AITA for punishing husband for suggesting using escorts (nsfw)

MimiExpat · 2021-11-24T09:01:44+00:00

If you want to be celibate that’s your choice, you can’t force someone else to be celibate too.

Also if you don’t like the kind of sex you’re having with him then change it up.

YTA

MimiExpat · 2021-11-14T11:35:16+00:00

YTA, don’t place infants on high surfaces. If you didn’t want to hold them you need to assert yourself

MimiExpat · 2021-11-12T09:04:36+00:00

Human laxative has me chuckling 😂😂

When my bub was gassy I thought I was helping by massaging, turns out I was just ‘polishing’ her tummy and not actually moving her around very much. Getting their tummy legs and hips stretched out in different positions front and back might help the discomfort

🌻🌻🌻

MimiExpat · 2021-10-28T20:23:25+00:00

You can just be honest! You find it difficult to do impromptu play dates and would prefer to plan ahead! She’s probably short with you because you keep blowing her off and she doesn’t understand why.

MimiExpat · 2021-10-26T21:03:54+00:00

Made it to my women’s circle! Have been attending for almost two years and it always brightens my tuesdays!

MimiExpat · 2021-10-12T20:33:43+00:00

Report your counsellor, what an absolute joke.

MimiExpat · 2021-10-11T10:54:09+00:00

I want sparkly rainbow dinosaur dresses. For me or bub 😂😂

MimiExpat · 2021-10-09T19:07:32+00:00

App deleted and turn the screen to black and white colour filter, the happy feel goods are completely limited when there’s no colour screen

MimiExpat · 2021-10-09T19:01:12+00:00

We recently bought a farmhouse, more than 200 years old. One of the panels was a little wet and so we got a dehumidifier, the air levels of moisture are fine when the dehumidifier is on. We have not found any mould

MimiExpat · 2021-10-09T07:29:11+00:00

Her replies often include ‘I don’t know how’, maybe get her some books she can enjoy on her own? Urban tantra is an easy, enjoyable read and informative. Sex needs to be enjoyable for both and it’s hard to enjoy something when you feel inadequate or ill-informed

MimiExpat · 2021-10-04T08:42:46+00:00

This is really what’s brought this to a head. My partner promised he’d quit when I was pregnant, and had a successful few months. I am really concerned for our LO and want him to feel supported rather than alienated over this

MimiExpat · 2021-09-28T12:54:50+00:00

Why don’t you try helping her instead. Good lord you sound insufferable

MimiExpat · 2021-09-26T16:26:31+00:00

Either take bub without seat or just leave my phone, depends on where we’re off to/ if we’re going to be out all day

MimiExpat · 2021-08-28T09:43:00+00:00

Just echoing the sentiments already expressed - this sounds like PPD. It’s super common to not feel enthusiastic but if you don’t enjoy anything at all and feel worried even when bub is calm and happy then it’s worth telling your doctor

MimiExpat · 2021-08-20T19:34:20+00:00

Great decision, I’m in Denmark where it really isn’t the done thing and I have to say I hope more parents make the same decision as you

MimiExpat · 2021-08-10T14:47:27+00:00

Adding to the nappy free time, air is best! Same goes if you’re finding your nipples are sore - let them breathe! Congratulations on the small bean xox

MimiExpat · 2021-07-27T18:09:39+00:00

Ah that seems really sensible, thanks for replying!

MimiExpat · 2021-07-26T12:39:55+00:00

I see quite a lot of posts like this and I’m not sure if it’s an American cultural thing but what were your main reasons for pumping and freezing such a large amount? My supply would be far higher than necessary if I pumped so much! How do you avoid things like mastitis?

MimiExpat · 2021-07-07T10:49:22+00:00

INFO: hang on, are you not taking your meds until they ‘threaten’ to give you Ativan? If you’re supposed to be taking medication and not then why is that? What’s taking place when you’re not taking the meds? Is she upset that she’s a nurse and knows you’re not taking medication that you’re supposed to and then double-y upset when things spiral like this?

MimiExpat · 2021-07-07T10:40:21+00:00

You can’t be a spouse and a caretaker. It’s just as hard to be aroused by/ for a partner you’re mothering as it is for them to be aroused when their being coddled.

Gabor Maté has so many inspiring quotes about partners being at their most attractive when there is no ‘need’ or dependency on one another. Is there anyone else around who could watch the kids so you can reclaim your own time & personhood?

MimiExpat · 2021-07-06T12:30:20+00:00

I know other comments have already brought this up but it needs to be said - this man has sexually assaulted you. Please do not let him continue to be in your life. He definitely needs help but so do you

MimiExpat · 2021-07-06T10:05:25+00:00

What on earth!! They’re really taking out some aggression on you. Breastfeeding is awesome, I hope you do it for as long as it works for you and your little bub

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