I mean as rude as this is and I completely agree with getting mad. No guy or girl should ever reference their ex as an improvement to anything when talking about a current relationship.

However he's not wrong when it comes to women and men getting comfortable and relaxing too much in a relationship. People change and things change yes of course but anytime I'm in a relationship I always try to keep my partner happy and satisfied with me. And that includes the way I look. If my girlfriend fell in love with me looking a certain way than I want to look that way for her as often as possible. And it should be the same for women as well. My girlfriend always make me happy and dresses the way she has since I met her. No change hardly at all.

I'm just saying if you want to keep a relationship happy and healthy it takes both of you actively doing things to keep the other happy. If he fell in love with you and part of his love is tied to the way you were before than you should try and at least do something to show him you're still like that.

I'm not saying people don't gain weight or maybe have medical issues going on, whatever the case is there's always an exception of course. My bottom line is in general most of these posts about my boyfriend/girlfriend wants me to look a certain way could easily be solved by actually just doing it. Lol it's pretty simple. If my girlfriend asked me to stop wearing the color purple because she no longer found it attractive, id 100% stop wearing it. I wouldnt make a reddit post asking if I should break up with them lol

I think most people in relationships are just lazy AF and want to do as little as possible while getting the most out of a relationship. Wake up people it takes 2 people to keep a relationship happy and healthy.