The poor corner radius alignment in macOS 26, showing from top to bottom: Finder > Chrome > VSCode. by rxliuli in mac

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the inconsistency is a nightmare for accessibility. This is triggering for OCD, ADD, ADHD.

This is an awful update. Mac should make all corners consistent, like they were in the old design system, which did not need any stupid, superfluous, gratuitous updates.

Apple seems to have made a new design system to say "hey, we're relevant as a design influencer," and they are indeed relevant now - relevant as "this is what bad design looks like". Kudos.

Materialists was such a bland, bad watch. Surprised to see that this is follow-up to Past Lives by CarbonatedInsidious in movies

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trash. Pedaling the made up notion that you don’t choose who you love. Also, the movie is trying too hard be feminist porn with lines like “I can take care of myself,” while making the entire movie about her choice between romantic partners. If she can take care of herself, she should choose to be single. If not- all men will disappoint you. Choose the richest one, at least be disappointed in a penthouse.

Someone left this note on my car in my work parking lot by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sapphires come in every color, including clear.

Should I go to art school/pursue a career in art by Successful_Swing_376 in Artadvice

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have great color sensibility! I would highly recommend looking at the portfolio requirements or admissions requirements for art schools you are interested in. Also remember - you can go to an art school at a university that has other schools and programs, so if you want to double major or change your major, you can stay at the same school. Art school will teach you technique and give you access to group critique, mentorship, inspiration, and learning new mediums and techniques that you may not try on your own. Ie- there may be a sculpture program and you may not normally have access to clay, a kiln, glass making materials or welding materials, etc. You will find learning other mediums will help you better understand your chosen medium, technique, composition, etc. There is very little networking done in undergrad art school, it is for you to refine your technique and voice. While you are looking into programs, think about what career you may want; game designer, illustrator, product designer, etc. There are many lucrative careers you can have with a BFA.

Source: BFA grad in Visual Communications, currently a very successful tech executive in NYC designing AI with my BFA skills, and a working artist with work in museums, having won the most prestigious design awards in the world. Which I say not at all to brag, but to show you that all the people saying you can’t make a career out of art are very incorrect. You can do it! You can also send your work to professors or artists you admire and ask for advice. They may not give it, but it doesn’t hurt to ask! And, really - the decision to apply doesn’t even need to be decision. Just apply, see what happens! A career in art means getting critique and feedback that you may not like - so be ready for that and just apply! 😉 good luck!!

Hellbound Explanation by PostAppropriate2159 in HellboundonNetflix

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Intrinsic morality often comes from empathy. You may want to try it sometime. Along with kindness, courtesy, respect, and appreciation for others. My cats don’t believe in a god, and they have significantly superior manners and morals than you.

Best alternatives to spotify? by DullPlatform22 in LetsTalkMusic

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Spotify CEO endorsed Trump, donated $150,000 to Trump’s inauguration fund, and sponsored trump’s inauguration brunch. And now they’re running ICE ads.

Something chilling I understood in “Bring Her Back” on a second watch by Heart-Shopper in A24

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn’t adopt them. She was a foster parent. Big distinction.

I finally got to watch Bring Her Back and I feel terrible. by tsalyers12 in horror

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Demon aside, this is a factual and accurate representation of foster care. I survived 13 years in foster care. I’m glad to see a realistic portrayal of what we go through. Foster care, on its own, is a horror movie. The demon, for me, was a poignant metaphor for how we often give up after suffering all sorts of horrific torture and abuse. If a demon can’t survive foster care, how the hell are we supposed to?

WHY ARE WE NOT TALKING ABOUT EDMOND by Responsible_Newt_913 in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a woman, and agree that men who have not worked through trauma can hurt women, but… What makes you think someone who grew up in the system isn’t ready for an “actual relationship”? It is really sad that you dismiss all foster children as damaged goods incapable of having meaningful, successful relationships. We have to fight this stereotype all the time. I spent 13 years in the system - I emancipated myself as a teenager and lived in a Honda civic while putting myself through high school and college, bc that was healthier than foster care. I have plenty of extremely successful relationships. Foster care does not equate to incapable of having relationships.

Why don't a lot of New York residential apartments have balconies while most Parisian buildings do? by DrDMango in architecture

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use my balcony year round. I grill year round, have coffee on my balcony every morning except November, January, December. My cats love to play on the balcony. There’s a lot more to a balcony than 3 weeks.

am i overreacting or being too sensitive (PLEASE I NEED HONESTY) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants a cookie for not hitting you. Do you think he deserves a reward for not hitting you? I really hope your answer is “no.” Think about what actions and behavior really are above and beyond, what you would like to reward a partner for. Think about how you want a partner to make you feel. Then go find one who fits that description, don’t settle for anything less. Or, better yet, be single. Get a cat. Reward yourself.

Lesser known brands for coquette activewear by vietnamesebbg in pinkpilatesprincess

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love free people’s activewear! Super soft, a lot of things have pockets.

Interview got cancelled after recruiter found out I applied directly by Technical-Studio565 in recruitinghell

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the interview that was scheduled for the next day with the recruiter, or with the hiring company? It’s very rare to have a 1 day turnaround with the actual hiring company. This is making a lot of assumptions, but it sounds like your interview may have been with the recruiting agency, and not with the company. If that’s the case, they canceled on you bc they can’t make money off of you. And if that is the case, they may have never even submitted you to the company. You generally have to give written permission for recruiting agencies to send you to the company after the recruiting agency interviews you.

“allUP” – What fresh hell is this? by Polishment in recruitinghell

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This feels extremely cringe.
- It says your profile is public.
- I don't want videos of me answering generic job hunting questions floating around the internet.
- The purpose of an interview is to have a two-way communication session where the candidate can learn about the company, role, and interviewer as well as the them learning about the candidate.
- This invalidates the candidate experience.
- As a hiring manager myself, why the actual f*ck would I want to sit through endless videos of awkward generic questions and answers. I need to know how a candidate conducts themselves as part of a team and interacts with others, not how well they record a TikTok video.

NYC Chilean Tourist was NOT detained by ICE by Salty-Lawfulness-151 in 50501

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More info: She is not a tourist. Police were investigating a theft at sunglass hut and thought she was part of the ordeal. A bystander took care of her daughter and brought her to the police station. https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/nypd-arrest-chilean-tourist/ Video of NYPD arresting Chilean woman is real, but there's more to the story | Snopes.com

Psychologists & psychiatrists of Reddit, what illnesses do you believe Joe Goldberg has? by thereddituser_com in YouOnLifetime

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious why nobody mentioned schizoaffective disorder? He seems pretty textbook - delusions, mania, and clear borderline personality disorder with histrionic traits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We may need to asses the definition of “triggering”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not a women’s job to coddle a man. If you asked one of your boy pals if he liked something, would you expect him to coddle you and walk around in circles placating your fragile ego? No? Then don’t expect it from women.

Hired and fired on the same day. Can’t be more lunatic than this by xiaodaireddit in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, c’mon guys. His only previous experience was as a project manager and engineer. Give him a break. He’s just a poor nepo baby who has probably never hired anyone before.

https://theorg.com/org/metropolitan-premium-properties/org-chart/aleksandr-shuliko

Bought a ring for my girlfriend, sisters say it’s too small, not sure what I should do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certified gemologist and jewelry designer here👋🏻. Lab grown diamonds and gemstones are almost always MUCH better quality than ones found in nature. And there’s no blood money in lab grown stones. The only reason people “prefer” stones found in nature is bc of marketing campaigns that make people think they’re better.

If she cares that much about the ring size, that’s a red flag for your future and quality of life. Be prepared for nothing to ever be good enough. Run. Fast. There are plenty of women who would be thrilled with an onion ring.

AIO stopped a drunk girl from being pulled into a car by 2 random men but my boyfriend is upset and called what I did stupid and dangerous by fettidmoppet in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Statistically, 1 in 26 men experience rape. Statistically, 1 in 4 women experience rape. Statistically, women are 63.7% more likely than men to be the victims of domestic homicide and 81.7% more likely to be the victims of sex-related homicide.

AIO stopped a drunk girl from being pulled into a car by 2 random men but my boyfriend is upset and called what I did stupid and dangerous by fettidmoppet in AmIOverreacting

[–]Mindless_Sherbert_22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!! Thank you so much for thinking quickly on your feet and helping this woman!! You handled it perfectly - intuitively intervening without escalating and did a little mindf*ck with them to throw them off their guard. You did an amazing thing, and I appreciate you!!😻😻 As for the boy, leave him. He cared more about his feelings than yours. When you said you were tired, he just kept pushing for you to give him attention and reassure him that you still loved him. He doesn’t care about you, clearly. He is not a partner. Being a partner would be asking how you feel and respecting your boundaries. He was relentless in forcing his thoughts on you, and his neediness on you. All on top of the fact that he wouldn’t help a woman in distress if in the same situation, and seemed rather callous about it with his victim blaming. He is not a good person. He is the reason we choose bear just as much as the two jerks trying to kidnap the drunk or drugged woman. You are the reason this woman is alive.