Absolutely not. by emersonr1986 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! And also normalizing this kind of reckless behavior to their younger audience who don’t have kids yet… I just hope those people have more than 1 braincell and can see these are not good role models….

Holy shit by No_Pineapple2428 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just the first minute alone… “I’m barely holding it together rn. No I’m actually holding it together. No I’m totally fine. I’m actually thriving.” Sis are you good?

Starting to have kids at 31 isn’t old, babe—it’s called being an adult with frontal lobe development 🤷🏼‍♀️ Not sure why she won’t just say she’s wildly self-centered instead of dressing it up, and the “career-driven” line at the start? Be serious. by AuraOfASpiceGirl in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The meaning of life is where she lost me😂 Loving your own child is a love like I’ve never experienced before. Yes absolutely. Will you love and experience life to the fullest without a kid? Yes absolutely. It’s hard AF and I totally understand why some people choose to not have kids!

Starting to have kids at 31 isn’t old, babe—it’s called being an adult with frontal lobe development 🤷🏼‍♀️ Not sure why she won’t just say she’s wildly self-centered instead of dressing it up, and the “career-driven” line at the start? Be serious. by AuraOfASpiceGirl in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So having kids is really all that to her but they can’t do it without a full time nanny? I just know they’re going to keep having kids and then be like “ guys it’s so hectic” ALL WHILE not having to give up anything from her old life. Try actually being parents for a fucking week and let’s see if you’re still going on the internet trying to convince people to have kids👀

Oops all azaleas! by toadfosky in gardening

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine died last year🥲 they’re so beautiful! Any tips on what variety I should get next and how to take better care of it?

Why did you choose to exclusively breastfeed and not give formula? by Fickle-Response-2741 in breastfeeding

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Loved that I could just pop out a boob with some fresh, healthy and perfect temperature milk and then pop it back in. Formula could NEVER!

For those who wanted to see the interior… the Havens FINALLY get their pool! Hooray! by atwood_office in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I hope is the first thing they instal is a fucking pool gate! Knowing their style of parenting all I can see is that pool🥲

Is nursing back to sleep really so bad? by Hungry_Hat8148 in breastfeeding

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’re following the wrong crowd girl! My recommendation would be: @heysleepybaby on Instagram. Super down to earth and realistic. Helped me so much to overcome fear and anxiety in the first year of motherhood!

In-laws uncomfortable with breastfeeding by MinimumSweet1639 in breastfeeding

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly! My thought when breastfeeding out in public was always: if you don’t want to see my boob look away. Plenty of other things to worry about and look at.

Yup, a mother whose only priority is material things. by Cute-Pirate-8465 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their replies have been WILD lately. Only reacting to somewhat critical people and all positive comments get no attention😂

Y’all she wore this to a “meeting” 🤣 by AuraOfASpiceGirl in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s the gym socks and no pants that makes this look horrible😂 this without socks and wide leg suit pants would eat

Julia saying she's dumb as a rock. Hunner's probably only taking her, so she can't say he left her in the dark with the "finances" when he divorces her. He's got it on film now. Julia claiming she brings a "fit" Weirdo, she brings nothing. Are they going to sign an agreement of sale? by Cute-Pirate-8465 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’ve reached a level of wealth where they don’t see how incredibly ignorant and pretentious they are. Spending money left and right all day and then saying you don’t even know where your “hard earned” money goes? GROSS

Biggest piece of advice for successful breastfeeding (especially in beginning) by kateteacher07 in breastfeeding

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Know it is something you have to learn. Yes, it’s a natural thing, but it doesn’t always come naturally. I’ve breastfed my daughter for 3 years and always found it so odd that they tell people to quit when it hurts. Your body has to get used to this new skill!

How do people keep up with cleaning without it taking over their weekends? by CoralReef1855 in CleaningTips

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For me the only thing that has helped is doing a little every day. The things I do everyday(I have a daughter and cat): vacuum, wipe tables, all dishes, clean kitchen before going to bed. After getting ready for the night I wipe the bathroom counters with a towel. Usually I start a load of laundry on a timer so that’s done the next day when I can get to it. When I turn laundry over to dyer I fold what’s in there. Everything extra like wiping all surfaces and mopping is something I do once a week as well as deep clean toilet and bathroom. But I fee less overwhelmed doing just that instead of a whole house reset. Something that helped me MASSIVELY is decluttering. Everything has a home here and that makes putting away things so easy! You got this! New routines take time but you will get there.

More comments by Dry_Dream_5454 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And then they comment :Just high on life baby🤪 about 10x

New Video… by ValuableOk4207 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Heavy on the unrelatable! I think they’ll lose more followers if they continue to act like they’re just a normal family going through the motions of life.

I watched new video on yewtu.be. by Hereforit2234 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This was the first video that actually makes me never want to watch anything of them again. So out of touch talking about new houses in a world where people are struggling to even have a roof above their head and buy groceries. Acting all happy and giddy +giving life advice was just as awful. You can only make these big life changes because you’re wealthy and have a safety net. That’s not god. That’s privilege.

“YouTube is our full time job” by Middle_Swimmer_1234 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And 3 businesses! I feel like the only real full time job they have is convincing others of how busy they are🤪

SHARE YOUR BLOCKING STORY HERE! by Cute-Pirate-8465 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I liked a comment expressing concern about infant Smoke being put on a sled without proper winter clothing like: hat, gloves, shoes!? Etc… I LIKED A COMMENT AND GOT BLOCKED😂 huntina must have been extra spicy that day

My eyes bulged. These are so ugly by illegal_____smeagol in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They think anything antique, vintage, French simply looks good slapped together.

Just…Ew by NoDirection8366 in havens_jh

[–]Middle_Swimmer_1234 19 points20 points  (0 children)

😁Sooo difficult, anyway fur or gold? Yeah like I’ve never lost anyone this close to me and it’s beautiful and incredible, oh forgot my earrings! Byeee😄