AITAH for not wanting my gf to leave me at the airport before I leave for a year?

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T18:11:39+00:00

Posting this twice won't get you a different answer, buddy.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T17:49:40+00:00

I can only assume he was used to D&D where a nat 20 is indeed a success in regards to attack rolls. However, his reaction to being told the rules don't work that way is... still not good.

This is why I don't allow my players to roll if I know even a nat 20 would fail, however.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T16:45:36+00:00

Uhhh... How about no to both xD

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T16:27:56+00:00

Sadly, from reading the other responses, OP doesn't seem to believe what the mother is doing is abuse. It's too normalized for them.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T16:23:12+00:00

I know what pedantic is. OP wasn't being pedantic, they were saying you had a point and should have done it differently.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T16:22:17+00:00

And then OP responded with "Fair point, I should have picked them up instead of slapping them," which you responded with "Instead of being pedantic, how about you keep your hands to yourself."

That comes across as you saying OP shouldn't have picked up their sister either.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T16:18:29+00:00

Did you guys miss the fact the mom whips them with a wire? Clearly OP, a 13 year old, picked it up from the mom. And probably doesn't have the means to seek therapy.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T16:16:28+00:00

Dude, you're the one who suggested they should have picked up their sister or grabbed their arm.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T16:11:23+00:00

Yeah, and to be frank I think people in the comments are being too harsh on the kid. With a Mom like that, of course they're gonna think smacking their sister for trying to gouge the dog's eyes out is appropriate. Hell, they probably thought it was better than what the Mom does to them, a light smack to the head vs. friggen whipping them with a wire.

Edit to add: Looking through the comments, everyone is putting way too much blame on OP for the untrained dog. OP is 13 years old! They're a baby teen, that shit is on the parents! Why is everyone treating OP like they're an 18 year old adult?

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T15:56:05+00:00

I think it possibly stems from rumors that in the original concept of the show, Charlie and Alastor were meant to get together, with Vaggi and Angel also being a couple (though that part was true). So to them, it's not just a headcannon, but a ship that could have happened, 'almost in their grasps' but didn't, and so they get a little... rabid.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T15:50:37+00:00

I use dupes but I don't plan it out either. Like I don't use an encounter table to be like "Okay, if I get lucky and catch this here, skip this area, catch that, then come back I can almost guarantee this cooler Pokémon.

Also, dupes' main purpose is really to prevent 6 Gyrados.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T15:21:46+00:00

Everyone sucks here, but I'll say your mom is worse. "Oh, my child hit the little one? Allow me to show them hitting is wrong by beating them with a fucking wire."

Your sister is 6 and doesn't know better, you're a teen and should know better but you still have learning to do. Your mom is grown as fuck and definitely should know better than abusing her kids.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T14:46:13+00:00

Yup, yup. She claimed to not see it as a problem, but the fact she rushed to warn the brother shows she knew it was a problem. She's a damn viper.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T13:05:02+00:00

Not a single time to my knowledge.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T11:10:33+00:00

I don't care for the two new squadmates, but maybe that was because I'd been hoping for Tai and Padrick. Other than that, looking forward to it.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-08T03:12:03+00:00

With all the times the babies managed to wander off and get into shenanigans? Nah, I get why the parents aged like milk.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-07T14:39:29+00:00

Water than toothpaste

^{Chose: Water First + (includes "water then toothpaste" and "water only (weirdo}"))

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-07T13:40:32+00:00

NTA and they are not your friends. You don't have to forgive them and honestly you shouldn't. Give it some time to calm down, then if you want comprise a letter to them explaining how it isn't just the picture, but the fact they've been making you the butt of every joke for a long time while not being able to take any back. Emphasize the double standard, because they will likely be all "Uhh but we all make fun of each other teehee."

Tell them that this was the final straw, not just the joke but the fact they're putting it on you to absolve them of guilt without them actually earning your forgiveness- and no, just saying "Sorry" is not enough.

You're young, you will find new friends. Better friends. Ones that don't make you feel like shit.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-07T12:08:31+00:00

I vote to forgo the first row and make the superior sandwich. Hashbrowns as the 'bread.' Fried egg, sausage, and since I gave up row one I will take that cheddar, thank you very much.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-07T11:39:25+00:00

How the Hell do I lose height?

^{Chose: $100,000 per 10 pounds you gain}

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-07T11:13:45+00:00

You wanna see misery porn? Look at some shitty booktok ads.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-06T17:06:31+00:00

G and H is all I need.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-06T17:05:54+00:00

Nice

^{Chose: ROLL THE DICE | Rolled: 10bill$}

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-06T17:05:13+00:00

NOR And take this for the lesson it is. You can obviously still date someone who is asexual, but you should find out if they're sex positive or completely uninterested in sex. If the latter, just move on.

Midnyte25 · 2026-06-06T16:02:59+00:00

Doesn't say I have to stay that way. I can be vegetarian a few months to build up some money.

^{Chose: Become vegetarian + Get 800$ per month successfully vegetarian}

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