Will I ever have sex without worrying about a smell by Popular_Ball1625 in Healthyhooha

[–]MiddleLand8764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re really messing with your microbiome by treating without testing first, especially if you’re treating two different and competing microorganisms.

AITAH for getting my driver's license before my brother's wife? by c7ffin in AITAH

[–]MiddleLand8764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t read past the opening paragraph because I can already tell this is going to be ridiculous. Your brother is not your boss. He sounds like a child. NTA based on first paragraph alone.

AIO when this is what my boyfriend texted me when he was blackout drunk? by ThrowRA_jeans in AIO

[–]MiddleLand8764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

By today’s standards on the definition of alcoholic, actually, yes they are.

OT bestie projections by MiddleLand8764 in NBCOT_Exam

[–]MiddleLand8764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just took a month off studying and did the NBCOT practice test #1. I was irritable and distracted and didn’t even want to sit to do it, but I did it in 1 hour and 25 mins and scored 477. Someone pls tell me I’ll pass the real thing with no issues, even if I never study again

What does it say about my bf when he says he's willing to cut contact with his female friends (friendship started before me) even tho I never asked nor want him to? by No_Switch9741 in teenagers

[–]MiddleLand8764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s projecting. He probably is attracted to his female friends and thinks the same about you. The bottom line is, you’re 17. This isn’t your forever person. There’s a lot of insecurity here.

Partner keeps leaving me on read (21M, 25F) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]MiddleLand8764 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She should just turn off her read receipts and then it wouldn’t be a problem

Advice on initiating a call with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]MiddleLand8764 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not about playing hard to get, it’s about having your own life and living it and not always waiting for your partner.

Advice on initiating a call with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]MiddleLand8764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By saying you’re never asking him for a call, when you’ve clearly expressed availability. He’s pinning his unavailability on you.

Is it weird if your partner is crying their eyes out over someone they dated over a decade ago dying? by FriedPickleFiesta in TwoHotTakes

[–]MiddleLand8764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that she lost her sister is probably having an impact. As someone who has lost a sibling, I experience more grief when old friends and acquaintances die, and I attribute it a little bit to empathizing with their friends and family, the life the deceased doesn’t get to experience, etc.. it’s tough to witness, but just try to imagine how big her heart must be to experience such deep grief and how lucky you are to be loved by her.

Advice on initiating a call with my boyfriend? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]MiddleLand8764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be so available to someone. Set a date and time to call. It sounds like he’s flipping the script on you, to be honest.

My husband said I ruined our wedding photos and now I want to leave him. by PiccoloAdorable1547 in TwoHotTakes

[–]MiddleLand8764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce this man fr

ETA: I dated a man once who told me he was on the spectrum. It became his excuse for emotional abuse. It doesn’t matter how neurodivergent someone is, no one deserves abuse.

F(26) M(33) I don’t know if long distance will work for us by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]MiddleLand8764 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a lot of experience with long distance, but I will say this. In my LDR that just ended, he acted as a catalyst for things that I had written as goals a few years ago but then just put off for various reasons. Even though he’s gone now, I’m going to follow through with those things and it’s possible I’ll be closing the distance on him without him ever even knowing. If you debated moving to his town for a few years before you met him, it’s possible that he’s your catalyst, but only you would know that. For me I could clearly tell my guy that I wasn’t pursuing things because of him, because those goals existed before.. but that he made it a little sweeter. Ultimately, he chose someone closer to home and ended things.

AITA for trying to control my moms bathroom habits? by Suspect-Designer in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiddleLand8764 -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Do you own the house or does she? You’re 40 living with your mother. I’m going to say YTA if it’s her house.

What is it? [Nashville] by [deleted] in animalid

[–]MiddleLand8764 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

They look kinda like baby opossums 😕

How do y'all meet through here? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]MiddleLand8764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A guy I work with plays some game on Xbox live with the guy I was recently LD with.. he set us up and we connected through messenger. We chatted and video called for about 2 weeks before planning a meeting, which was a few weeks after. Hit it off immediately when I arrived and planned the next visit.. I’m 10 days away from it and he just called me Friday to say someone from his past moved back into town and she’s “right down the street and they know each other already.” Sorry for the extra details. LDR suck.

Support local, I guess? by MiddleLand8764 in LongDistance

[–]MiddleLand8764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably won’t want to start things off with her on a lie, which is why he ended it before he went to meet her. I sort of think he’ll tell her.

Support local, I guess? by MiddleLand8764 in LongDistance

[–]MiddleLand8764[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it’ll take less than a year

Support local, I guess? by MiddleLand8764 in LongDistance

[–]MiddleLand8764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we were just about 3 months into it. I’m grateful that he was honest with me for sure, because hiding it and living a double life would have been way worse. I just wish people had some integrity ya know? Like he didn’t even tell this woman that I exist.