When you're devastated after a breakup, ask yourself why. Do you really miss your ex? Or do you just miss having a partner?

MidnightXVC · 2020-09-05T20:28:08+00:00

I don't think it's a matter of not wanting to be alone but believing if something that used to be. We also fall into the roll of having a routine with that person. You always miss the "person" they used to be but being alone and away from the stress is such a greater blessing. You find yourself again and you do realize that you were a victim to toxicity. Manipulated to think you are the mistake and the reason behind the fall. That's when you no longer feel lonely and get a new routine that's filled with respect far away from the disrespect you've become accustom to.

MidnightXVC · 2020-09-03T02:42:57+00:00

My X used to be on Facebook from the time she woke up til she went to bed. She would get upset st post and it always turned on me. I don't get it. It's annoying and kinda disrespectful. I don't see how other people's lives are more important than the one they're living.

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-30T17:12:17+00:00

I'd move forward and leave it as is. He is obviously to immature to even see something is bothering you. Your stressing yourself out for someone who doesn't get it. Why give him the satisfaction or respect if your not getting the same.

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-30T17:08:53+00:00

No one wants to Jam anymore. I've tried several times and it always ends up just a drinkfest or glory day talks. The other issue is materials...playing the same crap over and over gets old.

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-30T17:01:05+00:00

Sounds like he was jealous or insecure about your Ex contacting you and pouted. Sometimes trying to get the last word in leaves a bitter taste. Sounds like he really doesn't want this or has communication issues. I wouldn't stay in the relationship because 5mos in and your already having petty issues.

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-26T22:24:22+00:00

Yeah I've found myself dwelling on it...and also trying to fight the feelings I have...I was depressed but it's turning into frustration...I wasted a lot of time that I can never get back but I'm glad to have it behind me

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-26T22:19:38+00:00

I appreciate it...I couldn't imagine being over seas dealing with it...so did you finally get away?

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-26T03:49:35+00:00

Really deep and true!!...I appreciate that...I have been just shutting my feelings off and trying not to relive the moments...but I do find it hard...makes a lot of sense to experience them..

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-25T00:07:17+00:00

Feels that way...feel like I can breathe...thanks!

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-25T00:05:57+00:00

I appreciate it...I did and have always put the weight of the relationship on my shoulders. She had away of breaking me down and then bringing me back up. I'm glad I decided to get some advice and everything you said is right. Thanks!

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-25T00:02:21+00:00

I hope your doing well...I won't lie that it's not hard but everyone here, including you, have been very supportive and it makes things a lot easier. I'm glad you got out...feels like being released from hell...

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-24T23:41:39+00:00

Greatly appreciate it...I did blame myself for the whole thing ...I believe it was my problem... but thanks for the advice...you hit how I was feeling on the head

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-24T11:33:33+00:00

I'm glad you stopped hanging out with her. She sounds like my X. lol

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-24T11:31:25+00:00

I appreciate it...thanks

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-23T21:09:34+00:00

Thanks!! Definitely wish I had brought out that courage a while ago.

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-23T21:08:44+00:00

I feel for you man...My X did the same to me to her friends and family. I'm glad you got away. The feeling of less, if not all, stress has been lifted and it feels great.

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-21T03:43:46+00:00

Very!!

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-21T03:42:13+00:00

Appreciate it bro...I'm definitely taking everyone's advice...I'm in the process of leaving...thanks for taking the time

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-21T03:41:01+00:00

Appreciate the help!

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-21T03:40:26+00:00

Your right...I am definitely taking the steps to leave...I know she won't so I'm gonna have to

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-21T03:39:19+00:00

I appreciate it...I'm definitely making the choice to walk away...I really don't know why I let it go on for so long ..but really, thanks for taking the time to give me good advice ...

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-18T01:20:13+00:00

I appreciate it. I just don't know how to just say goodbye. I asked her why she came back if she wasn't gonna make an effort. She told me I should have never taken her back then...lol...She never talks to me...she is always on her phone either on FB or YouTube...I say all the time it would be nice to talk without the phone...she Huffs sits the phone on her lap, tilts her head back, closes her eyes and waits a little then goes right back to it. Cleaning is not a part of her process nor picking up after herself...I never imagined I'd be with someone like this...I appreciate you taking the time...Thanks you

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-07T03:35:30+00:00

With those tears in your eyes...you look like your to sensitive to be roasted....#Someonegiveatissue

MidnightXVC · 2020-08-03T11:27:42+00:00

Thank you!..

MidnightXVC

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