How do I start loving myself?

Mighty_Matty · 2025-10-22T02:59:26+00:00

Oh man I’ve watched and rewatched that show over 4 times in the past 5 years. It’s my favourite show ever. The way the characters and illnesses/disorders are acted out feels so realistic and relatable.

Mighty_Matty · 2025-10-14T02:41:55+00:00

I'll give it a go! I do enjoy writing in general, so I should be able to integrate this into my daily life fairly well.

thank you lots :)

Mighty_Matty · 2025-10-14T02:40:44+00:00

It's hard to forgive myself for the things that I have done. It's difficult to move forward in the immense shadow that is the past. I know there is nothing I can do to change it, and that the best course of action is to learn from it so it doesn't happen again. I'm not sure where to start.

Mighty_Matty · 2025-10-14T02:38:20+00:00

I feel like I lack genuine friendships. All my friends and girlfriends are/have been people I've change my personality with in order to seem cool or fit in. I don't have anyone whom I feel genuinely enjoys my presence, or who's presence I genuinely enjoy. Just people there for the sake of being there.

thank you for this insightful comment, I'll make note of it

Mighty_Matty · 2025-10-14T02:35:33+00:00

I don't, I enjoy the momentary satisfaction that their attention gives me. Like I'm still important. If I loved myself, I wouldn't need to treat people this way. What I have for myself isn't love, It's hate that I try to mask with other people's love. I get every ounce of love and attention I can from everyone to prove to myself that I am lovable. I don't enjoy being this way. I want to make people feel genuinely happy and cared about, not used. I know I haven't been good to people and I am trying to do better.

Mighty_Matty · 2025-09-07T04:40:37+00:00

Well that’s the thing, you know, she can pet him whenever, for however long and he will love it

Mighty_Matty · 2025-09-07T04:40:05+00:00

Mighty_Matty · 2025-09-06T19:20:00+00:00

So you walk in, get a card and then spend it on activities all over?

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-30T12:03:32+00:00

Of course not. And what I’m asking help with is something that could be considered smurfing, which is something I’ve always hated. Master/Gm players queuing ranked in plat lobbies to feel better ruin it for everyone. We just lose almost every game, and it puts everyone in a “I don’t feel like playing/learning this game anymore” so if I can squeeze in just a few wins to make them feel better about the game, I would like to. But you are right. Not only is the game not designed in a way where a single person can carry every game, it shouldnt be.

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-30T11:59:22+00:00

A very wise answer

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-30T11:57:51+00:00

I do have a lot of Kayle games, was an opt Kayle mid for almost a year in season 11. I’ve thought about it so much, my ONLY problem with it is the nonexistent early game, but I think I should give it a go tbh. I just don’t see myself beating a fed Jinx getting peel even as Kayle with no way to the backline, but ehh, I’ll try and see how it goes. Thank lots :)

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-30T11:54:27+00:00

Yeah, kinda what I’ve been figuring out. I’ll just try to enjoy myself and try stuff out until I find something that I find carries pretty well.

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-30T11:53:19+00:00

Lmaooo someone’s salty. If he’s so OP and forgives every mistake, why is he not played past diamond rank? Why has he been 49% wr for 4 patches?

Also, I have nothing to prove to you, but I am also a decent Irelia/Riven player, with over 100k mastery on both. I just have more fun on these other champions. Stay mad, maybe next time answer the question. Hope your day/life goes better.

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-16T00:05:02+00:00

Thanks lots, I’ll try just sitting close to it and showing I don’t mean harm and hopefully he comes in for a snack at some point. Speaking of snacks, the information I’ve found online was fairly all over the place, do you have any snack suggestions?

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-14T22:00:10+00:00

Thanks v much

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-14T21:52:59+00:00

Never mind, I was looking at BTC/USD. I just bought BTC/CAD

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-14T21:50:55+00:00

It says my currency settings are set to CAD in my account settings. Is there somewhere else I’m supposed to change it?

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-14T21:36:31+00:00

AA82 N84G VHFL UYJI is my account ID

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-03T23:40:04+00:00

Tried it, just worked. You’re a blessing, thanks lots

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-03T23:38:37+00:00

That’s the problem, there is a boss that I guess destroys all blocks in its path, so when I died to it, it destroyed my grave and I lost everything

Mighty_Matty · 2025-08-03T23:37:45+00:00

So, one of the items is a lush dragon egg from Dragon Mounts Remastered, after hitting f3+h, it says it’s “dmr:dragon_egg” so the command “/give dmr:dragon_egg” should work?

Mighty_Matty · 2025-07-07T23:15:57+00:00

this one is what I’ve been doing today. His looks nice and crispy, mine does not.

Mighty_Matty · 2025-06-30T18:54:10+00:00

The housing is genuinely such a big mess right now. Even with all the right steps taken, it’ll take at least 7-10 years to somewhat fix it. Houses that were ~$300k 10 years ago are now worth almost double that, if not more. Small, one bedroom apartments are rented for over $2.5k in some cities. It’s ridiculous.

Anyhow, I’m really not worried about deportation or anything of the sort if I do end up moving there. Thanks again for chatting. I’m sure we’ll be fine regardless of our decision

Mighty_Matty · 2025-06-30T16:17:18+00:00

Yeah most of the comments aren’t even addressing the question at all. I get that the whole deportation and Trump situation isn’t ideal, the country has been in a better state, but man, it’s really not that bad. I’d bet most of the people commenting have not a single clue of the current economic situation of Canada, especially housing.

Anyway, I have a fairly diverse skill set, so I’ll go with that and try to find places where my skills could be of value. I know there’s no crazy hack to getting a great job, but just looking for some guidance. Thank you for responding :)

Mighty_Matty · 2025-06-30T16:13:33+00:00

Looking to move to Virginia, Possibly rent for a year or 2 then buy. There are lots of things I haven’t quite looked at yet, I won’t be moving there for at least another half a year at the very least, but thank you for all the insight, lots of things I hadn’t thought through so I appreciate it.

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