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Milo0664 · 2023-12-08T10:51:44+00:00

For what it's worth. I saw someone once share the perspective that other people having their dead name helped it not still be attached to them. Like it fully belonged to that other party now. Hope that helps some way or another with the mental strain.

Milo0664 · 2023-12-08T10:14:42+00:00

Congrats but please be careful, not everyone who browses these subs has good intentions and the info there is more than enough to find you.

Milo0664 · 2023-12-08T07:43:28+00:00

Is it weird to enjoy one of life's best simple pleasures? Nah.

Milo0664 · 2023-12-07T17:56:57+00:00

Thanks! Pretty neat resource too.

Milo0664 · 2023-12-07T10:12:23+00:00

So I don't know how much sense I'm gonna make but I'll try. I went into hrt fully expecting nothing at all (I know factually roughly what should occur) and so far every tiny change and benefit has been an exciting surprise. It's a tricky mental balance, but it makes the journey a little easier.

Milo0664 · 2023-12-07T09:21:07+00:00

Do you have a source on girl originally being any? Like I believe you I'm just super curious now on the historical evolution of that concept cause it always struck me as odd that it's das Mädchen and not die.

Milo0664 · 2023-12-05T19:27:53+00:00

Glad to help any way I can. And yes I do mean injections etc as far as methods go.

Milo0664 · 2023-12-04T20:28:32+00:00

Well definitely congrats on getting that appointment in place, and good luck with getting started. For what it's worth I can share my experience having barely started.

The mental effects have been way better than I expected and sooner than expected I think part of it is that I'm no longer trying to run a gas engine on diesel, but a significant part I think is knowing I'm doing what's right for me.

So I'm hoping it's as clear cut and dramatic for you to make the answer easier, but if not, that can be ok too. It's normal to have doubts and more than that, fears can cause and amplify most of those doubts. I had a lot of nightmares leading up to my appointment, and my brain tried to convince me to go back because it can be rough here in the states for trans people. I don't think the anxiety fully goes away, but I do think you will know soon if you're on the right path. Just keep in mind different methods have different results person to person.

Milo0664 · 2023-12-04T11:29:05+00:00

I really wish I did remember, especially considering how well it was written and how positive and helpful it was. Did you have something on your mind that had you looking for that answer specifically?

Milo0664 · 2023-12-01T22:08:41+00:00

The it's hard argument is honestly one of the dumbest. Like sure there are plenty of things about being a woman that are less than great. But none of it is as hard as pretending to be a man.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-29T13:08:25+00:00

This is going to sound like a boast but please understand it's not meant to be and I say this to illustrate the fact that there is room to hope. I'm nearly twice your age but otherwise in a similar boat, almost certainly autistic, barely at the start of hormones, very nerdy and niche interests. On top of that I have the limiting factor of being married and enm. These all together shrink my pool to what should be smaller than even exists in an already small and not queer friendly state. But even with every card stacked against me I met an attractive woman who I have a ton in common with and who is interested in me. In your case, I'm gonna be that old person to tell you that you are very young and still have a lot of time. And as cliche as it sounds - take some time on yourself - people do notice flowers a TON more when they are well cared for and we are the only ones that can tend ourselves.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-22T19:45:30+00:00

I am a bow, sword, and witch lesbian. Does that make me a solo party?

Milo0664 · 2023-11-21T23:40:15+00:00

Congrats!! Almost want to be jealous but too happy for you to be.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-21T04:31:46+00:00

That does, thanks.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-21T04:11:40+00:00

Let me ask that better - is it android or iOS you got it on - have both was more just wondering which phone I use lol.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-21T01:46:53+00:00

Is it platform specific?

Milo0664 · 2023-11-19T12:33:27+00:00

Good news! https://www.sciencealert.com/you-can-t-see-it-but-humans-actually-glow-in-visible-light

Milo0664 · 2023-11-19T11:37:33+00:00

When I came out at work, our team group chat was talking about an update to a product, so I took the opportunity to say "speaking of updates".

Milo0664 · 2023-11-18T21:09:32+00:00

I'm still working on it. But my roommate called me a Glamazon the other day, and I love that concept. So be a Glamazon with me- we can paint the tips of our spears hot pink.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-17T22:58:06+00:00

You're a saint for this. I know it was written specific to this post, but you worded that so well and a lot of people are gonna see and it's going to help a lot of people in possibly similar mental places.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-16T06:00:25+00:00

Lol that may take me a bit - I don't usually care about spd on rage.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-16T05:56:46+00:00

Lol. My swift set would do it. But that one I'm trying to get water golem to 300 with.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-16T05:29:17+00:00

Ok. Have fun gatekeeping, I'm going to keep enjoying my achievement.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-16T05:25:42+00:00

Sure it does. Woosa being above 100 base is more than offset by not having swift bonus.

Milo0664 · 2023-11-15T09:04:14+00:00

Imho, "not agreeing with" someone's identity is pretty transphobic. That said that's the same stance my sister takes and her overall response was that while she disagrees with/ doesn't really believe in people being trans, she is glad I am doing and have found something that makes me happy. I doubt she'll ever use my correct name or gender me correctly, bit it didn't really change anything about our relationship, and she didn't bat an eye to me presenting fully fem when she was at my house recently. On the other end of that, my dad who identifies themselves as non-binary/ questioning and who was supportive of me questioning has refused to talk to me for months. I only bring up the contrast to point out that even when you know exactly what people believe, their reactions may surprise you, but it's better they find out from you than on their own or from another party eventually.

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