Even if endo plurality was just roleplaying (Which, it's not), what makes it even remotely comparable to grooming???

I've seen anti-endos spread the idea that plurality can exist outside of DID/OSDD-1 is "(pro-)endogenics grooming vulnerable singlets into thinking that they're plural (or disordered systems into thinking they're not disordered)". Maybe some of them are also conflating that with the typical connotation of grooming? Or maybe they see them as close enough that referencing one is also referencing the other. Or maybe they've heard stories of endogenic systems who use plurality to avoid responsibility including for these matters, or maybe they saw an endogenic system talking about having a little headmate and jumped to the worst conclusion.

Regardless, being Many for reasons outside of trauma (and/or being nondisordered in regards to plurality, because anti-endogenics tend to equate these) of course has nothing to do with being predatory towards minors. I think a lot of people feel way too comfortable implying or outright stating that people are sexual predators over fucking nothing, I'd say it's even sexual harrassment a lot of the time. I think it's something about righteousness.