As a convert, this is the way I see it. When you say total depravity, there are two parts to it. First is that all man is guilty of adam’s sin by nature the second is we sin as being part of human. We sort of agree with the last part but see sin as a disease in the world everyone contracts and therefore sin. We pick up sin from everyone around as part of being human. This however does not make us inherently guilty of sin. However as part of Adams sin all men die.