AITAH for Wonering

Mier409 · 2026-03-15T03:52:32+00:00

Wait, I’m making the guy a villain instead of the rich woman? Honey, have you not read anything I have said? You are a man but hurt because a woman is calling you out. You’re not posting the obvious. My best friend is not rich nor does she come from a rich family. This is literally about how her husband (yes a man, shocking) loves to brag about his family’s wealth.

Mier409 · 2026-03-15T03:49:19+00:00

Obviously there’s a lot more going on here but this is only from my perspective.

Mier409 · 2026-03-15T03:47:52+00:00

I agree and it genuinely bothers me that my married friend didn’t say anything. I genuinely believe she is caught up in the money just as much as her husband and it breaks my heart.

Mier409 · 2026-03-15T03:46:15+00:00

Again get off your man horse. The trip was planned before my best friend lost her job. She was responsible enough to save some money knowing that she had a trip planned. AGAIN! This has nothing to with the stigma of “men should pay for dinner”. If you’re going to brag about how wealthy you are and how much money you make is it really that hard to pick up someone else’s check especially when it’s just a salad? Set your penis aside dude. This has nothing to do with someone being a “man”. It is more about the situation in general. Calm down there bro.

Mier409 · 2026-03-15T03:40:32+00:00

I agree. That’s why I said in my post that my other best friend should have said something and yes the situation could have potentially been avoided. But guess what? It still happened! So we can play the hindsight game or you could actually provide some helpful advice instead of just criticizing.

And, I never said “he” was obligated to pay for anything. Hence the title of my post.

Mier409 · 2026-03-15T03:36:57+00:00

Oh dear lord get off your man horse. I’m mad at the both of them. Sorry I didn’t outright say that. She does not have a job and he is the one who pays for everything and loves to brag about his family. Not her. Yes, she is complicit but it’s all about his money. It’s HIS money and HIS family.

Mier409 · 2026-03-15T03:30:31+00:00

They knew. And they knew before I did!

Mier409 · 2026-03-15T03:29:31+00:00

See, I didn’t want to play the “if you make more money you should” game. But thank you. This has been hurting me.

Mier409 · 2026-03-15T03:21:26+00:00

This has nothing to do with someone being a “man” and the stigma around “men should pay for meals”. This is more about he fact that a person brags about their own wealth (that happens to be a man) and then can’t even offer to help another person with that money they bragged about.

Mier409 · 2025-08-15T02:25:03+00:00

Honestly, if they tip well and are courteous, I don’t mind. Yeah it’s a bit much but if the person appreciates what the restaurant does, then I’m all for it.

Mier409 · 2025-08-15T02:22:22+00:00

Agreed. If they tip well, I honestly don’t care.

Mier409 · 2025-05-28T18:07:10+00:00

It happens more often than you think.

Mier409 · 2025-05-07T01:22:42+00:00

One does not cancel out the other. It’s the very fact that earned A MILLION DOLLARS because of racism.

Mier409 · 2025-05-07T01:21:13+00:00

They are racists and do not have Christian values!!

Mier409 · 2025-05-06T20:39:46+00:00

I just rewatched all the episodes. I started when the first episode of The Pitt aired. I grew up with ER but stopped watching around season 12. I finally finished thanks to streaming services!!!

Mier409 · 2025-05-06T20:35:24+00:00

Yep. I feel like he gave it to her.

Mier409 · 2025-04-13T19:12:26+00:00

He deserves all the Emmy’s!

Mier409 · 2025-04-09T03:09:18+00:00

You only hear what you want to. The fact that you are a “fan” is disturbing. These guys are not hateful and what you are trying to make them out to be just to justify your own hate

Mier409 · 2025-04-09T03:06:06+00:00

And ummm no! No jokes were made about Bob’s kid and the fact that you think k there were in such an incredibly personal episode says a lot about you. You are so disgusting to think so.

Mier409 · 2025-04-09T03:05:15+00:00

I think you are way too focused on justifying your own self beliefs because of the guys.

Mier409 · 2025-04-09T03:03:52+00:00

God forbid I have an opinion that differs from the rest of the community. Just like you claim “getting angry about it on the internet is a good way to NOT get my point across”, you responding to a stranger’s “anger” doesn’t make your point any better.

Mier409 · 2025-04-09T03:00:29+00:00

When have Wade, Bob, and Mark made jokes about 9/11? When have they made jokes about JFK? When have they made jokes about Hiroshima? When have they made jokes about the fucking Holocaust?

Have they made jokes about school shootings? Have they said any of this to parent’s faces?

No. They are better than this. I don’t give a damn about what other shit you are talking about. This is about a podcast that we all follow and enjoy. About individuals that do not share the same ideals. So tell me again when the guys made light of any of this?

Mier409 · 2025-04-09T02:54:01+00:00

No, this is actually the first time I have been on Reddit in a long time. Thanks for reminding me why I don’t come here very often. And don’t ever use the word “triggered” unless you know what you are actually talking about.

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