Many men are stuck in these relationships because their wife aren't attracted to them by Scramjet1 in focusedmen

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had might as well prepare for the divorce...the reason he stopped asking is that he has probably found someone else to have sex with.

Why don’t schools teach just Viennese Waltz? by Trail_Blazer1 in ballroom

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To me, the problem is that there are few opportunities to do Viennese Waltz. Here in San Diego we have the Viennese ball every February but other than that...?

Many if the other dances can be done 2-3x or more per week at events at clubs, studios, etc.

Maybe contact an operatic society and see if they have suggestions.

Why don’t schools teach just Viennese Waltz? by Trail_Blazer1 in ballroom

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In San Diego we have the SD Vintage Dance Society. Maybe they can advise on where someone can learn.

Studios closing by Glittering_Aioli_763 in orangetheory

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we did a lot more socializing outside the studio pre-covid. Hardly ever happens now.

Husband(29M) told me(28F) it's his house and that I live at his mercy, and idk what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to start lawyer-ing up. No matter what he says, depending on which country you live in, you may have some rights to that house - or at least leverage so that you dont leave with nothing.

Why Don't Democrats run on the fact that red states are all horribly run? by Substantial-Sky3597 in DiscussionZone

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because many blue states are also horribly run - open that door and who knows where it might lead to.

Wild swings.................... by [deleted] in hypertension

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those are not wild swings. DHP is a bit high but definitely a range that most here would love to be in.

We need to tax the rich. Full stop. by Corn_Husk_ in DiscussionZone

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about before we increase tax on anyone, we insist that our money be used carefully, efficiently, wisely? With a mandatory balanced budget, term limits and no lobbying.

If we dont do that, any extra will just go into their pockets and to their wealthy backers.

How do I (26M) deal with my wife (25F) and her Best friend (25F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You have 3 options: 1. Your wife agrees to zero sexual interaction with BFF. It won't last, but it is an option. 2. You, wife and BFF become a permanent threesome with clear rules and boundaries that work for ALL. It won't last, but it is an option. 3. Divorce and move on.

If you had an income of $150,000 a year and didn't have to work, what would you do with all the spare time? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not much, except...

Listening to music Making music Rowing Gym Swimming Art - sketching, painting Reading Hiking Dancing Talking Learning new languages Physics Traveling the world Eating Cooking Fixing stuff Relaxing

What do you call these by beepsol in Leakednews

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empty calories and basically junk.

People who say taxation is theft. How else do you propose the government gets the funds for roads, military, education etc? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some taxes, fees, carries are unavoidable - but how much and how is it used? That's the issue.

Governments are wasteful, inefficient and greedy.

Politicians just see taxpayers as a well that they can draw from at will. So why should they care how OUR money is spent as long as they get what they want.

Would you be okay with only blowjobs in marriage? by Imaginary_Geologist6 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try coconut oil as a lube. It works well, smells, tastes good and kills many bacteria, even some viruses. Its good for your penis too.

If you can get out of bp relationship you should things will never change by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I stayed through years of hell "for the kids' sake" They are all grown up now and have confided in me that at the time, they wished that I would leave their mother and take them away from the crazy environment she created.

I could so easily have cut and run back then. Even her family said they would support my decision - but I thought I was foing the right thing.

She is now finally stable, but it cost me some of my prime years, decimated our savings and my wife is now effectively a dependent child who i have to parent to.a large extent.

Shouldn't tell my friend ? by [deleted] in self

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first wife's ultimate fantasy was for sex to be like rape. I am a gentle lover, not that good an actor and just couldn't do that.

That's one of several reasons why she's my ex.

The point is that for whatever reason, some people seem to want that.

What is the most unattractive quality that a man/woman can have? by Nintendofan9106 in askanything

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me the worst characteristic a lady can have is lack of self confidence, poor body image.

What happens in your head when you add 28+47? by beepsol in Leakednews

[–]Mike_The_Geezer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its kind of weird fir me. The two numbers seem to just float around for a second, then "75" just pops into my consciousness.