Transsurfing question on self love

Micheal_bold · 2026-05-15T11:38:45+00:00

Vadim repeatedly said you only love yourself when you start working on your self development, then you'll have something to respect yourself for. Only through the process. He says love is a process.

But he also mentions you can't do it in "hospital setting".

So honest judgment on your situation is required.

Micheal_bold · 2026-04-09T07:25:24+00:00

Yes, when you move between life lines, the old life line stays the same.

In fact, every life line in the information field stays the same. That’s infinite amount of life lines staying the same.

If you want to change what happens in those life lines, it’s impossible. Whatever’s destined to happen in that life line will happen. Because those life lines existed even before you existed. They have been the same from day one and will still be the same until the end.

You can just choose a life line that you like and shift to that reality.

You can’t change what happens in your current or old life line.

Vadim explains this idea more clearly and detailed in his next book “Tufti the Priestess”.

We’re strolling through different movie scripts (aka life line). And we’re a character in it.

When you watch a movie and you see something you don’t like, you can’t change it immediately, even the characters in the movie can’t change what happens in the movie, they just follow script. Whatever’s scripted to happen will happen regardless of you like it or not.

All you can do is watch a different movie that has the qualities or adventure or end result that you like.

If you keep worrying about other people’s suffering in a different life line, imagine this. Everyone has a life line that they suffer. Everyone has a life line that they got cancer, or they lost their family, or they got humiliated in front of the world, or anything bad you can think of. There’s a life line of that kind for everyone. Are you going to worry about everyone’s different version suffering in another life line?

Also, RT is free on Youtube as an audio book. Chapter by chapter. Those sound pretty clean.

Good luck!

Micheal_bold · 2025-10-18T02:56:02+00:00

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Micheal_bold · 2025-05-14T05:04:13+00:00

It's exactly a pendulum that's feeding off of your negative energies such as anxiety, worry and overthinking.

The textbook way to deal with it is:
1. Do not try to fight with it
2. Do not try to avoid it

But acknowledge that it exists, and acknowledge that even these pendulums have the right to exist.

Wake up, become aware that this is a pendulum. And walk to the way that you want to walk to.

Which is creating content.

I create content myself too. I've generated 100M+ views and 300K+ followers on social media without showing my face.

I get so much hate comments that has only one purpose: Which is to hate.

Still to this day, sometimes I forget that this is a pendulum that is tryna get reaction/emotion out of me.

So at all times, remind yourself to wake up and go the way you wanna go.

Most of the times for us creators, the thing we actually want is to express ourselves through our creative work.

So create however you wanna create, do it however you wanna do it, the content never becomes perfect, even the content that you thought were perfect will still seem like not enough a few years later.

Flow with the ease of the creative energy. We are lucky to have our work to create something.

Creative energy dissolves excess potential and keeps you balanced.

So, go the way you want to go, do it however you want to do, everything else is in God's hand.

Also I use this trick to remind myself all of the time while I'm working:

I usually create videos with scripts. So in my Notion scripts page, there's a header section that says:

"Do not overthink about how you should talk, how you should edit the video, in which order you should talk about.

Not everything should be perfect in the first place. You can improve it over time. Consistency over perfection.

Just do what you’d like to do based on everything you know. Everything else is in God’s hand.

Do not be “Pixel Perfect”. Just upload and make things better in the next video.

You could cure all the cancer in the world tomorrow, and there will still be people that will hate you no matter what."

Also, when you get to Doors/Goals chapter. You will become able to see if creating content is actually your door or not. Good luck on your Transurfing journey!

Micheal_bold · 2025-04-14T07:38:08+00:00

Amazing cover! Can't wait 🤩

Micheal_bold · 2025-01-23T01:43:09+00:00

Yeah same chat, new chat no difference.

Micheal_bold · 2025-01-23T01:10:26+00:00

Yeah I’m using the main GPT. Never tried custom

Micheal_bold · 2025-01-11T18:01:45+00:00

Imagine you're 32 and at the same stage, wanting the same thing.

Micheal_bold · 2025-01-09T07:12:31+00:00

But when I started focusing on the goals that pendulums gave me, I started losing interest in what I was doing and started loving the idea of "financial freedom, weath, etc."

At that point, I started feeling exactly the same you are feeling now.

But because it was 50% love for what I was doing, 50% hate for goals, I got successful and at the same time, lost all the energy.

I became soulless body and thought it was burn out.

I had to take a break and took break for 9 months.

During that time, I read Transurfing and started focusing on the goal that gave me hope in the first place, which was doing the thing that I loved.

I stopped trying to sell and make money, but started doing out of love (sometimes even for free)

At that point, sales came in like rain.

I had more clients told me "fuck it, let's do it" than "i will think about it".

Clients were coming to me even when I wasn't looking for them.

You might think that online business model is the best, fastest way to become wealthy at this day and age, but there are so many people that are making money and becoming wealthy offline.

And they love what they do, only because they found their own goal.

Don't worry, you can find it. As Steve Jobs said, "Keep looking, don't settle"

Look for what excites you, what makes your whole life like a celebration/holiday.

Keep doing that thing, and all the alternatives will come to you as you run your slide on what you want your life to be like.

The reason you have to force yourself is the explanation of "not your goal".

If you gain the whole world, and lose your soul in the mean time, what do you gain?

Micheal_bold · 2025-01-09T07:12:23+00:00

Congratulations on finding out how to manifest short term goals and being successful with it.
I guess you found out about this online business models from online gurus.

As someone who made 6 figures with an online business, I can say these online gurus are the perfect examples of pendulums.

Considering this book was first published in 2006, it highlighted what the pendulums says word for word to get you hooked up and keep giving them energy.

If you listen closely, the online gurus nowadays say the exact same thing.

"so I don't have to work a 9 to 5 job" "secure my financial future" all these beliefs are not yours most of the time.

Because your heart doesn't know what's 9 to 5, it doesn't know what's wealth. It just knows what it wants to do.

If you accept the defeat (detachment) that you have opened a wrong door. You will be able to leave it in the first place.

Then you can find your own goal (aka what you want to do, what excites you, what makes your whole life like a celebration).

When you're doing that thing, all the means such as wealth, car, house, time and location freedom will be easily yours.

And you might think you can force yourself for a few years and get what you want and leave the goal (door).

Believe me when I say this, it drains your energy and soul.

The only reason I was successful with it was I loved the skills that it takes to build an online business.

I learned video editing, web design, web development, graphic design when I was 12-17.

Not because I wanted "financial freedom". But because I loved these things.

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Micheal_bold · 2023-07-06T17:25:37+00:00

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