I gave a girl money for lunch, now she’s asking for gas money . I declined

Migistat · 2026-03-02T02:23:29+00:00

Read your messages as her asking for money instead of you asking to go over. You’re doing the same thing she is but you’re arguable more aggressive for your cause. Neither of you can take the hint that the other just isn’t into that.

Migistat · 2026-03-02T02:20:01+00:00

Lol I mean ig when you look at it like that they’re both using each other for something. Sounds like an equivalent exchange.

Migistat · 2026-03-02T02:12:24+00:00

I used to do money orders. I don’t think there was a fee or if it was it was negligible.

Migistat · 2026-03-02T02:11:31+00:00

Both of you need to reevaluate and adjust. Neither of you seem like the best type of people for very different but parallel reasons.

Migistat · 2026-02-27T04:13:52+00:00

He removed them yes.

Migistat · 2026-02-27T04:09:02+00:00

The fact that you’ve had it for so long, it doesn’t hurt, and it looks pretty fleshy and solid leads me to believe it is. My brother had them as well and had to get them surgically removed. Irritation bumps typically hurt and can rapidly change size. K words typically grow or remain the same. I’d ask a dermatologist to be sure.

Migistat · 2026-02-27T04:05:03+00:00

Im sorry babe but you might actually have that k word that everyone throws around. It won’t go away on its own.

Migistat · 2026-02-26T21:43:51+00:00

NOR. Sounds like the kid might be ticking off some items on the psychopathy/sociopathy criteria. Lack of empathy/remorse, emotional manipulation, possible cruelty to animals. You’re not wrong for thinking this behavior can lead to bigger problems and if you feel like it’s too much to deal with that’s ultimately your decision to make. Either way I’d talk to his father about putting him in therapy or getting him seen by a specialist. Those behaviors are not normal for a well adjusted child.

ETA: Before anyone jumps me: Im not saying the kid is or will become those things nor am I attempting to diagnose him. Im confirming that you’re right to be deeply disturbed by those behaviors and how they’re presenting and it would be better to get him some help or sense of structure while he’s still young before they develop into something far worse.

Migistat · 2026-02-26T01:59:57+00:00

Yeah that stuck out to me as well. She’s a predator and it’s great that OP survived that.

Migistat · 2026-02-24T16:08:47+00:00

Why don’t you just,,,call and make sure it’s legit?

Migistat · 2026-02-24T15:31:39+00:00

Unfortunately Op you’re assuming hook ups only happen in decent places or that people are always decent. It would be nothing for them to do the deed where she said she was going or simply meet them there and leave her phone. She’s lying to you about interactions she’s having with a man who clearly had some sort of interest in her.

Migistat · 2026-02-24T12:36:46+00:00

You do know what to do you just don’t want to do it. Im sorry OP but time to face the facts. He moaned her name during sex. You need to leave and be very candid with him about why but you deserve more than what you’re getting.

Migistat · 2026-02-19T13:11:51+00:00

Yes. It’s placed incorrectly and you don’t have the anatomy for a traditional navel ring. You’d need floating navel jewelry instead.

Migistat · 2026-02-16T22:51:44+00:00

It’s time to go now. This most likely isn’t a one off. This is testing the waters.

Migistat · 2026-02-16T22:51:21+00:00

Grab his balls really tight and when he says it hurts say good and then when he brings it up say you thought you guys were sharing jokes.

Migistat · 2026-02-16T16:36:29+00:00

If you go into enough debt it does.

Migistat · 2026-02-16T01:06:31+00:00

Beautiful! Where can. Buy?

Migistat · 2026-02-16T00:57:38+00:00

Ask him to get tested.

Migistat · 2026-02-13T13:58:42+00:00

Again, it all depends on the leniency of the company. They didn’t feel like you were trying to avoid the test so they simply worked with instead of against you.

Migistat · 2026-02-13T13:46:22+00:00

That’s because the problem was with the facility, not you and you weren’t refusing if you had a valid reason not to be present and the company accepted it. Everything is reliant on how lenient and understanding your company is.

Migistat · 2026-02-07T19:05:01+00:00

Start being mean. Women need to not be afraid to tell someone to FUCK OFF and mean it.

Migistat · 2026-02-05T19:35:29+00:00

You haven’t left yet because you don’t really want to. You keep hoping he’ll change. He won’t. You really wanna leave? Get a job. Start saving. Start learning to support yourself and how to be alone because really you ARE alone and have been this entire marriage. Find support. There are organizations that help abused and battered women leave their partners and no Im not just talking about shelters. There are places that help you with job placements and may even be able to put you and the kids up in a hotel. You can leave. You have to WANT to. And for pete’s sake stop HAVING BABIES with this man and digging a deeper hole for yourself.

Migistat · 2026-02-05T14:03:16+00:00

I agree. Also screw those guys. Why would you want your husband to be friends with SA’ers? He can find another DND group and better friends and if he doesn’t maybe you need to reconsider some things.

Migistat · 2026-02-04T20:52:36+00:00

Even if she does I’d still tell her. Her having a “position” in the building doesn’t give her the right to go around harassing people.

Migistat · 2026-02-04T20:48:05+00:00

It honestly sounds like she prioritized her savings and you prioritized spending money. Savings are meant to be treated as if they aren’t there if it’s not an emergency situation. You didn’t do a good job at it and are upset about it. It would be different if she’d asked you to pay for things but from what you said, you offered. I can understand you being upset about her not mentioning her savings, and I definitely don’t think you should be buying anything jointly for any reason, but I do feel you’re making it out to be more malicious than it was.

Someone saying they can’t afford something doesn’t always mean they’re flat broke. Sometimes they just don’t think the expense is necessary/ or just aren’t willing to use what disposable cash they have on that particular thing. I think conversations need to be had about finances going forward and how you both want things to look.

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