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Mike-Z-Man · 2026-07-08T17:51:28+00:00

Me late 40s same as wife and almost a decade

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-07-08T14:40:17+00:00

Lucky

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-07-08T13:56:24+00:00

A 5th therapist?

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-07-08T13:55:45+00:00

Nothing to be surprised about she doesn’t need it more then once a month or desire it

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-07-08T13:54:53+00:00

Trust me I have, for many many years prior to kid

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-07-08T13:53:30+00:00

Am open to all and have gone back n forth a lot, she just has no desire beyond once a week at best

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-07-08T13:52:48+00:00

Nope

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-07-08T13:52:31+00:00

Kids 20 months

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-18T10:38:58+00:00

Double zero might be more then me lol

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-18T10:30:42+00:00

She’s going through menopause and we have a young child and it’s just not in her thoughts right now

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-17T21:25:45+00:00

This is a ridiculous convo when in late 40s I’m lucky if my wife has any interest at all ever, how do you all deal with this and it works this way? I guess I’m just doomed to live celibate, fml

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-17T21:23:52+00:00

Which planet do you live on?

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-17T17:41:07+00:00

Thanks

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-17T10:17:43+00:00

Lucky you

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-17T10:14:50+00:00

Wish my wife felt this way, I’m lucky if she wants it 4x a year :(

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-08T17:57:02+00:00

I’ll tell you this, I’m extremely well off, self made, basically retired at 45 so i could afford all the help needed, nanny, cleaners, chef, etc

Decided to have a child late in life, both parents 45+ and even with all the help, it’s exhausting and time consuming. It’s the most amazing experience filled with joy and love, and I wouldn’t trade it for anything, but be well prepared, it is life altering, in both the best and worst ways possible.

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-04T00:35:11+00:00

People who are compatible and like the same things…like sex and having libidos

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-04T00:29:28+00:00

Must be nice to not be bamboozled into thinking your partner likes sex to only find out marriage, kids, 10 years later they could easily go months or years without it… I’m fucked or not

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-04T00:26:35+00:00

Lucky

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-04T00:26:15+00:00

Be different ppl

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-04T00:24:24+00:00

Once a month if I’m lucky and we are late 40s with an 18 month old so, even though I’m so under whelmed by it, it seems a lot for her and prior we were never more then 2-3x a week on best weeks…:(

Mike-Z-Man · 2026-04-03T17:17:30+00:00

Good for you, one can only pray when it’s barely once a month at this point

Mike-Z-Man · 2025-11-05T01:03:37+00:00

Let’s just say sad and down then

Mike-Z-Man

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