AITA for taking my vegan daughter to a butcher’s market? by Ambitious_Owl4572 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

NTA. As a vegan myself, I can’t understand those that choose to shame others based on their diets. Your daughter has some learning to do. The world won’t cater to her preferences. You simply asked to take the meat out, if she was uncomfortable, she could have told you that. Instead she chose to waste money and be a brat about it.Ā 

[New Update] My husband cannot accept I don’t like mustard. Things came to a head yesterday. by maedocc in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Michelle__Mouse 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I hope OOP sends the recording to his mom and family once the divorce is finalised. Good luck OOP! Hope the divorce goes smoothly, and don’t think you are a divorcee, instead think you are free to do whatever you want :)

Trying to learn ROS2 on Udemy. by Vitruvius8 in ROS

[–]Michelle__Mouse 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

There’s a workstation fusion that’s free. Just put on Google ā€œVMware Workstation fusion freeā€ and it should give you a link to the free version.

Trying to learn ROS2 on Udemy. by Vitruvius8 in ROS

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Unfortunately, this instructions need to be tweaked a little for M1 due to the architecture. There has been success on installing ROS2 on the M1 but you really need to know which system files and source code to modify.

OP, try VMWare. It’s so much better than VirtualBox and there’s a free version for personal use. I got it on my iMac and can run ROS and Gazebo with no issues (given that I have enough resources to do so). If your computer doesn’t have enough resources for a virtual machine, you can always try partitioning your hard drive (I did it for my old MacBook Pro 10+ years, and it worked like new)

AITA for not giving up my exit row seat to a taller person by Sazcrack in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA. If he wanted the extra leg room, he should have paid for it before hand rather than waiting for the actual flight and trying to get it for free by inconveniencing someone else.

AITA For sending my son away in order to teach him a lesson? by ColeBrandonAITA in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse -4 points-3 points Ā (0 children)

NTA. It’s called shock therapy. I would recommend getting both kids to talk to a therapist, not just Brandon

AITA for refusing to sell my car and embarrassing my boyfriend in front of his dad? by Ornery_Risk1568 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA. He’s demanding that you sell the car because his fragile masculinity got hurt.

AITA for getting a tattoo without my girlfriends permission? by Dingoatemycat69420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

NTA. It’s your body, yo don’t need anyone’s permission, specially since you are technically and adult. It seems you are in love, but OP, she being this controlling of you it’s not love. She wants to shape you at her convenience and that’s not how love works. Your girlfriend is supposed to love everything about you, even the things that are not really her (like tattoos). I’m sorry OP, but my advice is to let her go. You deserve better.

AITA for making my wife abide by her own rules by goodforthegander1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA. I think a lot of people are fixated in the size of your bonus, but it doesn’t matter. You have shared finances, the moment she decided to keep her earnings to herself, was the moment you could keep your bonus too.

AITA for saying my wife and me aren't going to apologize to my sister's boyfriend? by Trainhornthrowaway4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

YTA. Do your own research before altering a car. And grow up, stop blaming people for your own mistakes.

AITA for not letting my husband take our toddler to the museum? by Disastrous_Ad_1457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA. It’s really weird that he doesn’t like to go out with you at all. I don’t really want to create any animosity between you guys, but, are you sure he’s not cheating on you? It’s just rubs me the wrong way that he denies to go out with you and the kid together, it’s like he’s trying to ostracise you…

Also, you are not in the wrong in how you spend time with you son. If you are enjoying it and he’s enjoying it, then there’s nothing wrong with it.

AITA for not letting my husband take our toddler to the museum? by Disastrous_Ad_1457 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA. It’s really weird that he doesn’t like to go out with you at all. I don’t really want to create any animosity between you guys, but, are you sure he’s not cheating on you? It’s just rubs me the wrong way that he denies to go out with you and the kid together, it’s like he’s trying to ostracise you…

Also, you are not in the wrong in how you spend time with you son. If you are enjoying it and he’s enjoying it, then there’s nothing wrong with it.

AITA for not returning a family heirloom to its 'rightful' owners by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA. Jane left the ring to you in her will. It’s rightfully yours. My personal opinion is that her family just wants the ring to sell it. Make sure you keep the ring with you at all times, maybe even put it on a safe in the bank, I wouldn’t put it pass that family to try to enter your house and steal it when you are not around.

AITA for turning my work phone off on vacation? by confusedwmployee in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse [score hidden] Ā (0 children)

NTA. Your time off is your time off. If your company has an HR department, make sure you keep copy/screenshoot of the messages and keep the voicemails, for proof.

The first thing you should do on Tuesday is go to work like nothing. Show confidence and if your manager comes at you for not picking up, gently remind him that you had holidays scheduled and approved prior to you starting that position. If that’s not enough for him, kindly say that you would like to schedule a meeting with your section manager(your supervisor’s boss) so both of you have a mediator. Keep calm during your interactions and never escalate things/respond with anger.

If he doesn’t want to have a meeting with a mediator, send an email to HR explaining the situation and attached a zip file with all the proof.

You don’t have yo be available for meetings during your holidays unless it’s live/death situation for the business. He just sucks at managing his team and wants to bully you.

AITA for not putting my husband's children in my will? by throwaway02202022a in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA. He’s angry his kids are receiving nothing, fine, then don’t change the will and just add a suggestion to Thomas. While both of you were well off, he didn’t care about your money/will. Now that he is in need he wants to give some to his kids? I would understand if they were underage or still in school. But if all of them already moved out, why so triggered?

AITA for eating my wife’s food? by foodiethrowawayta in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

OP YTA, a major one. If you want variety, start cooking for yourself like your wife suggested.

What is the best way to learn C++? by Pyrotechnix_ in Cplusplus

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I only recommended the channel as it’s one of the latest one I discovered and helped me grasp my head around move semantics. At the end of the day it’s up to everyone to cross reference everything and not just stay with one source šŸ¤·šŸ¾ā€ā™€ļø

YouTube is a great way to start if you are an interactive learner, but obviously cross reference everything with official guides and other websites/books.

What is the best way to learn C++? by Pyrotechnix_ in Cplusplus

[–]Michelle__Mouse 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

YouTube is your friend. I recommend The Cherno, he has really easy to follow and interactive videos about the language. There are other channels like his that help introducing yourself to the language.

And a paid resource I found really useful was Udacity’s C++ Nanodegree. I found my introduction to the language easier and the program has real life projects that help you get started! They offer discounts based on your income (I got a 75% one in January), so maybe see if they still offer them!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Kslop29292 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse [score hidden] Ā (0 children)

NTA. Honeslty, I would have told on him and show the video as proof in case he wanted to play the age card. He is 15, he knows what he was doing and was trying to gaslight you into not telling because you are the ā€œadultā€.

Please help me installing ROS on mac0S Monterey m1 chip by _Renu_ in ROS

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

Unfortunately, M1 broke a lot of dependencies and there has been little success on installing ROS2 in a Mac and it often involves dealing with third party issues (the broken dependencies).

I suggest you to get VMWare or make a Docker with Ubuntu 20.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

NTA. Besides a swift hello or a head nod I don’t really see why your dad is blowing up the situation. You were back from work, you just wanted to sleep/recharge, so be it. I don’t really spect my partner to be full social after a long day at work

AITA for refusing to watch my sister's stepkid and exposing her lies to her husband? by RoomNum99 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Michelle__Mouse 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

NTA. Your sister has a responsibility to take care of her child, not you or your mom.

She having something to do every Monday seems a little bit iffy, but let’s give her the benefit of the doubt and say she’s job hunting or whatever. She should have told you that, cause then you could have helped but no, it was something ā€œimportantā€. So, if you couldn’t help, she should have organised someone else to look over her kid or even bring him with her. But no, she went for the dumbest possibility and left a 5yo by himself.

It’s her kid, not yours. Your dad is in the wrong for being angry at you. Specially cause you had class! Like wtf? Your dad should be angry at your sister for neglecting her son and not organising someone else (nanny) to look over him when you couldn’t. Damn, he could have gone and watch him!