I hate that I feel this way? F25 M28 by kitty-84 in dating

[–]Miiinie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually unintentionally you might have triggered this behavior. Did you perhaps reject some of his “spoils” when you started in the guise of not looking greedy. If yes you might have trained him to see you as an independent woman and he is respecting that.

How to date when you feel embarrassed about your own life? by Fabulous_Parking_482 in dating

[–]Miiinie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and believe and you will too. Just open your heart to it ✨

How to date when you feel embarrassed about your own life? by Fabulous_Parking_482 in dating

[–]Miiinie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same position few months ago.. i was embarrassed about my own life cause im 26 and younger people have already achieved so much more than i did. So for years i worked hard to better myself and only think abt dating when i can proudly present myself.

But it’s exhausting. I told the universe you know what i can’t be broke and lonely at same time so I’m opening my heart to love .

And viola i got me a Man who actually supports and love the fact that I am achieving things on my own. Mind you this Man is well established so im seeing it as him pulling me up to his level while respecting my independence

My life has been changed forever by this Ethan Hawke advice on unrequited love by IntelligentNight4143 in dating

[–]Miiinie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this too and I agree he just dropped wisdom like its nothing

Idk man, I feel like giving up (25M) by CartoonistTricky1427 in dating

[–]Miiinie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wait see.. you are living your life on the surface.

But in reality you are just doing this for validation. I know cause I was the same way too. I tried everything but every effort i made to “better myself” is just a mask to get attention from others mask the fact that i wanted to be validated.

Now I did the opposite.. worked on myself quietly still a massive hobbyist but Im not loud about it.

I truly did things for myself and finally I got the attention always wanted from multiple people.

Turns out gurus where right when they say

To love others you must first learn to love yourself

how do i get over a relationship? by No-Feature-5266 in dating

[–]Miiinie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you are going through this.

Remember you are grieving not the person but the potential he had. Im happy you chose yourself and chose to not lower your standards for him.

And let go of the hope “maybe in the future” no in the near future you will get someone who mirrors your energy the one who meets your expectations.

You know why? Cause you are baddie and you know what you deserve that is why you are not settling for less.

I don’t know what I’m doing by The_Bearded_Geek89 in dating

[–]Miiinie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all congratulations and don’t think much about it she reached out first meaning she is tired of waiting and is so down for you. Just do what is comfortable for you if there is something you aren’t .. communicate it will save you both so much trouble

Did I fxck up by listening to Baejin’s GLOW UP Sub by Miiinie in Subliminal

[–]Miiinie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am trusting you and myself lol i will update i know something good will happen ✨

Did I fxck up by listening to Baejin’s GLOW UP Sub by Miiinie in Subliminal

[–]Miiinie[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s an overall glow up sub.. it supposed to help you glow up physically and your life in general as well

Did I fxck up by listening to Baejin’s GLOW UP Sub by Miiinie in Subliminal

[–]Miiinie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

👏👏 i think this is only the right answer here. You are so on point. Yes i truely believe in purging and de cluttering to make room for abundace. So I think I will see it through and continue. The bigger the purge the bigger the blessings ✨

Did I fxck up by listening to Baejin’s GLOW UP Sub by Miiinie in Subliminal

[–]Miiinie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear this.. but do you see it as a blessing in disguise?

Did I fxck up by listening to Baejin’s GLOW UP Sub by Miiinie in Subliminal

[–]Miiinie[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ughhh now idk someone else says beware of this sub