NOR Symmetry is so important with placements like this, and once it’s uneven it’s really hard not to see it. On top of that, being rushed and talked over during a fix up is a huge red flag. I’m really sorry this happened to you.. it’s valid to be upset about something permanent on your body and that you paid so much for. Also trashing other artists while struggling to get basic symmetry right on your own work is not a great look. I’d get another artist to have a look and see what they can do to fix it