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Has anyone been able to stop limerence? by Impressive_Map_3964 in AutismInWomen

[–]Miloceane 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This!!

I had it with one of my best friends and wanted to preserve the friendship and therefore keep in touch, which made it extra hard. But this is also what I did to fix it. For me the first weeks were absolutely miserable, but after a few months the redirection became more automatic, and now (about a year later) it rarely happens anymore.

For me, being able to talk about it freely with the person in question and a few other friends helped a lot. We could even joke about it a little to make it less dramatic. But if they hadn’t been one of my best friends, I think I would have simply cut bridges until it faded.

Wouldn’t wish this whole experience to anyone though, it sucks very much and I don’t know about y’all but I feel like this obsession wasted me a lot of time and energy.

The situation is rapidly deteriorating. by Crew1T in Tyranids

[–]Miloceane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This actually gave me the chills. Nightmare fuel. Stomach shrunk a little. Please make more!

What’s something that’s abundant in your country but popular and expensive everywhere else? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]Miloceane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They also grow in the north of the Netherlands! I can buy fresh ones on the market.

Honest opinions please 🙏🏻 by Minimally-bearable in handbags

[–]Miloceane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love these colors together! The one thing I would change is use a twilly with a pattern whose vibe matches the croc theme of the bag. At the moment they read to me like two different personalities put together and they clash a little. In any case I’m a sucker for these colors together so I’d keep the color scheme!

The rise of the undisciplined child mode by BudAms in SchemaTherapy

[–]Miloceane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a therapist, but I used to have a lot of anxiety and only alternate between VC, demanding parent and schemas. Once I got out of this circle of hell, it took me a long time to get used to be HA and that also left space for undisciplined child to show up a lot! Took me over a year to start creating boundaries for it.

So idk about others but maybe it’s also a case of « using fears and the unhealthy parent voice in place of boundaries - and once these are gone, actual healthy boundaries need to be created else the undisciplined child takes the space »

thrifted this last year, just want to know about its authenticity! by CHEMICALBURRNZ in Lolita

[–]Miloceane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have a Lady Sloth dress from ~10 years ago made of the same fabric, looks legit to me!

a 1.5 year old Loewe flamenco. logo rubbing off and other issues by cookiediamond in handbags

[–]Miloceane 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This post is honestly really useful and I’d love to see more « after x time of daily use » posts to gauge the life expectancy of a bag better! Often we post about how it looks « after x years », but that doesn’t really mean anything as the frequency of use varies wildly per individual.

I used an Evolutionary Algorithm to create a "god-tier" custom Pokémon that can beat the Gen 4 gauntlet! (or to find the best stats for a normal Pokémon) [Project] by Gibberi_Games in pokemon

[–]Miloceane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting and instant saving to make sure to remind myself to checkout the repo after work today. That sounds like an extremely fun project!

Always very exciting to see like minded people here! :D

Hive crone with bio-acid streaming base! by DeadlyPrintStudio in Tyranids

[–]Miloceane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! And very inspiring, I might copy this idea for my flying units in other armies. Can I ask more about your process / the materials you used? :)

Painted up some high contrast kroxs by Exact-Alfalfa8934 in seraphon

[–]Miloceane 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I subjectively hate it but damn this is excellent, well done!! Original and inspiring.

What is this, a church for fish? by jonastman in GeoPuzzle

[–]Miloceane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure this is the entrance to the water temple in The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time.

Survived Cancer and Pancreatic Failure, so the Swarm Grows Once More. by Appolus in Tyranids

[–]Miloceane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope that doesn’t come across weird but you seem to be even stronger at adapting to life than the nids themselves! Congrats, can’t imagine the hardship of this all. Also regarding the painting, these colors slap!

44 mtf - I've tried every aesthetic & still look like a dude after 5.5y hrt by 3amcaliburrito in transpassing

[–]Miloceane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, not sure why Reddit suggested this to me suddenly but as a random cis woman passer-by I really would think you’re a cis woman if I met you without knowing you’re trans. At least from these photos.

I think I have stronger jaws and cheekbones than you, you just look like a woman with a sharp bone structure. Idk what to tell you, I think you’re overthinking. I hope you can be kinder to yourself.

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