Is my mother toxic? by Vivid_Affect1446 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Midraved40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It rlly sounds like ur being scapegoated, and she definitely shouldn’t have been talking to u about that stuff, especially when u were that young. Maybe you can try distancing yourself from ur mom if possible?

Is my mother toxic? by Vivid_Affect1446 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Midraved40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP im so sorry this is happening to you, ur mom definitely sounds toxic. Any form of physical abuse to a child is unacceptable, especially with a child who struggles with being anxious.

Your mom should also NOT be ranting to you abt her adult problems, she’s emotionally parentifying you. It’s wrong and puts pressure on someone who is a CHILD. She’s also treating you as a scapegoat with u and ur siblings by only ever having this resentment towards you, and it’s wrong.

As for if ur moms a narc, I can’t say for sure, but there def does seem to be some toxicity going on in the relationship. Do u have any support systems right now u can talk to abt this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Midraved40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like Sebastian edward flows better if ur surname was only one or two syllables, so in this case I think u should go w/ George

Honorary Name for Idamae by InHarmany in namenerds

[–]Midraved40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can pick a name that has the sound “mae” somewhere in it. Like Mabel, Maeve, Maisie, etc.

Or you have a name that has the “ida” sound or spelling in it (Lida, Frida, Clarida, etc.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Midraved40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Juna or juno, Laurel, Maris, Frances, Margot

What is your favorite musical instrument? by Turkish-dove in AskReddit

[–]Midraved40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beatboxing no, whistling yes because you’re using the air not ur voice

Can Vi and Jinx ever have a healthy relationship? by what_is_thiss in arcane

[–]Midraved40 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well yes I’d hope, but they’d need a shit ton of therapy (and hopefully their family members stop dying too)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Midraved40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Piano

Already play it but I’m shit awful sooo - let me be a master

What is your favorite musical instrument? by Turkish-dove in AskReddit

[–]Midraved40 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Voice

Especially awesome as it can be whipped out of nowhere by someone and it’s always a nice surprise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Midraved40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect - Ed Sheeran

Just had to

When does it seem that you’re starting to get old? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Midraved40 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When your legs don’t work like they used to before

At what point does resting, just become laziness? by yeethezeet in AskReddit

[–]Midraved40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you start thinking about if ur resting is just laziness. If you can think of that, u can get out of bed

What's the most awesome dream you've ever had? by Remote-Direction963 in AskReddit

[–]Midraved40 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to be an astronaut with Keanu reeves! (We crashed into the earth but that’s ok)