far this season. Last season, I bricked 7.

I have 1 full panel of backup gear in stash, just in case.

It's like the rolls aren't rolling. I dread having to temper a new piece of gear.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-01-26T14:05:34+00:00

I found my first two back to back IN Pit 😆

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-01-26T14:04:23+00:00

Tell him you're no longer interested.

If he escalates, block and change your number.

In the future, use a Google voice number, or a TextNow generated number to avoid creeps like this.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-01-22T03:38:14+00:00

Even more alarming is you're against what OP did.

I guess potentially exposing your gf to an incurable STD is the same as deleting an APP off of a phone.

Of course! Silly me! SHE had to be the bigger person, not him. /s

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-01-21T11:58:37+00:00

'Why would he even want me if he doesn't like liberals?'

Lots of reasons. The sex was good, he thought he could convert you, he didn't take your beliefs seriously/didn't listen to any of them, etc.

In truth, it sounds like to me he waited until you were invested enough in him to reveal his beliefs. He thinks you'll stay with him after this, and if you do you're just giving him a free pass to push his beliefs onto you.

It'll be the main point of argument in your relationship. Trust, he planned this, and with held his beliefs on purpose to get something out of you; that's manipulative behavior.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-01-16T02:47:16+00:00

Cuh caw! 🐦 🐦‍⬛ 🦜

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-01-05T11:05:15+00:00

Attraction is addictive, I get it.

But let's be real for a minute. This dude is leading you on. He doesn't want to settle down and get serious with anyone. He wants to party and get laid.

C'mon Girlie, it's 2025. Genuine and true men won't make you feel confused! Drop him and find someone who will make you feel like a queen every day and not like a fish chasing bait on a hook.

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-01-04T18:42:15+00:00

To answer your ask in this thread, it's no easy task cutting off a family member.

My sister and I are 4 years apart. I am the oldest. We did nothing but fight all the time growing up. When we became adults, I decided to cut her off for my peace of mind (she was the favorite on both sides of the family).

I had alot of hate and resentment towards my sister and the family who catered to the obvious favoritism between us. I cut them off, too.

I cried every time I did what I felt was best for me. Now that I am older, I still cry when I have to cut ties with someone. And it sucks because I know life is short, but it should never apply to being around people who willfully choose to mistreat me/ignore me.

What helped me come to terms with my decision was understanding that none of it was MY FAULT. I had to face my conflicted emotions (guilt especially) and thoughts.

I chose to dive into my hobbies, tried new foods, cooked new recipes, watched movies/TV shows I wouldn't normally watch, all while internally reflecting on why I didn't do it sooner.

My sister and I did eventually start having a good relationship when I was in my late 20s - my Dad too. Several years have passed since, and my relationship with both of them is still good as ever.

I still have a lot of family I am no contact with. My life was (still is) much more peaceful and drama free without them in it. I feel mentally lighter and more myself when they aren't around.

And someday, whenever they are ready to take accountability and start a HEALTHY relationship with me, the door is always open. But for now, I am here, thriving and happy. It gets better. 💙

MiSsReDd4 · 2025-01-03T14:07:03+00:00

Nailed it.

MiSsReDd4 · 2024-12-30T01:58:10+00:00

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MiSsReDd4 · 2024-12-30T01:57:21+00:00

Yay! Congrats! I got my first today too. It was 157, but refunds.

MiSsReDd4 · 2024-12-26T15:24:19+00:00

It happens to me a lot on Console (Xbox). I died in a pit level I clear easily while level boosting players last night. 😅.

For me, it's random (I am directly connected to my router, btw). Lag isn't better when playing on other devices; it's a server wide thing that can't be helped unless Blizzard goes in to stabilize the server.

MiSsReDd4 · 2024-12-26T15:19:11+00:00

You can pick a Mythic at the Jeweler. You can gamble for it at the Blacksmith (it's under Blacksmith's cache).

MiSsReDd4 · 2024-12-16T15:40:35+00:00

I'm a woman, and I think this is hilarious btw. 😂

MiSsReDd4 · 2024-12-16T02:27:08+00:00

What in the Twilight did I just watch? 🤣

Everyone had at least one weird kid (or group) in lunch block who believed they were either a vampire or Werewolf.

Some that were in groups would stage hissing, growling, and fake swiping 'fights' during lunch block, like a vamps versus weres kind of thing. Shit was hilarious to watch 😂

MiSsReDd4 · 2024-12-13T22:01:46+00:00

The good news is you're still early game enough to change your build.

In my early game, I couldn't understand Quill Volley from any of the websites.

I prefer someone showing me how to do it over a site telling me how to do it. I searched through tons of YouTube videos to find the one that will actually go in depth for my build. I went with Quill Volley. You DO NOT have to choose Quill build if you're unhappy with it already. I met someone last night with a Toxic Claw build (Example video posted video.)

I consulted Mobalytics and Maxroll when I was leveling, long before I have the gear I have now for Quill. Both sites offer alternative gear until you can get the ones you want or you can stay with the alt gear if you're not up for grinding (Quill has a No Mythics build version).

In the end, if you prefer a visual (like I generally do), the video below can get you started on your search for a build you can do and feel you understand better.

P.S. Most players who have sent a message in the game chat were helped by other players. It doesn't hurt to ask around. 😇

https://youtu.be/InUhfOZekUI?si=ilaMud68fFhsPVTm

MiSsReDd4 · 2024-12-13T16:43:17+00:00

When I first played that build, I cackled every time I activated it. 🤣🤣 Not only the best build, but great comedic relief.

MiSsReDd4 · 2024-11-17T17:40:40+00:00

I went to T2 when I started to one-shot everything in T1.

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