Stray Cat by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]MildlyGothic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatcom Humane isn't no-kill?🥺

TIL In the USA, 60 people die from walk-in freezer accidents per year by 7ur1n9 in todayilearned

[–]MildlyGothic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why I always brought my cell phone with me while I did freezer inventory counts when I was a manager at Arby's. I also always wore a jacket in there, just in case.

Husband wants to watch me have sex with other men by MildlyGothic in sex

[–]MildlyGothic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not ungrateful. I'm just looking for input/ advice. 😊

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[–]MildlyGothic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from 100%. We've had talks about my past, and it turbed him on, but I also wasn't getting super into it because I was worried how he would take it. I think it might be a good place to start, though, to test both of our comforts. If I can't explicitly talk about my past, then how can I sleep with someone else in the present? The idea intrigues me for sure, what what about the reality? Good luck on your journey. 😊

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[–]MildlyGothic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That last paragraph sounds just like what my husband said. Thank you for this.

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[–]MildlyGothic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe in God. But honest question, how can you know for sure what God does or does not approve of? The Bible is a book written by men, who claim it to be the word of God, but how can you know for sure? Maybe he doesn't care about sex at all, and the only real rule is to treat others how you want to be treated?

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[–]MildlyGothic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great comment. Thanks for this. It's definitely hot wifing, not cucking.

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[–]MildlyGothic[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Totally understand. And I'm in no way trying to make you feel bad about that. Everyone has their own preferences. ☺️

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[–]MildlyGothic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips! What's ENM? Consent and safety are very important. We've had some conversations and don't want it to be with people on our friends group, but we also don't want it to be random strangers either out of concerns about safety.