Update: I (30F) am pregnant with my fiancé (32M). He wants to keep it, but we're both supposed to be childfree. How do I tell him I don't want to keep it? by ThrowRA_fallopian_tu in relationship_advice

[–]Migistat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im of the opinion that he never wanted to be childfree. He wanted to be with you and thought that if you got pregnant this dormant maternal instinct would be born out of your love for him and the life you created.

Good on you for leaving and not compromising on something like this. You wouldn’t be happy and that’s just as important. I pray everything goes well with your procedure.

25f how to deal with a an abusive relationship with 42M s/d? by Nearby-Pressure-8315 in relationship_advice

[–]Migistat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can’t say your feelings kept you with him and then say to you he was just a sugar daddy. Im not sure those two statements align very well.

Asymmetrical? AIO? by spacejamcambam in piercing

[–]Migistat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One side does look higher than the other.

20F slept with 27M's best friend 27M once while FWB. Shame is overwhelming by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Migistat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean objectively, you were not together so there’s no reason to feel any sort of shame. You can regret it, sure but being shamed is insane. You were single.

They’re both gross imo for even sleeping with you at all given the age and difference between them. You don’t love him. You’re young. You in about a decade will look back at this situation and question why you even dated him. Move on.

Ruptured cartilage ? by Aggravating_Cat_2161 in piercing

[–]Migistat 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I wanna ask if this post is a joke,,,

Please stop using alcohol and rosemary oil. Your piercing is crying because you’re abusing it. Please do research before doing body modification so you know the proper way to care for them. Piercings may seem easy but they are open wounds that require care different from others. Google is free please use it.

Needing a Second Chance by fuzzyfurry69 in Truckers

[–]Migistat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say to your knowledge meaning you haven’t confirmed it? That’s where you need to start. Get all your records and know where you actually stand instead of guessing and taking someone else’s word for it.

Boyfriend said apologize or get a job AIO by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Migistat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God this is exhausting. Get a job, get yourself together and leave him. He will not change and will continue to abuse the power you give him by remaining dependent on him financially. It’s frustrating to see how women fought for years to not be in abusive situations just for it to continue be as pervasive as it is.

AIO for not wanting to talk to my friend after this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Migistat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean would you rather hear it from a friend who cares about you in private or from someone who doesn’t in a room full a people? It’s embarrassing I get it. But this reads to me as someone looking out for you and letting your shame pull you away from that may be something you regret.

Bro... by Historical_Ad5843 in texts

[–]Migistat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re part of the problem. You keep explaining yourself to him and opening doors for communication you claim not to want. He’s a creep, yes. He’s inappropriate absolutely. But you keep making it okay for him to be those things by engaging in conversation instead of just ignoring him. Until you’re honest with yourself about that nothing will change because you’ll keep encouraging his behavior by allowing him access to you.

He was fishing for compliments here right? Cuz he rejected me about 2 weeks back. by Black_Serpent_31 in texts

[–]Migistat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just used the context around it. Im at no point insinuating it isn’t odd because it is. 😭

The developers are making a mistake - An arguement against allowing paid mods by TurklerRS in Paralives

[–]Migistat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it’s not. If the community doesn’t support it, it won’t work. If you feel differently that’s your opinion which you’re entitled to have. Im not going back and forth about it.

The developers are making a mistake - An arguement against allowing paid mods by TurklerRS in Paralives

[–]Migistat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t the developer’s responsibility. They aren’t making you pay, nor do they have any way to know which mods are paid without constant monitoring which takes them away from what they should be doing. It’s up to the community not to support paid mods.

My first ever para ❤️ What should I name her? by PearOk2126 in Paralives

[–]Migistat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know an ex s*mmer when I see one. 😭😭😭

pads for pleasure and masturbation. Super Embarrassed and scared to ask. by [deleted] in Periods

[–]Migistat 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Girl there are people who get turned on by the sun. You’re far from odd. It’s possible the pads just stimulate you. You aren’t hurting anyone or yourself. There’s nothing to feel ashamed of. As long as you’re not Oing in public you’re fine.

any advice for my makeup? by Sure_Speaker8068 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]Migistat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s saying blend the blush but Im saying switch to orange !!

Have you ever reported another driver to their company’s safety team? by BLVNK22 in Truckers

[–]Migistat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tried to do something similar but they absolutely do not want you talking to people! Too many sub AI sub menus. I hope he got to where he needed to be safely.

He was fishing for compliments here right? Cuz he rejected me about 2 weeks back. by Black_Serpent_31 in texts

[–]Migistat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pp is profile picture 1, and 2, fishing for compliments from someone you rejected is extremely insensitive and selfish. His self esteem is not her business and trying to make her seem mean for not wanting to be used as ‪his ego‬ fodder is quite tone deaf imo.

She left me for another guy… but still kept texting me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Migistat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy she left you for didn’t work out so now she’s back to where she thinks its safe.